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Stripper proposes sex. Is it a good idea?

CaptRenault

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The problem with many strippers who are open to the idea of providing sex to a client outside of the club is that they expect to charge a premium for their services. They know that guys fantasize about meeting a girl outside the club, because it's a challenge to convince the girl and the client has had a sneak preview of what she's like. The girl knows that providing sex is not the usual practice for a stripper and she may not even be familiar with the prevailing rates are for escorts. So strippers often suggest a rate that can easily be double what a normal rate is.

If a normal agency girl in Montreal gets $280/hour, then expect a stripper with decent looks to ask for $600 or more. She thinks this is reasonable because she is already making good money most nights while dancing so why shouldn't she ask for a lot of $ for a special service outside of normal working hours. They also will suggest that they can meet you when they get off work at 3AM. :rolleyes: At least this has been my experience the few times that I have discussed meeting a stripper for sex. I never followed through because it never made sense--too costly and too inconvenient. It's so easy to book reasonably priced escorts in Montreal that it's not worth it trying to convince a stripper to provide sex.

There is also a kind of natural attitudinal divide between strippers and escorts. Strippers are naturally exhibitionistic and comfortable with showing off their bodies in public, but they may have a hard time crossing the line into full intimacy with a stranger ("I couldn't have sex with someone I don't even know!"). Escorts, on the other hand, can't imagine parading naked in front of lots of men ("what if someone I know sees me!") but they are cool with having sex one on one with a stranger and no one else knows about it. Two different mindsets.
 

polaroid

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Sounds sketchy to me. She knows that you're horny, possibly drunk and have money. Whenever someone suggests going to a second location, it increases the chances of something bad happening. If you want to see an SP, book an SP. If you want a lapdance, go to the stripclub. Don't mix the two together unless you're prepared to potentially be jumped by her partner when you show up at "her place".
Same goes with massage parlors those who offert presentations I remember one place on the main not one came to shake my hand and sounded totally stoned now that place stop doing presentations all together but me too I'm not into bringing a striper out but I agree with having a proper presentation a thing you dont see in asian mp !!!!

My point is that if I would ever do it I would go to a public place like a Hotel so both partys feel safe.
 

Cap'tain Fantastic

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The problem with many strippers who are open to the idea of providing sex to a client outside of the club is that they expect to charge a premium for their services. They know that guys fantasize about meeting a girl outside the club, because it's a challenge to convince the girl and the client has had a sneak preview of what she's like. The girl knows that providing sex is not the usual practice for a stripper and she may not even be familiar with the prevailing rates are for escorts. So strippers often suggest a rate that can easily be double what a normal rate is.

If a normal agency girl in Montreal gets $280/hour, then expect a stripper with decent looks to ask for $600 or more. She thinks this is reasonable because she is already making good money most nights while dancing so why shouldn't she ask for a lot of $ for a special service outside of normal working hours. They also will suggest that they can meet you when they get off work at 3AM. :rolleyes: At least this has been my experience the few times that I have discussed meeting a stripper for sex. I never followed through because it never made sense--too costly and too inconvenient. It's so easy to book reasonably priced escorts in Montreal that it's not worth it trying to convince a stripper to provide sex.

There is also a kind of natural attitudinal divide between strippers and escorts. Strippers are naturally exhibitionistic and comfortable with showing off their bodies in public, but they may have a hard time crossing the line into full intimacy with a stranger ("I couldn't have sex with someone I don't even know!"). Escorts, on the other hand, can't imagine parading naked in front of lots of men ("what if someone I know sees me!") but they are cool with having sex one on one with a stranger and no one else knows about it. Two different mindsets.
I totally disagree, I never paid for a take out from strip clubs and I’ve had several
 

Skym

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Never happened to me in Canada but I recall 2 occasions where a stripper offered "extra" to me and that was in Czech Republic and Mexico.
 

Lunaseraphim

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The strip biz is dying and these ladies are desperate. That is not to say you will be getting a good deal in the end.
I have a lot of acquaintances who are strippers or were in the past, some of them also were escorts or still are, and some never crossed that line. It's not an act of desperation, it's a choice. Some of them have been escorts or masseuses before and they will find clients at the club once in a while although they are retired from FS. Some of them also work as indy escorts or masseuses part time on top of being strippers, and this is one of their preferred ways of finding clients.
 

Equator360

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The strip biz is dying and these ladies are desperate. That is not to say you will be getting a good deal in the end.
`When I say they are desperate, I do not mean they are starving. Gone are the days of $1800-2500 shifts. The strip clubs are empty, seeing a naked woman does not do anything for me anymore. 1It only takes a few minutes to drain $100 out of a guys pocket. The dancers will take shifts at MPs and do SP work to maintain the lifestyle that they are accustomed to. An SP or MP can give a guy what he can get at a strip club and more. Some dancers will have off hours service, but they will not charge SP rates. Expect to pay 50 to 100% more.
 

Enjoying life

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Actually if she really is into you she will not even discuss price just take off your pants , DFK, and put a condom on you which I can say it happened once on my birthday! Price of a normal lap dance! It was wild cause it was in the booth!
 

Anong

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Centuries ago when strip clubs were :Vibrant and Real fun" it happened few times that strippers agreed to meet "Private" except one no one asked for "time compensation"
Those were one time fun but 2 really remained as friends for longer time. One use to come every week-end before going to work and the same stayed around 2 years till she found boyfriend.
The 2nd one I knew more than 15 years is still in contact and available for sex, as a friend. When she was working in Club on my Birthday she treated me with the drinks and like mentioned in Post # 49 above.
Always on her Birthday and Valentine I bring her Cake , chocolate and flowers. Till today we remained as sincere friends.