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It's possible. Some women are like that. But overall, reading your posts, you seem to have a pretty closed and basic view of marriage, which can be summarized as "men provide money so women must provide sex". There's actually some much more to why 2 people choose to live together, with all the ups and downs that inevitably occur.
I can understand that more people on an escort review board will have a dim view of marriage.
There are always exceptions, I for one can only say that I had over 35 years with the most wonderful woman on the planet and will always treasure those years and I will always have the memories and my children and grandchildren who I see every week.
There is nothing in the world that compares being with a woman that returns the love you have for her.
 

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It's possible. Some women are like that. But overall, reading your posts, you seem to have a pretty closed and basic view of marriage, which can be summarized as "men provide money so women must provide sex". There's actually so much more to why 2 people choose to live together, with all the ups and downs that inevitably occur.
I’m not saying anything about your marriage just in general speaking to so many people how they are in unhappy marriages today! There used to be a thing called love years ago!
 
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I had a dim view of marriage way before I started seeing escorts.

Like everything else in life works for some doesn’t for others.
Pretty much like reviews here some think the same SP is the answer to their prayers others want their money back.
 
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In the past I had spent money on porn subscriptions (not onlyfans) on contents that are very hard to find on free sites (for example HD VR porns when Oculus first came out)

Although I had never paid for onlyfans, I would not rule out the possibility if a creator is my dream girl or if the content is right. But I have a much much higher standard on the internet and last several times I went on fansly/onlyfans none attract me to pay whatsoever
 

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In the past I had spent money on porn subscriptions (not onlyfans) on contents that are very hard to find on free sites (for example HD VR porns when Oculus first came out)

Although I had never paid for onlyfans, I would not rule out the possibility if a creator is my dream girl or if the content is right. But I have a much much higher standard on the internet and last several times I went on fansly/onlyfans none attract me to pay whatsoever
So much good stuff out there with no subscriptions
 

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Because in a sexless marriage, there is still love. A relationship has so many more levels than just sex. Just because there isn't sex any more, doesn't mean the love between the 2 people disappears.
Sure, but it’s only platonic love being offered when the other party wants erotic love.
Platonic love and monogamy don’t mix very well.
No matter how many people i sleep with, no one makes me feel the euphoria i feel just by being wrapped up in my master's arms. Even if i am close with a few of my little bf's (regulars), there is no comparison.
It is a very different thing to share a life with someone, than just to be in the bedroom.
Sure, but like it or not sex is the foundation of a monogamous relationship no matter how much (mostly women) try to downplay its importance. Remove it from your relationship and I guarantee your bf is not going to like it and you’d be exposed to a much greater risk of infidelity and breakup than you would be otherwise.

You can build a house without a proper foundation but eventually it’s going to fall apart and collapse.

And I tip my hat to any man who stands by his wife after menopause even if she goes no sex, especially as this is a major insecutity to just about every woman. Will he leave me for a younger woman when nature takes it's toll and makes sex hard to enjoy, or even painful? They don't go no sex to punish him, often it is because sex became painful or uncomfortable rather than pleasurable.*
There are other types of sex than PIV. As long one’s wife makes the *effort* most men will be okay. Even if the frequency or quality isn’t to his liking. *Effort* is the key here.

Lots of things in life are unpleasant and undesireable and we do it anyway because we have to or it’s the right thing to do. Physical intimacy with your spouse is not an exception. Witholding sex and physical intimacy because of children or menopause or whatever is a cop out in my opinion. Go ahead and cut him off sexually but there’s about a 99.9% chance he’s going to resent it after a while and resentment is very corrosive to relationships and marriages.

You can do whatever you except choose the consequences.


But there is so mich more to a woman than just sex.
Sure, but what need is there for monogamy then? You can be good friends instead.
That's like saying a husband with ED should be abandoned by his wife because he can't do anything with it any more. There is so much more between them. A life built together isn't something that you should just be willing to walk away from because of something as trivial as the ability to preform.
Again, there’s more ways to do sex than just PIV. It goes both ways. As long as he’s making the effort.

Effort is what matters here because it *shows* that you *care*. Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words, as they say.

Edit: In a good relationship, your partner can also be your best friend. You turn your back on the relationship, you loose your best friend you had for however long you were together.
I have no compelling need to be monogamous with friends, at all.
You have guy friends/best friends too, you enjoy your time when you hang out with the boys, you willing to turn your back on them because they won't let you bend them over?
Those relationships are not monogamous nor do I need to make consessions and comprimises in every aspect of my life to maintain those relationships.
 
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I have been hearing about this plateforme for a long time. I even have a friend who is completely addicted to OF and is exploding his credit card. I did not was it was all about so last month I decided to create an account to find out.
I followed few free accounts and paid accounts of some well known models.
Basically it is plateform where any girls can share and sell nude photos and videos. Ok.
I did not see anything I could not find on Youporn or Chartubate for free.
One of the model requested 20$ so she can rate my d*ck. Do I really need to pay for a random girl (I would never fuck) to rate my dick. I don't get that service.
The thrill of my friend is customized porn video and the girl next the door fantasy. I get that thrill and it is tempting. But shouldn't be enough to have 1 customized video, and move on. Why monthly suscription? Girl next door porn videos are everywhere on porn websites for free
Generic messages kept coming into my DM, and you need to unlock the messages with your credit cart. This is design to suck your credit card. Nothing exciting about it.
If I have 200$ to spend on pleasure I would prefer to spend it in a striptease club or to book an escort where I can have real pleasure.
So after a month I got bored and close my account. Is there any thrill or fantasy I missed in a month on that plateform?
Why men keep suscribing to OF. I might be old school but I'd to know.
Most of these individuals are not men they are “males”. They are simps and porn addicts & have 0 social life outside of work/family mostly.

When a 23 years old drop dead gorgeous 10/10 hot piece of ass tell them “you’re so cute, you’re so nice” it means the world to them cause NO WOMEN in their real life ever give them any compliments, EVER!!.

I heard Jordan Peterson say that these males are addicted to onlyfans just like some femalss are addicted to social media validation (likes, comments, Dm’s, attention). Onlyfans is like a slot machine to these males they need help but refuse to get some. Even when you can go on youtube and see how these internet sex workers think so lowly of and views their “simp fans” these guys keep putting them on a pedestal and sending them money.

These weak males are dangerous & entitled because they believe in the illusion of a relationship with their ATF onlyfans girl and when some other weak male pays her more money therefore she give the other simp more attention & more screen time then they will see it as infidelity and become a crash dummy. In the USA many internet sexworkers have sadly been deleted by a simp who felt betrayed because he was not getting “enough love/compliments/attention” from his ATF anymore cause a more wealthy simp came along into the picture.

Like Jordan Peterson said:
« If you think strong men are dangerous you should see what weak men are capable of.»

Males paying & who are addicted to onlyfans are sick and need help to unplug because it is not normal behaviour.
 

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I was referring to this:


Sex is basically and naturally free, at anytime. But something is interesting for you in paying for it, some advantages apply to your situation. It is the same for Onlyfans, it pleases some people and they have their own reasons for it.


Personally at this stage of my life I will take the one that you have to pay for.
I had a long life with the woman of my dreams until cancer took her, and nothing will ever compare to that.

However free sex today would be with someone who is closer to my age who I am not attracted to, not in love with and comes with a shit load of baggage that I want no part of.
Luckily there are gorgeous women out there like you who for a price fill the void somewhat and I have been very fortunate in finding one who is absolutely amazing and kind. We are all here for a different reason and I think most of us really appreciate the work and kindness you ladies provide.
When she says sex is free I think she was only speaking for heterosexual humans with vaginas (don’t know which one gotta take her credit card out in a lesbian relationship)*.
If not her opinion is void because IDGAF if you’re Floyd Mayweather or Tom Brady no female is gonna stick around if you tell her you ain’t never spending a lick of money on her, ever (meaning dates, gifts, valentines day expenses, etc).
 
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i disagree sex is never free maybe it doesn’t cost money, but then It comes with commitment, promises etc… which can be way more costly.
If you see your relationships as being "strenuous efforts to get sex", then yes, your limited view of human connection will always leave you with unsatisfying relationships. You are not the first one having that discourse in this thread, it's lacking emotional maturity and is quite sad.
 

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A guy who got married that I know of because of his money and now has no sex with his wife cause she’s not into him anymore but he shuts up and costs him money everyday but would not dare see an escort and thinks watching porn is cheating! That’s a loser sorry!
AGREE 100000%
 

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While I do not disagree with your statement, it's a very depressing way of seeing things.
It is accurate nonetheless.
Go see any female and tell her I wanna have sex with you for 90 days before investing anything financially on you (dates, gifts) and see how far you’ll go then come back to holla @ us with your impressive lay count using this strategy.

See the world for what it is mate his way of seeing things is not depressing it is an astute observation.
 
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It is accurate nonetheless.
Go see any female and tell her I wanna have sex with you for 90 days before investing anything financially on you (dates, gifts) and see how far you’ll go them come back to holla @ us with your impressive lay count using this strategy.

See the world for what it is mate his way of seeing things is not depressing it is an astute observation.

It's not my experience. Women going out with me aren't after money I can tell you that lol

Having "game" still matters: being confident, funny, mature, attentive, stable (which, unfortunately, I'm not, hence why it never lasts long) are qualities that any descent woman looks for in a man.

Golddiggers exist, but I tend to stay far away from them.

There's still some good in this world. It depends on your POV. I choose to be positive.
 

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There is more things to life then sex. Everyone needs a companion, when you get older especially over 65 yr old, loneliness hits hard as your social circle tends to shrink by a lot. It is great to have a companion to have company and do things with. I got to stripclubs and often see so many lonely men trying to buy love and still remain empty. This statement you wrote is very superficial and if that is how you think about your wife it means you do not really love her.
His wife don’t love him like that if she won’t make love to him anymore. People like to use the 65 years old couple argument too much. In 2024 (excluding the asexual individuals) I dear any of you guys on this thread to find any woman (under 40 years old) who is a committed relationship & who is satisfied/content with having a whole man in the house everyday but being forced to “touch herself” because the guy won’t have sex with her any longer.

In 2016 it happened to 2 of my childhood friends who were in a 4+ years relationship where they didn’t get sex for the WHOLE SUMMER (3 months). When they told me I decided to ask many women in my life & on Twitter timeline(not even in their dm’s btw).

Yall wanna know the consensus I received?

POURQUOI EST-CE QUE JE SERAIS EN COUPLE AVEC UN GARS QUI VEUT PAS ME BAISER, ON EST PAS VIERGE, ON A DÉJÀ COUCHÉ ENSEMBLE ALORS POURQUOI TU VEUX PLUS ME BAISER? SI MON CHUM VEUT PLUS COUCHER AVEC MOI JVAIS CASSER AVEC LUI ET ALLER ME TROUVER UN GARS QUI VEUT. C’EST PAS VRAI QUE A 23ANS JVAIS PASSER 1 MOIS À UTILISER MON VIBRATEUR TANDIS QUE JE SUIS EN COUPLE.

2. Si mon copain veut plus me fourrer ca veut dire qu’il est plus attiré par moi donc c’est mieux que on se sépare.

3. QUOI?? Mon amoureux veut plus coucher avec mois pendant 3 mois tu me demandes je fais quoi? C’est sur il me trompe et vide ses couilles avec une/d’autres filles ou bien il est gay.

I appreciate every women who gave me these honest answers proving that sex for women & men is a must in a relationship otherwise why bother staying together but sadly only men are shamed for saying it’s a big deal that their WIFES & mother of their kids will refuse to have sex with them in a 365 days span for no fucking reason.


It's not my experience. Women going out with me aren't after money I can tell you that lol
Having "game" still matters: being confident, funny, mature, attentive, stable (which, unfortunately, I'm not, hence why it never lasts long) are qualities that any descent woman looks for in a man.

Golddiggers exist, but I tend to stay far away from them.

There's still some good in this world. It depends on your POV. I choose to be positive.
Agree to disagree man.
 
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When she says sex is free I think she was only speaking for heterosexual humans with vaginas (don’t know which one gotta take her credit card out in a lesbian relationship)*.
If not her opinion is void because IDGAF if you’re Floyd Mayweather or Tom Brady no female is gonna stick around if you tell her you ain’t never spending a lick of money on her, ever (meaning dates, gifts, valentines day expenses, etc).
You seem to have very low regard for women and think of them as nothing more than gold diggers or someone to be used for sex.
I had never payed for sex until I was in my sixties and quite frankly have never received anything except love and kindness from the women in my life.
There is nothing that will ever compare to being in love with a woman who returns that love.
Building a life together having children and grandchildren. Life is not about how many different women you can fuck or how many times you can have sex for free.
Until you can look at a woman as a potentially equal partner in everything you will never know what you are missing out on.

Why anybody in his thirties would be spending so much time on an escort review board and hiring escorts is beyond me also.
 

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You seem to have very low regard for women and think of them as nothing more than gold diggers or someone to be used for sex.
I had never payed for sex until I was in my sixties and quite frankly have never received anything except love and kindness from the women in my life.
There is nothing that will ever compare to being in love with a woman who returns that love.
Building a life together having children and grandchildren. Life is not about how many different women you can fuck or how many times you can have sex for free.
Until you can look at a woman as a potentially equal partner in everything you will never know what you are missing out on.

Why anybody in his thirties would be spending so much time on an escort review board and hiring escorts is beyond me also.
Cool story mate.
 

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It existed before covid. It's just a more ethical way of making porn.
The problem is the balance can never be achieve. I won't pretend i know everything about the porn industry but the biggest sites a few years back, we talking like 10-15 years ago, would pay 800$ for a B/G scene. Yes the scene may had been 25 minutes but included hours of shooting, yet 800$ 10 years ago is not a bad ammount at all. If she did Anal or a threesome etc, she would be paid more.

On the customer side, using Brazzers as an exemple, the prices seem fair. 30$US per month but more months you take, the best price you get. If you pay for 5 years i think you can have it for less than 10$ a month. Thats new scenes almost daily and a huge backlog of content.

On the other hand, onlyfans for customers is 10-20x more expensive. Even if the entry fee is FREE, i see often scenes at 30$ US per month, wich you need to convert to CAD$ and add sale taxes too. 30$ turn to 46 or so. How come one scene of 12 minutes or so is worth 46$ ... And i didn't even mention the biggest offender to me, a lack of previews or when there is some, they last about 15 seconds and don't show many things like regular porn trailers.

OF is designed around the concept of the "pay pig" or whale if you prefer, as OP said about his friend, and using men's feeling to get money. I do buy scenes on there when the price is right, like 10$US or so, sometimes i push it to 15$. But over that its just not worth it... But this is not the core of OF. Guys like me who buy a scene here and there are not why this concept is made. Its about those dudes who want their cock rates (a thing i can't understand either.... ) or having "sexting" or different forms of "online relation" with the model, not knowing that quite often they are talking to a handler (a guy who reply on the behaf of the model because it would be unrealistic to be able to keep it up for her).

Now if OF would ACTUALLY BE MORE ETHICAL like enforcing previews of content, enforcing the disclosure of what the model do or do not do, and letting us downloading what we buy without having to use "loops" than i would likely have a better opinion of it. Oh and did i mentioned i got "cheaten" multiple times by OF. I bough scenes for them to disapear out of my purchases. And its not because the model closed her account or whatever since i still have contents i bough that says "unregistered account" or something like that. Basically the creator closed her account but i still have acces to what i paid. So why did i lost my acces to CERTAIN scenes? If i didn't downloaded them i would had litterally been robbed !

I would finish by saying that you need to be smart about your money and ESPECIALLY never buy content when horny. Always wait til after you fap and keep it for next time, so you can be sure you are a clear head on what you willing to buy. I average about 1 or 2 scenes per month or bi-monthly depending on months myself. I make sure the content is worth it. But just like video games with micro transactions (especially card packs in sports game and such) it can go fast if you ain't carefull and you have to be smarter than the system.
 

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Sure, but it’s only platonic love being offered when the other party wants erotic love.
Platonic love and monogamy don’t mix very well.

Sure, but like it or not sex is the foundation of a monogamous relationship no matter how much (mostly women) try to downplay its importance. Remove it from your relationship and I guarantee your bf is not going to like it and you’d be exposed to a much greater risk of infidelity and breakup than you would be otherwise.

You can build a house without a proper foundation but eventually it’s going to fall apart and collapse.


There are other types of sex than PIV. As long one’s wife makes the *effort* most men will be okay. Even if the frequency or quality isn’t to his liking. *Effort* is the key here.

Lots of things in life are unpleasant and undesireable and we do it anyway because we have to or it’s the right thing to do. Physical intimacy with your spouse is not an exception. Witholding sex and physical intimacy because of children or menopause or whatever is a cop out in my opinion. Go ahead and cut him off sexually but there’s about a 99.9% chance he’s going to resent it after a while and resentment is very corrosive to relationships and marriages.

You can do whatever you except choose the consequences.



Sure, but what need is there for monogamy then? You can be good friends instead.

Again, there’s more ways to do sex than just PIV. It goes both ways. As long as he’s making the effort.

Effort is what matters here because it *shows* that you *care*. Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words, as they say.


I have no compelling need to be monogamous with friends, at all.

Those relationships are not monogamous nor do I need to make consessions and comprimises in every aspect of my life to maintain those relationships.
Damn it dude lol.. I'm trying to be understanding to what others go threw too. Standing up for the men who stand by their wives, even if they turn to escorts to complete their circle of needs...

I've been just as demanding from men before as you guys can be of SPs. Fk. My single life way back when. l wasn't an escort. And unless a man could get me off, he wasn't likely to ever see me again. Ones who did though, became a ff assigned a day of the week. No man is working that hard without his own pleasure being taken care of too, so don't be thinking they were simps. They weren't. But they also knew if they didn't want to be replaced, show up on your day, and rock my world. We were concenting adults who all had intentions of remaining single. And many was my way of avoiding falling for just 1. But I also needed more on a regular basis than 1 was able to satisfy, and still call himself single. I didn't hide it, they knew. The joys of dealing with men and not women, if a guy was the jealous type, he got the cut and was replaced when I found someone to take his place. And they wanted to be single. My assumption they were enjoying what being single had to offer too. There were no finances unless they surprised me with something. I was hurt and didn't want to love anyone and still had needs. Surprises and dates are for those looking for love. I wasn't. I didn't like playing with toys alone. They, the men, became my toys.

And trust me I know what a monogamous relationship is. I've had many, and I had to tame my drive for them. The one I am in now, I would describe more as swinger style. The relationship is monogamous. But playing with others, me alone, its a job, and he enjoys hearing about it, and when I'm not up to being social he builds me back up. And my drive is higher than his. And with him I don't have to tame it down. The relationship was there, before the job was, and i brought it up to him, and turned out even our dark fantasies matched. Likely if my relationship fails, i will disappear as I'm not into doing this without him being my master, as part of my fantasies come to reality this only exhists with him.

If i have my way. I'm going to be that drirty always horney grandma, unashamed people know to call before coming over or we might be getting the freak on at any old age. Likely because they made the mistake of walking in while we are going at it on the kitchen table. Not having a sex drive is my nightmare. So is alzheimer's and dementia. Yes it is my dream to be 90 all saggs and wrinkles and being still as active and kinky shaming the yungins for being such prudes.

You don't have to convince me about trying.
 
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