Okay, so I've been presented with a bevy of ideas here, challenging my views. And that is good. I can certainly welcome that.
If you can imagine for a second, picturing in your mind that there are other ways of living out there. That there are different ways that we choose to live our lives. And, when we have the feeling in our lives that we are not complete, that we are not living up to our utmost, to the best that only we can feel for ourselves, then we begin to ask questions. If you can imagine something else, something deeper involving compuslions and addictions. That our brains are addicted to things that our inside our own realities. That there are actually addictions that we live through every single day, and many times don't even know it's there. This addiction can be described as an addiction to making sense of things. The find a reason. To find an answer to a question that we don't know. To go deep inside our minds, and come up with a logical answer to a certain situation. We do this all the time. We are human. We are logical creatures. When you look back, at the times when you came up with an answer to something you did not previously know before and later find out you were wrong, you begin to draw conclusions. And these conclusions you may find helpful to you, or harmful to you, and you will feel a certain way about it. It's not even important to know what my thoughts and feelings truly are about this hobby. Maybe you're asking yourself why I am on this board. Maybe you are thinking to yourself that I am critical of others. That is fine. I will not try and change what goes inside your mind. If you could picture, on the other hand, the reasons why someone like me would come onto a board like this. Maybe you find some answers for yourself. Maybe you can feel that there is something to be learned. Maybe that you have a value just for living your own life, and describing all of the things that you do in it might be valuable to someone else. That he can take this, and learn from it. And maybe he chooses not to live the same patterns that you do, but that he can find useful things from you that he can learn and adapt to within his own life. And maybe there are thigns that you can learn from this person, who lives in a world very different, but very similar to yours. And when you come to the conclusion that you are not being attacked, not being criticized, you begin to start feeling differently. When you look at this in a whole new way, a whole new light that makes sense for you, then you begin to imagine possibilites. With me, what I learn from you can be more important than what you learn from me. That it's not important to think from a critical frame of mine. To no longer need to come to the conclusion of black vs. white. That there is not one right answer and one wrong answer. That there are thigns that are simply... differernt. There are things that are simply.. unknown. And as that curiosity builds inside of you and you want to learn more about this, you stop, and look at it from a different perspective. And you ask yourself 'what am I getting out of this life?' And when you look deep inside your mind, and perhaps come to the conclusion that there are other ways of seeing things, other ways of being with women that work for some people in a way that you would love to happen for you, is that something that would interest you?
