@Fradi You have the choice not to follow "my advice". You have the choice to believe that it is just me who perhaps exaggerates ...
But I say out loud what the majority of girls think but don't dare to say.
@CoolSin000 asked "What sort of ideal clients you would like to see, and how should we behaviour in front of you? What sort of bad behaviour you condemn, so that they won't be put into black/blocklist."
I answered honestly.
Y'all feel free to talk about your expectations of women (which are often much higher than the one I have listed).
We only ask for the minimum to be able to offer you the best of ourselves.
First of all,
@Luna, thank you for taking the time to read, answer the topic from this forum, and save this topic! haha
Honestly, for me, it was trial and errors to figure out how to be
a gentleman in front of an SP. Although, I have Discrete connection at my disposal - I didn't get a lot of help or useful advice on, "
how to interact with an SP". Unlike MERB.CC, there are a lot of members haha
Well, this topic is very subjective - every SP has different preference and expectation. So, I don't except that all the novice/newbies will have a list of "
rules" that will fit every SP's list of requirements - than again, even if the "
rules" does exist, and met all the SP's expectation - would the new and old hobbyist follow them?
Well, there is two side of the coin regarding
@Fradi and Luna 's expectations. Yes, Fraid if you did hired an SP for specific service, and she failed to meet your expectation - you could always find another SP (that is able to provide emotional connection et cetera). But than again, if you
rehired an SP that doesn't feel comfortable performing those services, and you force the situation - it's not going to make you
any happier. If you understand what I meant?
The client(s) must be able to convey their expectation to their respectful SP, whereas the SP must be
honest with their client(s) about whether or not they can fulfil the service. If not, SP won't get a lot of referrals or regular customers and there is a possibilities they get a bad review. Also, seeing an SP once doesn't give you a lot time to develop the rapport nor the opportunity for the SP to understand your
needs. Also, don't expect one SP to be able to perform all your expectation - it's like asking your wife/gf/SO/lover to be able to perform everything. Overall, "
Communication" and "
honesty" is the "
key".
As for me, I prefer to be clean. I like taking shower, cut my nails, rinse my mouth, and wash my hands. I hate being dirty because if I'm not clean therefore I'm disrespecting myself; which I prefer my SP to have the same cleanliness because I like my variety of sexual services. Indeed, if I knew that an SP doesn't offer/provide BBBJ - I'm not going to force her to perform the service because I knew what I was getting into. Cause I choose the SP!
However, if the SP lied to me that bbbj was part of the package but the truth is,
it wasn't, then I have problem with the SP's integrity; which I won't see her again in the future and write a review about her at MERB/TERB/PERB.CC.
Cheers!