SP texting 9 hours later

[2tuff2quit]

Hi everyone something really weird happened to me last week.I texted a girl at 11 am to see I if could see her around 2 or 3 pm.
She texts me back at 8 pm saying ''Je suis au motel ideal all weekend''
Problem is my wife heard the beep and saw the message......
I told her must be a wrong number ???To close for comfort.
Is it me or was the text a little too late

 

[EagerBeaver]

You chose texting as the method of communication so it's on you. You can't expect someone, an SP or anyone else, will choose when they can respond to your communication.

You text an SP and she may respond in 5 minutes or late at night, how would she know you are with your wife?

 

[HornyForEver]

More and more SPs, especially the younger ones, prefer texting over phone calls. This offers them the luxury of responding whenever they are available and/or whenever they need clients. On the other hand, clients who communicate by SMS are flagged as not being serious. So I guess these SPs are trading the dependability of the client for flexibility.

It is very common for an SP to respond to an SMS 24 hours later.

 

[Lusty Pig]

This whole texting bullshit universe that has everyone enveloped will be the source of divorce and general shit disturbing of all of you. I understand with the younger generation this is all they know but the older guys like me know better NOT to leave any clues behind.

 

[Vercingentorix]

If you people are serious about this game and want to play it on a higher level, you should get yourselves a separate phone. I would never use my business cell to call for these special deliveries. I had a separate phone. I called it "the hooker Hotline" phone, or simply the hooker phone. In it I had all the escort agency and Indy numbers as well as many private numbers of agency girls. It worked for me.

This seems like VERY SENSIBLE ADVICE. I can't get over the stupidity of some trying to use their primary communication hardware, unless they have no one but the NSA with access to the information trail. I mean you might as well plan on a divorce and/or job termination otherwise. You can get burner phones for so cheap, why take the chance?

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I favour emails...more discreet than text and God forbid phone calls...

 

[SilverDust]

I agree emails are more discreet. I use a second cell for sms for confirmation or with known sp... 2tuff that almost happened to me, I leave the phone on silent...

 

[sugarbear1966]

This whole texting bullshit universe that has everyone enveloped will be the source of divorce and general shit disturbing of all of you. I understand with the younger generation this is all they know but the older guys like me know better NOT to leave any clues behind.

So you are under the belief that texting is more of a detriment and threat to marriage than deceiving your wife with an sp...interesting point of view

 

[EagerBeaver]

So you are under the belief that texting is more of a detriment and threat to marriage than deceiving your wife with an sp...interesting point of view

It is the messenger who is the threat, not the method of the message. In my opinion married guys have no business criticizing one duplicitous method of communicating behind his spouse's back over another.

Bottom line, texting is the preferred method to communicate with younger SPs, and if you can't handle that, see older maids or masturbate.

 

[HornyForEver]

So you are under the belief that texting is more of a detriment and threat to marriage than deceiving your wife with an sp...interesting point of view

I did not want to end up this lovely weekend with some gging, but I have to admit that I agree with your post. I have nothing to hide from anybody, so texting is still the most convenient way for me to communicate.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I always prefer to text, more convenient, the booker can answer you in the next 30 mins or so without problem, if there is a delay you can always ask by text without having to disturb him. Personally i use my regular phone... I will call only if asked or if there is any special demands or whatever... when its complicated. But if i want to see a girl, ask if she is avalaible at 6 for exemple, yes she is, then we settle all of it by text and its all good.

I aint shy about what i do, but i wouldn't see myself calling an agency in the bus, or in a restaurant... would be a bit awkward.

 

[IamNY]

More and more SPs, especially the younger ones, prefer texting over phone calls.

The reason for so many SP's and probably agencies preferring to get text messages over phone calls is because it's easy to download an app to your phone like Google Translate and be able to communicate with customers without being in total command of English.

As far as getting busted by your wife looking at your text messages.....C'mon man!

 

[EagerBeaver]

As far as getting busted by your wife looking at your text messages.....C'mon man!

+1 A bunch of Tiger Woods wannabes

 

[HornyForEver]

The reason for so many SP's and probably agencies preferring to get text messages over phone calls is because it's easy to download an app to your phone like Google Translate and be able to communicate with customers without being in total command of English.

I would not bet my salary on that. Most people in Montreal manage to communicate orally in both languages. I think, and as I stated above, many SPs prefer texting to phone calls for the asynchrony that the former medium of communication offers, JMO.

 

[EastRL0000]

ummm google voice ..... get it learn it love it. or get a prepaid sim .. slip it in and out.... you cheap/crazy bastard

 

[MtlNewbie]

It's a text so no, it's not too late. That's the whole point of texting.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Hmm... Me myself I hate phone calls. I avoid them whenever possible... I prefer impersonal communication. As I can respond whenever and I do not have to drop whatever I am doing to attend to the phone call. A lot of SPs I noticed favor text messages or emails. I understand their reasons. It best to get a separate phone if you got a wife or GF.

 

[Dreamer69]

Saturday morning I decided to call a few sp's, none were responding, later that evening one of them decides to text me, luckily I had turned off the volume otherwise my wife would have heard the text, yeah this is the third time an sp texts several hours after, do they know they are not supposed to call or text more than a few minutes after the original call, I have never bothered to see any sp who returned my calls several hours later. I did have a second phone but my wife found it, I did have a lot of explaining to do.

 

[2tuff2quit]

After reading your messages I realized that on my older Android I had a special app for hiding texts from numbers I choose.But I never installed it on my new cell.My bad

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.secondphoneapps.SecondPhoneTextInv&hl=en

 

[EagerBeaver]

do they know they are not supposed to call or text more than a few minutes after the original call

There is no such rule that is observed in texting or in calling. It may be your rule, but nobody else is subscribing to it. The whole point of texting is an open ended invitation to respond whenever.