What is a good reason to cancel an appointment last minute ?

[Julia Sky]

Stuff happens, and sometimes the girl or the guy has to cancel an appointment. What are are good reasons and not so good ones to cancel an appointment last minute in your opinion ?

Health, job and kids are good reasons to cancel in my book. If the girl's face is not your type then it's OK too, but if I was a guy and the girl was the one in her pics, I would still give her 20-40$ for wasting her time.

I get REALLY MAD with all the guys who like to cancel for stupid shitty reasons, and who do it with no fucking balls, finding excuses and not even giving a fuck what the girl feels like when they do that. Some people need to grow up, man if you're an adult I expect you to respect the people around you and you wouldn't cancel an appointment with a psychologist for no reason for the fun of messing with someone's money, why would you with an escort ? At least if the girl uses real pics and had a nice attitude when she opened the door, give her a damn 20 and dont put the blame on her ! No wonder some of these men are lonely, jeez ! Btw I'm sure I'm not the only one, I'd rather be told someone doesn't like my face rather than be told I'm a liar or whatever !

Sorry had to let it out, I'm MAD MAD MAD lol.

So anyways back to my main question : what are, in your opinion, good and/or bad reasons to cancel an appointment, for the girls as well as the gents ? And do you usually do it the honest way or you find excuses or put the blame on the other person ?

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

By last minute I am guessing you mean last second and you have met.

Last second cancel for me would be the SP is not the girl in the picture, incall is a dump, SP is wasted, SP is not clean and services have changed from GFE to NO GFE, someone else in the incall, no face picture but SP is beyond ugly, missing hair, no teeth and scurvy..
If I walk away from any of the mentioned there will be no $20 sorry given.

If I have not seen the SP yet, car breakdown, traffic, phone call and my family has been kidnapped by a band of Cuban midgets demanding a taco supreme from Taco Time or some other urgent family related incident.

 

[lgna69xxx]

As far as i can remember i have only cancelled once which i absolutely HATE having to do which is why i absolutely HATE prebooking more than a few hours in advance even though sometimes it is a necessity. This was years ago but when I saw the lady at one of the HDLM GT's i walked up to her and gave her a $50. She politely refused it but I insisted.

 

[ravenazrael]

I had an issue with a girl once. I had a very complicated week and actually mixed up dates. The date of the appointment she e-mailed me as I did not confirm the previous night that the appointment was still on. She got mad at me. As I mixed up the dates I could not make it on time until 2 hours later of the time I was supposed to be there. However, she blocked me. Then I contacted her offering even a 1hour pre-booking deposit so she could trust me and know that it would not happen again. She said I was a time waster and got mad at me. she still hates me to this day.

 

[Julia Sky]

kidnapped by a band of Cuban midgets demanding a taco supreme from Taco Time

Ok maybe I'm a bad person too, sorry but this made me laugh LOL

I wrote that thread in the heat of my frustration because I got cancelled last second because my buzzer at my brand new appartment isn't linked to my phone yet so I have to come down unless someone comes in or out the building... Like the dude didn't even let me come down or anything when i explained that I had just moved there he literally just cancelled and blocked me. My fault for being honest I guess, if I had said nothing and just went down I wonder if he would have cancelled, maybe the guy gets turned on by the sound of an annoying phone-linked building buzzer.

Ugh. these guys are the reason my new incall won't have furniture before a while. LOL

 

[fran444]

I only cancel once because my trip in Montreal was cancel ... and if i want to see the girl i choose i dont have choice to take appointment few days before comming in town. I never turn back at the door of an incall ... the only way i will do that is that i dont get what was promise to me. All others reasons are no good and a lack of respect for the Sp.

PS: sorry if i made mystake ... english is scond language for me !!

 

[rollingstone]

I only ever cancelled once, and was due to some work drama. Was not last minute though, but 24hrs before the appointed time. On two occasions I asked someone to leave because while they were the person in the pics and were very eager to make me happy, they were just not my type - in those instances I still paid them for the full appointment (2 hrs). Only on one occasion did I ask someone to leave early and only paid them for actual time spent and it was due to her poor hygiene.

 

[Julia Sky]

Wow you paid the full booking time even though you did not spend that time with the girl ? You must be some kind of hero ! Lol !

Poor hygiene is definitely one of the main reasons to refuse someone and it's totally normal hahaha. People should always make sure they're clean and fresh when meeting, it's just common sense !

 

[Halloween Mike]

By last minute I am guessing you mean last second and you have met.

Last second cancel for me would be the SP is not the girl in the picture, incall is a dump, SP is wasted, SP is not clean and services have changed from GFE to NO GFE, someone else in the incall,

Those would be valid reasons. Even tough i don't really use incall so i can't experience most of them lol.

Being an out of town person, i never cancelled last minute and i really don't like when it happen, wich is rare for me thankfully, but thats also one of the reasons why i give my business to some peoples that proved to be reliable rather than others not being so. They say clients will follow the girls but for me bookers/agencies do matter, or in the case of indies, her own reliability. I think i did cancel once or twice due to changes of plan but it was over 24H in advance, more than enough time for her to adjust. And i have a valid reason... i am from out of town and getting to mtl is not easy for me, having to deal with bus and rides (co-voiturage) On my hand i am fully ok with cancellations in advance too, as its part of the long pre-booking style. But when your cancel at 4 pm for a 6 pm meeting or such.. that can be super problematic. You may have "plan Bs" in your head, other girls you would really like to see, but they will probably be fully booked by then if they work 4 to 10 pm for exemple :/

As for refusing an SP, i never did it. I doubt i would do it unless she arrive super wasted and/or very unpleasant. I book mostly in very popular agencies so obviously this eliminate bait and switch and the lower end of the business directly. I am not a risk taker lol. For the number of girls i see a year, i get my "list" full already with the peoples i meet at parties or the ones that picture turn me on in agencies i use often etc

So personally i am reliable, i keep a good reputation and peoples know that if i book, i won't cancel, and in counter parts i look more into peoples that are reliable.

 

[niceman99]

this one i should have cancel...not even close to be her on the pics.....even though i asked...
http://www.humpchies.com/ad/details...8293-128293-new-in-town-sexy-latina-mix-bella
now why would i cancel....
1- not same girl as in the pics
2 prices have changed (on text she says 250$ but all of a sudden 60$ incall fees wtf)
3 girl is dirty as hell

i have never cancelled last minute but sometimes i should have had.
hate it when i ask ..pics are real..."yes" ...and not even close

 

[Doggyluver]

I cancelled once because on my way to the meeting with an SP I had a car accident. I called and let her know (About 30 mins prior to our meeting) and she was pissed that I was going to be a no show. In any event the damage to my car was nothing and the guy didn't want to fill in a report or involve the police so we shook hands and I went on my way. I called the SP to let her know what happened and she reluctantly agreed to see me. I was apprehensive but decided to show up, but am I glad I did, this was 5 years ago and we are very very good friends still. I see her on a regular basis and hope we will remain friends for many more years. I almost missed the opportunity to meet someone who is quite an important part of my life.

I have also had the opportunity to go to a meeting and the girl is NOT the one in the pictures. I always ask where that girl is and am told that the pictures are in fact fake. Give her $20. for posting fake pics, NEVER ! If she is older than advertised but the same woman, I may decided not to my taste and give her $20. and walk away but for a fake ad and fake pic, no way.

 

[EagerBeaver]

A few years ago, while using an electric razor with an unprotected blade to shave my pubes, it slipped out of my hand (I fumbled it) and inflicted a huge bloody cut on my penis shaft. I cancelled my appointment. I could have used a condom but I was worried it could aggravate or infect the wound, plus it was deep enough that any sexual action would reopen the wound and I worried about a scar. It healed up fine.

 

[SilverDust]

EB.. that scar in the right place may have been a good thing. lol
I remember a while ago when there were two Chablis. The SP is was to meet ended going to the wrong one. She was upset with her confusion, she made it up with a pro bono Rdv. She absolutely refused compensation. Never the less I tipped her well. I sure miss her ,btw if she were ever to return from her retirement..."Get to the back of the line boys!!!"

I recently cancelled with an hours notice because of a tenants busted hot water tank. It went over well and rescheduled

 

[Johnny82]

Find that the girl is drunk and/or stoned!!!!!

 

[Anong]

A few years ago, while using an electric razor with an unprotected blade to shave my pubes, it slipped out of my hand (I fumbled it) and inflicted a huge bloody cut on my penis shaft. I cancelled my appointment. I could have used a condom but I was worried it could aggravate or infect the wound, plus it was deep enough that any sexual action would reopen the wound and I worried about a scar. It healed up fine.

That is the MOST valid reason to cancel.!!!

I requested the cancellation only once, as the day of RV I got sever allergy and was sneezing non-stop. After that I never prebook, as I hate to cancel. And could not able to see somp SPs I realy like to see because I only like to book only few hours before, when I am sure that I will make it.
Apart from that bad hygiene, bad attitute, not real pictures and messy places are the reason to cancel.

 

[yoyo114]

I had to cancel once recently on the lovely Amelie the White who I was so looking forward to spending time. Perhaps more than anyone before. I pre-booked as one has to to get an appointment with Amelie. And a day or two before(can't remember exactly) I woke with a terrible cold. As these meeting are very intimate in nature I would expect no one wants my sexy self while I am sneezing and snot running down my face. But I canceled by email at least 24 if not 448 hours before the appointment. I would be surprised if it didn't happen for that reason on a regular if not frequent basis.

 

[letsrock2012]

Earthquake???? Being hit by a car??? But seriously it's very rare I cancel. Last time I did was because I had caught a virus and that's something I did not want to share.

 

[luv_her]

Masturbating with strong anticipation and then ......bang, splisch splash !! Deflated! Lost it all in the Cosmos! Just one hour before the appointment!

I would tell her the truth......... and get the punishment next rendez-vous!

That would PROBABLY be it.
:rapture:

 

[chowzilla]

I had a meeting that I should have cancelled or ended short.

first of all she was a well known SP that advertises here. I booked 2 hours.
- booking was brutal
- getting rescheduled
- getting rdv pushed back upon arriving at the incall
- she was late
- she just came back from work/gym
- she was not wearing the outfit I asked
- she was not wearing makeup
- appartment was a mess
- 15min in she asked to cut the meeting shorter because she was tired
- conversation was not endearing at all
- conversation was very one sided
- she spent 20min in the bathroom

After all this... I should have known it wasnt worth it.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I had a meeting that I should have cancelled or ended short.

first of all she was a well known SP that advertises here. I booked 2 hours.

sip

After all this... I should have known it wasnt worth it.

Did you reviewed her? I think its important to let the fellow hobbyist knows. Seem really like a subpar meeting