What is the point of Onlyfans? Why keep paying for this?
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It's possible. Some women are like that. But overall, reading your posts, you seem to have a pretty closed and basic view of marriage, which can be summarized as "men provide money so women must provide sex". There's actually so much more to why 2 people choose to live together, with all the ups and downs that inevitably occur.
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I can understand that more people on an escort review board will have a dim view of marriage.
There are always exceptions, I for one can only say that I had over 35 years with the most wonderful woman on the planet and will always treasure those years and I will always have the memories and my children and grandchildren who I see every week.
There is nothing in the world that compares being with a woman that returns the love you have for her.
I’m not saying anything about your marriage just in general speaking to so many people how they are in unhappy marriages today! There used to be a thing called love years ago!
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Like everything else in life works for some doesn’t for others.
Pretty much like reviews here some think the same SP is the answer to their prayers others want their money back.
In the past I had spent money on porn subscriptions (not onlyfans) on contents that are very hard to find on free sites (for example HD VR porns when Oculus first came out)
Although I had never paid for onlyfans, I would not rule out the possibility if a creator is my dream girl or if the content is right. But I have a much much higher standard on the internet and last several times I went on fansly/onlyfans none attract me to pay whatsoever
Although I had never paid for onlyfans, I would not rule out the possibility if a creator is my dream girl or if the content is right. But I have a much much higher standard on the internet and last several times I went on fansly/onlyfans none attract me to pay whatsoever
So much good stuff out there with no subscriptions
I have a rather specific use case for OF. I only subscribe to creators who are providers I’ve seen and plan to see again or providers I’m curious to see, in which case OF can be a sort of due diligence research tool to see if they’re to my liking. For the first group, OF is a fun, non-intrusive, and low effort way to keep in touch and maintain rapport. It can even be used to enhance future sessions (e.g., “please wear that outfit you wore in the pic on such and such date” or “I’d like to try that thing you did in the video posted on such and such date”). Providers/creators I subscribe to tend to be ladies I’m very attracted to and interested in as people and it’s appealing to see them in contexts, states of dress (and undress), and situations (sexual or otherwise) outside of sessions. This builds up anticipation between sessions. OF creators/providers who use it as kind of a life blog leave plenty of things to discuss at future sessions in the ways they document their experiences, travels, hobbies, etc. All these things provide value I find worth paying a small monthly fee for (I do buy vids sometimes but only those under a certain dollar value and I keep to a max monthly OF spend limit).
Caveats: the above only applies to providers/creators who manage their own accounts and chats, not the ones who outsource all that to bots or people in India and the Philippines. Because I have a strong preference for seeing and interacting with these ladies in person vs online and am mindful of the “OF opportunity cost” (for lack of a better term), there’s an upper bound to what I’m willing to spend on OF in money, time, and attention. I’m also currently a single man on a break from dating. The minute that ceases to be the case, my OF consumption will cease to exist. (And needless to say, if I were to ever run into financial trouble, OF would be among the first kinds of discretionary spending to be dropped.)
and that sums up my particular use case for OF.
Edit: perhaps a more succinct way to frame it is that it can be an extension of the GFE and enhances in-person experiences in certain ways.
Caveats: the above only applies to providers/creators who manage their own accounts and chats, not the ones who outsource all that to bots or people in India and the Philippines. Because I have a strong preference for seeing and interacting with these ladies in person vs online and am mindful of the “OF opportunity cost” (for lack of a better term), there’s an upper bound to what I’m willing to spend on OF in money, time, and attention. I’m also currently a single man on a break from dating. The minute that ceases to be the case, my OF consumption will cease to exist. (And needless to say, if I were to ever run into financial trouble, OF would be among the first kinds of discretionary spending to be dropped.)
and that sums up my particular use case for OF.
Edit: perhaps a more succinct way to frame it is that it can be an extension of the GFE and enhances in-person experiences in certain ways.
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Sure, but it’s only platonic love being offered when the other party wants erotic love.
Platonic love and monogamy don’t mix very well.
Sure, but like it or not sex is the foundation of a monogamous relationship no matter how much (mostly women) try to downplay its importance. Remove it from your relationship and I guarantee your bf is not going to like it and you’d be exposed to a much greater risk of infidelity and breakup than you would be otherwise.
You can build a house without a proper foundation but eventually it’s going to fall apart and collapse.
There are other types of sex than PIV. As long one’s wife makes the *effort* most men will be okay. Even if the frequency or quality isn’t to his liking. *Effort* is the key here.
Lots of things in life are unpleasant and undesireable and we do it anyway because we have to or it’s the right thing to do. Physical intimacy with your spouse is not an exception. Witholding sex and physical intimacy because of children or menopause or whatever is a cop out in my opinion. Go ahead and cut him off sexually but there’s about a 99.9% chance he’s going to resent it after a while and resentment is very corrosive to relationships and marriages.
You can do whatever you except choose the consequences.
Sure, but what need is there for monogamy then? You can be good friends instead.
Again, there’s more ways to do sex than just PIV. It goes both ways. As long as he’s making the effort.
Effort is what matters here because it *shows* that you *care*. Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words, as they say.
I have no compelling need to be monogamous with friends, at all.
Those relationships are not monogamous nor do I need to make consessions and comprimises in every aspect of my life to maintain those relationships.
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Most of these individuals are not men they are “males”. They are simps and porn addicts & have 0 social life outside of work/family mostly.
When a 23 years old drop dead gorgeous 10/10 hot piece of ass tell them “you’re so cute, you’re so nice” it means the world to them cause NO WOMEN in their real life ever give them any compliments, EVER!!.
I heard Jordan Peterson say that these males are addicted to onlyfans just like some femalss are addicted to social media validation (likes, comments, Dm’s, attention). Onlyfans is like a slot machine to these males they need help but refuse to get some. Even when you can go on youtube and see how these internet sex workers think so lowly of and views their “simp fans” these guys keep putting them on a pedestal and sending them money.
These weak males are dangerous & entitled because they believe in the illusion of a relationship with their ATF onlyfans girl and when some other weak male pays her more money therefore she give the other simp more attention & more screen time then they will see it as infidelity and become a crash dummy. In the USA many internet sexworkers have sadly been deleted by a simp who felt betrayed because he was not getting “enough love/compliments/attention” from his ATF anymore cause a more wealthy simp came along into the picture.
Like Jordan Peterson said:
« If you think strong men are dangerous you should see what weak men are capable of.»
Males paying & who are addicted to onlyfans are sick and need help to unplug because it is not normal behaviour.
When she says sex is free I think she was only speaking for heterosexual humans with vaginas (don’t know which one gotta take her credit card out in a lesbian relationship)*.
If not her opinion is void because IDGAF if you’re Floyd Mayweather or Tom Brady no female is gonna stick around if you tell her you ain’t never spending a lick of money on her, ever (meaning dates, gifts, valentines day expenses, etc).
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If you see your relationships as being "strenuous efforts to get sex", then yes, your limited view of human connection will always leave you with unsatisfying relationships. You are not the first one having that discourse in this thread, it's lacking emotional maturity and is quite sad.
It is accurate nonetheless.
Go see any female and tell her I wanna have sex with you for 90 days before investing anything financially on you (dates, gifts) and see how far you’ll go then come back to holla @ us with your impressive lay count using this strategy.
See the world for what it is mate his way of seeing things is not depressing it is an astute observation.
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It's not my experience. Women going out with me aren't after money I can tell you that lol
Having "game" still matters: being confident, funny, mature, attentive, stable (which, unfortunately, I'm not, hence why it never lasts long) are qualities that any descent woman looks for in a man.
Golddiggers exist, but I tend to stay far away from them.
There's still some good in this world. It depends on your POV. I choose to be positive.
His wife don’t love him like that if she won’t make love to him anymore. People like to use the 65 years old couple argument too much. In 2024 (excluding the asexual individuals) I dear any of you guys on this thread to find any woman (under 40 years old) who is a committed relationship & who is satisfied/content with having a whole man in the house everyday but being forced to “touch herself” because the guy won’t have sex with her any longer.
In 2016 it happened to 2 of my childhood friends who were in a 4+ years relationship where they didn’t get sex for the WHOLE SUMMER (3 months). When they told me I decided to ask many women in my life & on Twitter timeline(not even in their dm’s btw).
Yall wanna know the consensus I received?
POURQUOI EST-CE QUE JE SERAIS EN COUPLE AVEC UN GARS QUI VEUT PAS ME BAISER, ON EST PAS VIERGE, ON A DÉJÀ COUCHÉ ENSEMBLE ALORS POURQUOI TU VEUX PLUS ME BAISER? SI MON CHUM VEUT PLUS COUCHER AVEC MOI JVAIS CASSER AVEC LUI ET ALLER ME TROUVER UN GARS QUI VEUT. C’EST PAS VRAI QUE A 23ANS JVAIS PASSER 1 MOIS À UTILISER MON VIBRATEUR TANDIS QUE JE SUIS EN COUPLE.
2. Si mon copain veut plus me fourrer ca veut dire qu’il est plus attiré par moi donc c’est mieux que on se sépare.
3. QUOI?? Mon amoureux veut plus coucher avec mois pendant 3 mois tu me demandes je fais quoi? C’est sur il me trompe et vide ses couilles avec une/d’autres filles ou bien il est gay.
I appreciate every women who gave me these honest answers proving that sex for women & men is a must in a relationship otherwise why bother staying together but sadly only men are shamed for saying it’s a big deal that their WIFES & mother of their kids will refuse to have sex with them in a 365 days span for no fucking reason.
It's not my experience. Women going out with me aren't after money I can tell you that lol
Agree to disagree man.
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You seem to have very low regard for women and think of them as nothing more than gold diggers or someone to be used for sex.
I had never payed for sex until I was in my sixties and quite frankly have never received anything except love and kindness from the women in my life.
There is nothing that will ever compare to being in love with a woman who returns that love.
Building a life together having children and grandchildren. Life is not about how many different women you can fuck or how many times you can have sex for free.
Until you can look at a woman as a potentially equal partner in everything you will never know what you are missing out on.
Why anybody in his thirties would be spending so much time on an escort review board and hiring escorts is beyond me also.
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