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What is the point of Onlyfans? Why keep paying for this?
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Men need sex not a sexless marriage it’s natural
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This individual I know of wants sex from his wife but she’s not into him anymore but loves his money and a free life! She prefers no sex but luxury. That’s disgusting! He got himself in this mess!
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But unlike you, he isn't calling it a deal breaker to his relationship. Your judging him, and her. But who are we to judge them. If he wanted to, he would have made other choices. From the sound of it, neither of them really changed, and he knew what he was getting into.
Or she could just be asexual, not everyone enjoys sex, and some just aren't into it.Maybe she loves sex with other men
There are romantic asexuals. Where they need a partner and such, but sex just isn't for them.
Also, sometimes, married life and especially motherhood take desire and sex out of the equation which, of course, doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore
Then don't put yourself in that situation? But you can stop bringing back the subject of your friend. You're not him and he isn't you. There is no point talking on his behalf and you've written probably a dozen posts about him at this point. I promise we all got it. We can move on. It's ok. We get it. Your poor friend.
Edit : no but seriously. You have 30 posts and the majority of them were about your friend (i think you deleted some of them). Maybe you should have sex with him and post a review, since he seems to be the reason you're here lol
Well, you're free to give him my number but if he's happy in his marriage and not seeking sex elsewhere, then there is no point.
I was under the impression he was your friend the way you seem so sure that you know how he feels and what he needs. Lol
Methinks you're the one who should pay Julia a visit. Julia loves kinky
Being kinky has nothing to do with minding other peoples relationships and demanding they live by your rules of how to (how not to) treat a woman in a relationship.
She is not subservient to you to satisfy your sexual needs unless that is the kind of relationship she is into, and has accepted to have with you. (I have to add that last part as it is the kind of kinky i am into with my master) but it does not mean i can sit on my high horse and demand everyone else should live how i do. Each individual is entirely in their right to live how they want.
Only dominate i have any kind of respect for is a feminist dom. One who knows and understands women have the right to themselves, and is fine with that, even if for himself he wants someone submissive to him, that he has the say over. He doesn't badmouth a mistress for being the dominant in her senario, and doesn't badmouth the submissive man either, but appreciates everyone has their kinks and is overjoyed when he finds his own match, knowing it isn't easy to find someone who wants that role. While too many abusive men out there think it is their right to make their woman serve him, a respectful dom find one who does it because they want to, not because they are forced into it.
A battered or abused (in it's many forms) partner as it can be either male or female is not a submissive. They are a victim living their nightmare while putting on a brave face to the rest of the world.
A submissive is one who is in a senario they are comfortable in and have concented to. They are worlds appart.
And what you have described as a relationship should be wasn't kinky. It was abusive.
I dislike OF. I have to subscribe just to see what they have available? And then I might have to pay more to see that content? The platform can be used for bait and switch too easily.
However, I'm guessing most guys have an idea what's available from the person's twitter or elsewhere. And I don't think it's so much the porn they're interested in, it's the para-social relationship they're after. The good OF accounts will interact with the fans directly. You're not going to get that watching vids on pornhub.
For me personally, Manyvids is the superior site. Content isn't hidden behind a paywall and you usually know exactly what you're getting. The only times I've subbed to an OF is because they were doing some very unique stuff that isn't readily available lesewhere.
However, I'm guessing most guys have an idea what's available from the person's twitter or elsewhere. And I don't think it's so much the porn they're interested in, it's the para-social relationship they're after. The good OF accounts will interact with the fans directly. You're not going to get that watching vids on pornhub.
For me personally, Manyvids is the superior site. Content isn't hidden behind a paywall and you usually know exactly what you're getting. The only times I've subbed to an OF is because they were doing some very unique stuff that isn't readily available lesewhere.
I initially thought it was because they didn't know about the hobby, so they waste their money on OF instead
but recently, a good friend of mine, her husband is a hobbyist (she told me he told her about it), and she told me he's broke now from spending $100K this past year on OF! Insanity. He has some sort of addiction to online cam girls. In this case, it's not a lack of knowledge about the hobby..
It makes no sense to me, but I guess this can be an addiction
but recently, a good friend of mine, her husband is a hobbyist (she told me he told her about it), and she told me he's broke now from spending $100K this past year on OF! Insanity. He has some sort of addiction to online cam girls. In this case, it's not a lack of knowledge about the hobby..
It makes no sense to me, but I guess this can be an addiction
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How Onlyfans Took Over The World
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Aella
Jan 25, 2025
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At that time, probably around 2013 or so - if you were a girl who wanted to make money getting naked online, your best bet was to sign up for a livestreaming camsite. My friends and I, all in our early 20’s, lived in camhouses, traveled to conventions to camgirl live, used camgirl merch, discussed strategies in camgirl-specific forums. Of all the camsites, MyFreeCams was the biggest.
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The (oversimplified) psychology behind high earners for livestreaming went something like this: You, the aforementioned hot girl, have an established audience of regulars in your audience. Each man can see the other men talking to you and giving you money. The men are implicitly ranked by dominance, which is determined by how much attention you pay to them, which is in turn determined by how much money they give you...
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