Is a wet vagina all about arousal and being relaxed and comfortable or are there other factors involved? I hate to bring the subject up with my partner as I don’t want to blame or shame and I know there isn’t much that can be done but when she’s too wet, it feels loose and it’s sometimes hard for me to finish. I am circumcised and normal size but feel like I need a little more sensitivity or friction. The sex is otherwise great but this issue can sometimes get in the head and makes things difficult. Anybody else experience this? What to do???
Vagina: How wet is too wet?
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Totally agree with exactly what you are saying. Recently, I felt that when it is too wet, it is like sliding down a water slide, no friction. No friction, no climax. Don’t get me wrong I love to get my partner excited but when it is too wet, it will be like running the Boston marathon with no finish line.
There are other factors but those are big ones. If she's wet naturally take it as a reflection of your good work or her overall arousal and desire to be with you in that moment.
Try some different positions and/or angles to maximize the friction for both of you bc she may also enjoy a more intensive rubbing (check in with her, obv). Fucking down from above in doggy, as opposed to from directly behind her, can press the tip inside up the front of her, rubbing against her g-spot (and a-spot if you're long). Bridge missionary has a similar effect. There are a bunch more.
What is too wet? When she is a true squirter which is a great sight to see btw and you know you hit the spot and did your job. The downside? You have to request a new room at your hotel.
drinking that sweet nectar is a huge turn on for me.
Going down could help to get some of it off her. It would naturally lubricate her so you can pleasure her without too much discomfort.
But even after that she still has more then congratulations!
How much porn do you watch and how rough are you with your dick when you masturbate? Being very wet is from being turned on, some women get wetter than others. Without much info, it could be that it's "too wet" but it sounds to me like it could also be your dick that's desensitized.
If she is truly very very wet, you could bring it up and you can adjust, like wipe a bit of it off. Don't ask her to wipe it all off because obviously that wouldn't feel good and hurt for her. Again, you're saying she's too wet but it could be you, not her, but no one can confirm it either way.
I don't know your age but I've found some guys have some pretty weird beliefs/expectations about women and sex that come from porn and that aren't realistic. Women in porn often look super dry. That would feel awful.
Also, there's no rule that you must finish in a specific way. If it's difficult finishing from sex, then finish another way. Unless she's part of the minority of women who orgasms really easily from penetration, I doubt you're changing what feels good for you because that's how she expects to finish. If you can't finish that way, is there any other way you can finish? Hand (hers, yours with her assistance), mouth, boobs..?
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It takes some measure of imagination to describe a vagina as being "too wet" . Rather, the opposite can be a problem. (vaginal dryness). As you probably know, circumcision is associated with a loss of sensitivity in the penis (1).
Source
(1) "Circumcision usually leads to loss of sensitivity of the head of your penis, which may be noticeable during sex"
www.nhs.uk
Source
(1) "Circumcision usually leads to loss of sensitivity of the head of your penis, which may be noticeable during sex"
Circumcision
Circumcision is surgery to remove the foreskin. Read about why you might need it, how it's done, recovering from a circumcision and complications.
www.nhs.uk
I just don't think this forum is the right place to ask questions about sexual health and anatomy. I think a lot of people here would benefit from seeking information from actual experts, or seeing a sexologist.
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My steak is too juicy, my lobster too buttery and her pussy too wet *eye roll*
Dick is too small for her pussy, or her pussy is too big for your dick. Depends how you want to look at it!
