The GFE concept........how is it defined?

[Thor Jr]

Hello all,

GFE? I am at a crossroad with the GFE concept, all the agencies offer the GFE concept and yet the ladies don't all offer GFE. I know that maybe we don't all have the same definition of GFE, and so i would like to hear from my fellow merb members on this subject and let me know your GFE concept.

I will start by saying that in my past decade or so, i was lucky to have girlfriends who would shower with me on a daily basis, and this was something i enjoyed very much, a lot can be achieved with a late night shower with your significant other,talking, communicating, washing each others back and so on, so why is it that when either i follow an SP into the bathroom or i ask if i may shower with them i get the "oh i like to shower alone". I am not saying they all refuse, but i like to shower with the ladies and don't get me started when they don't shower at all, and we already discussed that topic in the past. I have had a couple of SP'S offer to shower with them and it was appreciated, lets take charlie from MSC, we took 2 showers together in the same evening, it was great, we talked and explored, Charlie has the GFE concept all the way for me, this is the experience i like, its not asking for much, the first shower was her idea and the second was mine, i guess we understood each other and we were on the same page the whole evening, charlie didnt complain about her hair getting wet or her make-up running, she is a true GFE and i cant wait to see her again so i can have a repeat of something i look forward to with all the SP'S . I like for the evening to start with a glass of wine and some chatting and getting to know each other and to share a laugh or two, and to ease into the later activities, its not much to ask for from an SP.

Well thats my take on this, let me know your concept and what you expect from a GFE evening...


Thor like clean ladies....

 

[UncleBob]

GFE, servicewise, is DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CFS.

For me LFK is not quite GFE but when everything else is offered with enthousiasm, I may repeat once in a while. But likely not.
CBJ only is Safe GFE (SGFE) (DFK, DATY still offered). Since DFK is the most important for me, I may stay for the encounter even if CBJ only but will probably not repeat.
CBJ, NoDFK... Not GFE = No Go.


For me the GFE service must not be mechanical. Some SP offers all GFE accronyms and more but mechanical. No repeat for me...
So in addition to GFE standard service, there must be some sensuality, some chemistry, some social skills.
I like when the girl is showing some appreciation of my presence as a client yes but also as a friend, when she takes some initiatives, when she enjoys the intimate moments with me and when she gives me the privilege to make her orgasm.

GFE also involves that the Lady gives you full attention. I remember some SP's wathing TV during the encounters, or texting non stop, even during doggy... No repeat...

 

[gurgeh85]

Thor like clean ladies....

When I think of GFE, I don't think about showering. I sometimes think when an SP showers with me, she's actually trying to kill time. Still, if you're into it, why not just ask in advance if the SP will shower with you? I don't know what it is about a woman with wet hair, but I find that pretty sexy. If a woman was willing to shower with me and let her hair get wet, I'd be into it big time. This isn't always possible based on her schedule, but if she's into it, I'm all game. Still, I agree with UncleBob's definition of GFE.

 

[hungry101]

For me, I expect DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. (MPOS is a given). The 3 basic requirements for me to see you.

 

[BookerL]

Simple another acronym the less YMMV the better GFE +:thumb:


Cheers

Booker

 

[pat98]

For me it's DFK, DATY, BBBJ, CFS, DIGITS.

Problem with digits is some guys are very bad at it and hurting girls .. that is why it is not always allowed result of some traumatic experience ! :nono:
and yup agree with unclebob definition GFE = DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CFS

But for DFK ... there is always YMMV as a lot of stuff can enhance or lower the experience for sure!
Always expecting DFK is a big mistake... my 2 cents

 

[UncleBob]

Lou, I hope the SP did not have also 3D nail art.
I know some SP's that like to have fancy long 3D nails...

http://impfashion.com/3d-nail-art/
http://impfashion.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/3d-nail-art-14.jpg


I rarely go for digits.
If I feel for it, I always ask or go very slowly and see if she's up for it.
It is very important to wash your hands with as much care as when you wash you willy before going for digit
Many girls tell me up front not to do digit.

 

[themonk83]

to me GFE is no GFE if there's no DFK. i don't mind CBJ but i need everything else (DFK, DATY) and if possible DIGITS. i take care of my fingers and i'm careful and if you want a whole world of sensations then DIGITS shall be allowed :nod:

 

[johnybird]

She could offer all the Acronyms till the cows come home but if her attitude and the chemistry isn't right then those Acronyms don't really mean anything.... well they mean something, but I wouldn't consider it a GFE.

It's called Girlfriend Experience (GFE) not what a Girlfirend Is Willing To Do (GFIWTD)

 

[Doggyluver]

If there is no DFK and no BBBJ then it really can't be considered GFE......IMHO

 

[sapman99]

She could offer all the Acronyms till the cows come home but if her attitude and the chemistry isn't right then those Acronyms don't really mean anything.... well they mean something, but I wouldn't consider it a GFE.

It's called Girlfriend Experience (GFE) not what a Girlfirend Is Willing To Do (GFIWTD)

Totally agreed: GFE is a state of mind.

I saw a girl well over twenty times who only provided covered fellatio, and yet we shared really intimate times together and I would not swap those memories for GFE services.

At the other end of the spectrum, a cold attitude with "GFE service" delivery makes Johnny shy...

 

[UncleBob]

That bbbj, dfk, daty list means nothing. Without the right attitude it is very far from a girlfriend experience, very close to a boring girlfriend.

Well, if GFE is offered without the attitude, at least, I will have a better sex moment than No GFE with No Attitude.
Also, I noticed that if GFE is advertised, often, it brings also a good attitude. I mean, it often takes a good attitude to offer GFE.

CIM not included but sometime it is included in the price of some girls. COB is almost included all the time.
I never take CIM if it is extra. But I like it and I will repeat more with girl offering it naturally at no charge.
I don't like girls that advertises with extras... The only extra for me should be ANAL.
I think there are agencies with no extras. Everythings included (But anal).

 

[UNDFTD]

But in the context of the thread, that is the exact opposite of what most would view as the GFE - charging extra for each additional service is inconsistent with the illusion that she is really into the sex and genuinely likes the customer.

That's true in my books. Be an experience provider ladies! Rather than a service provider, which is so common and uninspired. The experience is the only way to set yourself apart from all the other choices and commodities we have as guys.

The best experiences have also been the most natural. And who really likes the upsell?

 

[BookerL]

From what I've heard, in the past all typical extras (cim, greek etc.) were EXTRAS(+$), even kissing, daty was.
BBBJ was not the norm.
Prices were higher.

Nowadays, prices went down, gfe is the norm.
More "extras" are included.
Clients expect dfk + bbbj + daty + msog + cob + mpos + msog.......cim... anything else?

I just hope that in 2020, escorts won't have to take it in the **s + atm + facefuck + rim + dp + swallow + (insert everything you can think of here) ... and all that for a hundred dollars.

(sorry for this raw post)

Hello Tina and all

There is war done on service with all the acronyms,
There's also a war on prices where the SP offers the best price for the hour $120 to $140 one service very limited acronyms ,1 pop she's gone ,for the guy who isn't a quick release it is a good deal
Different marketing for different types of clients



Cheers




Booker

 

[BookerL]

Tina Bonjours


Je suis solidaire avec toi ,et total communion avec tes énoncés ,malheureusement en communauté il y a une pression exercé autant sur l'offre du menu son exécution et sur son prix ,
IL y a plusieurs services qui ne devrait être avec minimum d'heure la situation a évolué dans le mauvais sens les filles en font beaucoup plus pour beaucoup moins ,c'est la loi du marcher .
Le marcher fixe les standards ,et si tu veut y travailler tu dois t'ajuster a la compétition sinon tu disparait .
Triste réalité dans tout genre de business l'escorte ni échappe pas.

Concernant mon précédent commentaire je parlais d'agence et non de filles indépendantes ce son pas des agences de Merb donc je dois taire le nom .mes elle ce concurrence sur le prix et non le services .



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[lougazebo]

Bon Bon, Je sort de mon mustisme, je suis plus capable de me taire.
Comme la plupart d'entres tous le savent , je pratique ce hobby avec ma blonde et les agences se gatent avec l'extra couple, mais la réalité est tout autre du coté des filles qui sont full bisexuelles et qui adorent les couples, Quand les filles rencontrent ma blonde , elles avouent préfèrer que ma blonde soient présente lors de nos rencontre et m'offre l'extra couple gratuitement , donc si une fille adore vraiment l'anal, pk ne l'offrirait elle pas gratuitement au même titre qu'elle préfère un couple, ou DFK, Ou CIM.
Croyez le ou non , y'a des filles qui font ce métier parce qu'elle aime le sexe et préfèrent avoir du vrai plaisir tout en fesant du cash. et c'est ce qui fait que cette fille a du succès. Nous sommes des clients fidèles aux filles qui aiment ce qu'elle font et quoi de meilleur quand tous y trouvent leurs comptent

 

[lougazebo]

Je ne dit pas qu'elle devrait l'offrir automatiquement gratuit, mais si elle a envie de se taper ma blonde, alors elle n'a qu'à l'inclure, puisque ma blonde refuse de payer l'extra couple. au même titre que si elle a envie de se faire l'anal, Le CIM, ou Un bon DFK.
Tout est YMMV.

Je suis daccord avec toi Tina que si toutes les filles commencent a inclure tout, ca vas devenir difficile de tout donner a certain client qui sont moins interessant physiquement.

Donc, je ne suis pas une SP, mais laisse moi te dire que si je me ramassais avec un mec qui me plait, je le gaterais en même temps, et je m'assurerais qu'il me rappel et surtout qu'il se rappele de moi.

 

[Gabriella Laurence]

Wait wait Lou, who said none of us enjoy this job?
Don't see an extra as a tip. Extra is an extra.
Asking for extra ($) for some specific service shouldn't be automatically seen as that the lady doesn't like this specific service OR sex at all.

Thank you, Tina

Even though I LOVE spending time with couples and see it as a real treat, my donation is higher for couples because I am spending time with 2 people instead of one. It's as simple as that and has nothing to do with me not liking it, the overall attractiveness of the couple, etc.

 

[lougazebo]

donc, je répete encore une fois, pas obliger d'offrir des services extras gratuitement, mais ne pas venir vous plaindre si vos clients vont voir ailleurs.
J'ai moi même une business, et je doit toujours en offirir plus pour garder mes clients, la concurrence est la, be aware.

 

[sapman99]

Doh, I forgot

GFE will always be easier with a client who is "BFE".

And "Real GFE" is always, always YMMV. Some will see this as a contradiction. I call it, human.