Turning her away ???

[deltaguy]

I was just wondering how you would turn an escort away when you are not pleased with her looks vs. her advertisement.

I have been in 2 situations where I was not pleased with what knocked at my door,but did not know how to handle it so I let her in and tried to make the best if it.

Thanks

 

[Lily from Montreal]

The one time it happened to me (and a friend)as a customer, it was obviously a bait and switch so we just told her that we had asked for a redhead and with her raven hair she didnt match the photos, it cost my friend 50$ because she made a bit of scene...I found he was too generous...
When it happened to me on the other side, yes it did happen a few times,it is just a question of been polite ,no need to be rude, just say you are sorry it won't be possible and offer a little something for the time traveled, it is better to do that then risk a so-so meeting (for both of us)...

 

[Marlin Perkins]

If she arrived no as advertised but acceptable I would go with it once. Of course, there would be no second chance.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I have had an incall where the description was way off, politely told the girl sorry and walked out. Called the booker and had a discussion .
I see no reason to offer any money, not what you were told or expected. If someone advertises a diamond ring and you went to buy it and it turned out to be Jade would you give any money as you walked away????

 

[LadyLover]

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Sol Tee Nutz;

It's different for incall than it is for outcall.

When you go to an SP and its a B&S it's easy to walk away since you're at her place.

For outcall you definitely don't want to cause a scene if its your home and if its a classy hotel it's almost the same thing.

 

[anonguy]

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Sol Tee Nutz;

Well... there is a seedy side to this hobby. There are people you probably don't want to mess with.

I recommend two things

1) Always book from a reputable agency, or if it's an indie than find someone who is either recommended or has some sort of web presence.
2) If a reputable agency sends you a bad/mis-advertised girl, you can send her away. Tipping the driver is optional depending on whether you want a relationship with the agency. This is what makes them reputable.

I once called a semi-reputable agency and did the "make the best of it" thing when the girl showed up heavier and older than advertised. The reason I didn't send her away was because I would rather be out the $180 than risk getting harassed. But I'm never calling them back. They don't advertise on this board, but they advertise on a different board. It's buyer beware. I think the "buy" however is when you schedule... not when you pay. When you schedule you are making a commitment, is how I see it. Reputable agencies let you send someone away without paying because they would rather lose the time & effort than get a disgruntled customer who might warn other people off.

One caveat is with incall, yeah you can just leave... assuming they aren't shacked up at the Chablis with a driver waiting for you when you come out. But then, no reputable agency would use the Chablis.

 

[anonguy]

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LadyLover;

Better said than I!

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Hum, and why on earth do you assume the incall location is the girl home? That is idiotic at best and does explain why the few time I did offer incall there was so much more no-show( which is part of the reason I stopped offering it), people assumed I was home waiting...well... no? So not evenbothering to cancel didn't matter...
Going to a studio rented for meeting is as time consuming as meeting outcall my pretty boys. Anyway i soon found out that it is really a different clientèle and not meeting my expectations...

 

[anonguy]

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[Sol Tee Nutz]

I would do the same with outcall ( never at my house, not an idiot ), why would there be a difference. Never had a reason so far to turn down out call. But if a BS arrives that I do not care for she would be sent away And as for being told there is a seedy side to SP's I would never had guessed, thought they were all ladies from a church group, thanks for the info.

 

[LadyLover]

Lily,

When I say "her place" I mean wherever she is receiving. Her home , motel, hotel, etc...

I once booked with an indie advertising on 123 that gave me an address of a motel downtown and when I got to her room and the creature I saw there was NOT at ALL like the pictures I told her sorry you're not the person on pics.

What pisses me off is when I booked the appointment I TOLD her I would walk away if the pics were fake. She assured me they were.

I really don't get why someone would do that. It must be a killer on self esteem so why not post the real pic and blot out the face!!??!?

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I really don't get it how a indy can do BS? An agency can ''shuffle'' their girls and take a chance I guess.
But it explains why I sometime have potential friends if the pic are mine? I used to be very surprised by that question because I was telling myself ''who's photo can I use since there is only me?''
Sorry, Ladylover I didnt understand what you meant by ''place''...

 

[greenacres99]

I really don't get it how a indy can do BS?

Fake pictures, perhaps?

 

[LadyLover]

Bait and switch is exactly what it means.

An SP "Baits" a customer to come see her with attractive pics of someone else and the "switch" is when you arrive to find out the person in the pics is NOt AT all the person in front of you.

They baited you to come see them because if you has indeed seen real pics you would not have gone.

 

[Harcourt Mudd]

There is no excuse to totally misrepresent themselves. They can not do that selling you a car or a sandwich, why is it OK to do it with escorts.