Time to reboot my brain
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Deleted my porn stash three years and not wanked since then.
Deleted my porn stash three years and not wanked since then.
had my first experience yesterday after 6 days of total abstinence from porn and masturbation with my favourite provider...It was already a big improvmenent! managed to maintain an 80%-90% erection and managed to finish. thank god!
also, have not been feeling the withdrawal symptoms from stopping porn...yet. I want to get back to rock hard errections where as soon as the girl touches my dick it is electric...where i have a hard time not cumming, where i have to stop and start constantly not to cum...
if it continues getting better at this rate i will be fully recovered very soon. Kinda of miss the porn, but kinda angry at it for messing with ability to have sex with real people.
also, have not been feeling the withdrawal symptoms from stopping porn...yet. I want to get back to rock hard errections where as soon as the girl touches my dick it is electric...where i have a hard time not cumming, where i have to stop and start constantly not to cum...
if it continues getting better at this rate i will be fully recovered very soon. Kinda of miss the porn, but kinda angry at it for messing with ability to have sex with real people.
this site has tons of info similar to what is discussed in that article.
www.yourbrainonporn.com
I thnik what saves me is that high speed porn only came around when i was 40...
So numerati, what happened to your sexlife post porn?
2fast2slow. Thanks for starting this thread. After reading everything I decided to give the no fap a chance. Last provider was less than a week ago and next one is tomorrow. The no fap and no porn is not that much of a biggy. But knowing that i am seeing a lady tomorrow is making my balls want to explode.
My entire genitals are begging me for a release.
I feel bad for the provider tomorrow if I do cim.
My entire genitals are begging me for a release.
I feel bad for the provider tomorrow if I do cim.
I say the first few months were messed up. I went through a long period of flatline for about six months or so. I deleted my stash and nofapped starting March 2016. During this time I had no interest in women whatsoever. After I came out of that flatline I started getting morning wood again. I say I fully rewired and rebooted by around third quarter of 2017. Sex life has been great ever since but the first few times I didn't know what would happen so I had a Viagra prescription. Then I realized I didn't need it. Also I took up yoga along with my HIIT routine so this helped immensely.
When I was active in this hobby porn was not in my radar since I was living it. It was when during those periods of time when I was not in the hobby and I wasn't meeting the civie women that crossed my path I resorted to porn.
Thanks for sharing. Me too, I'm afraid I might start having wet dreams again. :Cry:
ound::noidea:Personally I say this hobby diverted me from porn for a good while. I mean when I was active in the hobby porn could never compare. Say when I did a three day excursion to Montreal I would go on a fucking spree. Saw two to three girls a day on each session was two hours with three to four MSOGs. Once the trip was over I am totally wiped out mentally and I wouldn’t want to orgasm for a month or two. If during this down time I met a civie girl the hobby takes a back seat and porn? What is that?
so i had a second encounter since i started abstinence. My erection was very good, not perfect, but very good. I actually was caught by surprise and came to fast. I usually can control that by just stopping for a few seconds and just being aware that i am close, but yesterday I just was not expecting it to happen and i realized i was cuming a fraction of a second too late. I stopped, but my partner didn't...
Anyways, i definitely seem to be already be on the road to recovery. Not sure if it is because I am not masturbating or not watching porn or both.
Last night (the same day i saw the provider), i decided to go to bed with porn. I was not fully erect and had mixed feelings about the porn I was watching, which is good, because i am going back into abstinence, so it is not like I have slipped back into it. I just did not enjoy it that much. It is so much more enjoyable with a real person, and I dont want to lose that. In the span of 10 days, I have gone from only be aroused by porn to only being aroused by a real person...lol. If you read testimonials, it takes most people months to recover. Anyways, certainly not complaining. I guess my brain was not as rewired as I thought. Maybe it is because i never stopped having sex with real peolple during all those years of habitual porn use...
to be continued
Anyways, i definitely seem to be already be on the road to recovery. Not sure if it is because I am not masturbating or not watching porn or both.
Last night (the same day i saw the provider), i decided to go to bed with porn. I was not fully erect and had mixed feelings about the porn I was watching, which is good, because i am going back into abstinence, so it is not like I have slipped back into it. I just did not enjoy it that much. It is so much more enjoyable with a real person, and I dont want to lose that. In the span of 10 days, I have gone from only be aroused by porn to only being aroused by a real person...lol. If you read testimonials, it takes most people months to recover. Anyways, certainly not complaining. I guess my brain was not as rewired as I thought. Maybe it is because i never stopped having sex with real peolple during all those years of habitual porn use...
to be continued
had a very so-so encounter yesterday with a provider i like a lot and who i know likes me. my dick was not really getting hard, this after 5 days since my last encounter with no porn no masturbation. i dont get it! 5 days of no release and I cant get hard!?!
they talk a lot about the flatline period so just as a test I watched porn last night, and of course i got fully erect and quite enjoyed the session (lasted 5 minutes). so dont think i am in flatline.
next week go back to my favourite with whom i had really great successes since I started this journey. after that i need to test with a provider i have not met yet...
they talk a lot about the flatline period so just as a test I watched porn last night, and of course i got fully erect and quite enjoyed the session (lasted 5 minutes). so dont think i am in flatline.
next week go back to my favourite with whom i had really great successes since I started this journey. after that i need to test with a provider i have not met yet...
Hey bro. During your encounter, were you thinking about not losing your erection? Were there any moments where your head was thinking of your whole situation? Did you go in with certain expectations? I'm wondering if that could have been a contributing factor to your issue with your most recent encounter.
I'm picturing myself with your issue walking in to see one of my favorite girls and I'd be probably thinking to myself : "OK Alex, 2 weeks no porn / masturbation, 5 days no realease... Junior, this is your time!!!"
I can imagine the amount of pressure I must be feeling at that time.... Could even be subconcious
I'm picturing myself with your issue walking in to see one of my favorite girls and I'd be probably thinking to myself : "OK Alex, 2 weeks no porn / masturbation, 5 days no realease... Junior, this is your time!!!"
I can imagine the amount of pressure I must be feeling at that time.... Could even be subconcious
I am in a very similar situation as 2fast2slow. Same age. Same porn watching habit. See probably as much girl as he does. And me too I something have broken dick problem.
Not getting hard only happened in "group" event so far. But not being able to finish happened a considerable amount of time.
Now will someone explain me why the fuck I come easily 100% of the time with average indy girl... (I say average not to be pejorative.. I say average compared to the stellar agency girl usually see). Often CBJ. Good service (important for me) but rarely DFK.
Still I manage these session as I want and finish exactly when I went... What's wrong with me?
Cheers,
Not getting hard only happened in "group" event so far. But not being able to finish happened a considerable amount of time.
Now will someone explain me why the fuck I come easily 100% of the time with average indy girl... (I say average not to be pejorative.. I say average compared to the stellar agency girl usually see). Often CBJ. Good service (important for me) but rarely DFK.
Still I manage these session as I want and finish exactly when I went... What's wrong with me?
Cheers,
there is something to be said about agency girls being too good and too easy to see, whereas independant quickies satisfies a "thrill of the hunt" instinct.
The girl I saw yesterday works a regular schedule, near my work, is very accessible, i can see her anytime, no stress, no worries...that may be part of it.
Indys alwyas make the experience somewhat more "edgy".
I think the no masturbation/no porn has helped me insofar that i am ''backed up''. But there is something about watching porn that runs through different circuitry in the brain, and that circuitry is the one that triggers my dick more than the circuitry associated with having sex with a real person.
The scene i watched twice since my break from porn (going on my fourth week now) is Darcy Dolce solo Twistys video. About 5-6 minutes long. I had no problem being rock hard last night while watching that video. The girl I was with yesterday was really not that much less attractive than Darcy, and I had her right in front of me, dfk'ing 69'ing, etc... but my dick was soft
I realize I got a short term gain from stopping masturbation, but still have a long way to go to re-wire my brain
The girl I saw yesterday works a regular schedule, near my work, is very accessible, i can see her anytime, no stress, no worries...that may be part of it.
Indys alwyas make the experience somewhat more "edgy".
I think the no masturbation/no porn has helped me insofar that i am ''backed up''. But there is something about watching porn that runs through different circuitry in the brain, and that circuitry is the one that triggers my dick more than the circuitry associated with having sex with a real person.
The scene i watched twice since my break from porn (going on my fourth week now) is Darcy Dolce solo Twistys video. About 5-6 minutes long. I had no problem being rock hard last night while watching that video. The girl I was with yesterday was really not that much less attractive than Darcy, and I had her right in front of me, dfk'ing 69'ing, etc... but my dick was soft
I realize I got a short term gain from stopping masturbation, but still have a long way to go to re-wire my brain
its funny i was thinking about viagra last night. i tried that a couple of times a long time ago, like 15 years ago. I remember getting hard all right but being unable to come. Apparently it suppresses ejaculation?
Like I said however, i can get very hard with porn, just not always with a real person
Like I said however, i can get very hard with porn, just not always with a real person
I confirm (both personnaly and scientifically) : Viagra delays ejaculation
Now I have to find a way to stay erect with the goddamn condom and without Viagra...
Now I have to find a way to stay erect with the goddamn condom and without Viagra...
I found that with me Cialis works best 12 hrs after taking it, it is supposed to last for 36 hrs.
Or, perhaps, CIM, which I've been told is immensely pleasurable (for the man), if she offers it. (I have yet to experience CIM.)
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