I get it but there are a lot of white men on the blacklists and SPs don’t put “no white men” on their ad :/
Hum maybe because in general black men are less likely to “book an escort” because it’s something a lot of black men consider like a BIG problem for their masculinity? Also most of them tend to bargain our rates way more often so they simply never make it to book an actual escort. And they also get rejected anyway before being able to start the booking process. Not to forget that a LOT of escorts don’t see the value of warning other escorts because they are scared of criticism ??
I think we should look at it with another perspective:
- the average of black providers are simply way less than the white providers. So the “warnings” that we receive are mainly made by white providers about the main clientele (white men).
- We are in Canada. The population is mainly “white” so = more white clients.
- Everyone has their own experiences with different races and it’s valid ( I did see a few girls on LL saying no white men. It’s rare because you are statistically cutting off more than half of your potential market but it’s still a thing).
Now to talk about why black escorts refuse black client:
For my own I don’t discriminate in any way someone because of his race or anything. I give everyone the Benefit of the doubt until you show me your true face.
But with my small experience in the industry and my personal life; black men tend to be the most disrespectful people towards black women (me). Every time I had a big issue especially regarding safety issues (on the point I’m scared of losing my own life) with a client it was always a black man. So I can technically because of my bad experiences with black men decide to stop meeting them in general. But I don’t do that because even though my ratio of bad black men is higher than the good one I’m still a human being with a heart and I believe that it’s maybe just an unfortunate coincidence??? I do have some not so good experiences with white men but my ratio is not that high in comparison. That’s also mainly why I don’t discriminate (both black and white clients can become bad at some point so why discriminate only the black one?)
I’m also just wondering if it’s a kind of cultural thing where black men treats white women better than black women? In a lot of African / Caribbean countries and cultures white is considered better than black so instantly people tend to treats white people better than their peers. Plus the fact that many black providers are scared to get booked by a relative (we are a smaller community in a mainly white community. Every body knows every body unless your family is abroad).
For the white girls who refuse to see black men that’s another story. I can’t say much about it because I’m not them. It’s their choice and they may have a really legit reason why they don’t want to deal with black client. Not because of racism or colourism. Ex: the ratio of them having bad black client was way too higher and way more dangerous for their safety.
Disclaimer : this My 2 cents in an open debate thread! Not targeting anyone. Please be kind and respectful when you give your opinion!