What Made You Decide To Use A SP ?

[Siocnarf]

Wow simonpaul, you're like the merb archeologist, discovering these old threads from ancient civilizations (just a joke, no criticisim intended, )

Same reason I use the public transportation: simple, convenient, time-saving and eco-friendly.

 

[Jerking]

Can't get it for free, well with hot petite young girls

And I need it to much, relationships unless you date a nympho it's usually not on demand, and when I want it I need it so I go get it the only way I can with no hassle, well instead of attemting to get it at the bar/club hit or miss 50/50, I rather just rent a girl do what I want to do and be off.

I remmeber when I was younger at the hill top, I use to go early and bang 3-5 girls in one night, $80 $100 bucks a bang, aww man those were the days. I still need it often but I can go a few days without it, and just see one girl but try to let off twice at least, I love trying new girls but lately, well for the past 2-3 years if I find something near by that is nice I am pretty much a regular, and will stick with it. Mind you I still go see others here and there but not much.

 

[Julius Ceasar]

Willy made me do it.

 

[kaydee1968]

Interesting thread.......

For myself, I have been with my significant other for over 11 years now. I will admit that my favorite thing in the sex world is Greek. I don't know why, it just is. For the first seven or eight years, Greek was a regular part of our sex lives. Then, she started having stomach issues, and no longer wanted to partake in it. I have friends with significant others who have hobbied for years, but I never got tempted. After a while, I tried a massage. I enjoyed it. I stuck to massages for a while until I decided to try a SP. Realizing that if I am ever going to enjoy Greek again in my life, I'd either have to leave my significant other, or I could start enjoying it with another source, and have no emotional attachment to that other source at all. Affairs didn't interest me because they could certainly become emotionally involving, and could seriously complicate my "normal" life. I find seeing SPs to fulfill my fetish is a good solution.

 

[Sal Bass]

SPs, the TV dinner of sex. No dating, begging, disappointment. Unwrap and serve.

 

[Max69]

I first started in 2004, was young, working and going to school and always had "disposable income" in my pocket.

My first time was funny because we were three guy's in the room and the SP was a GFE, smoking hot and a few years older than us so we were all excited, we were at a typical "4 hour" room in Montreal and had a little over an hour each.

I tried SP's between 2004 and 2010 every summer and sometimes during the winter, it was good, I learned a lot, met a lot of girls, had amazing sex 80% of the time and it even made me a better lay to all the women in my life, I think that 90% of guy's do it or have done it in there life but they don't want to admit it.

As of 2010 I have left the whole "hobbying" scene and prefer massages once in a while.

Enjoy!

 

[footman]

A man's sex drive within himself is a powerful force that is hard to ignore. Sex is a natural human need that when fulfilled we are happier as a result. The problem for some is that it becomes an overpowering addiction that could have negative consequences either for the hobbiest or if a man has a wife or girlfriend & is going outside the relationship to have their sex addiction satisfied & fulfilled The negative consequences are 1)loss of money or opportunity cost of where the money could have been better spent.
2) lack of emotional attachment. Most Sp's care very little about you. Most Sp's are interested in making you come as quickly as possible so she can hose her next John..
3) Lack of intimacy. Sex is a wonderful feeling but sex without intimacy is a somewhat empty experience...
4)Possible lack of self esteem & self respect. Although prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, men who go to them are often looked down by most in our society
5) After we've had our orgasm then what?
6) Addictions are often part of our human make-up & the temptation to have our sex addiction fulfilled is often overpowering!
One of my favorite expressions is this> " The problem is that God created man with a brain & a penis but only enough blood to run one at a time"
As for myself I have an extreme foot fetish addiction & have been seeing mostly mp's since I was in my early 20's. I am now in my mid fifties & although my libido is not what it used to be I still have cravings for beautiful feet of a woman giving me a soft sensuous footjob.
I am also a victim of childhood sexual abuse by my older half sister who is 10 years older than me. I have written a book which will be launched along with my website very shortly within the next few weeks. My book is titled "The Impact of Incest" (My personal story)
Stay tuned! I think most of you will find it a very interesting read ....

 

[Siocnarf]

5) After we've had our orgasm then what?

After, I like to cuddle a bit. To me they're like cats: they don't really care about you, but it's still nice to have them purring on your knees.

 

[Merlot]

A man's sex drive within himself is a powerful force that is hard to ignore. Sex is a natural human need that when fulfilled we are happier as a result. The problem for some is that it becomes an overpowering addiction that could have negative consequences either for the hobbiest or if a man has a wife or girlfriend & is going outside the relationship to have their sex addiction satisfied & fulfilled The negative consequences are 1)loss of money or opportunity cost of where the money could have been better spent.
2) lack of emotional attachment. Most Sp's care very little about you. Most Sp's are interested in making you come as quickly as possible so she can hose her next John..
3) Lack of intimacy. Sex is a wonderful feeling but sex without intimacy is a somewhat empty experience...
4)Possible lack of self esteem & self respect. Although prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, men who go to them are often looked down by most in our society
5) After we've had our orgasm then what?
6) Addictions are often part of our human make-up & the temptation to have our sex addiction fulfilled is often overpowering!

Hmmm,

About emotional attachment, along with various lesser complications it can also go two ways drastically in very different directions. Some guys seem to develop deep emotional attachments and seem prone to believing their attachments are returned. On the other side some seem to have have a harsh of detachment and inability to feel that comes from previously being jaded with women in general.

My situation is probably related to the latter. One thing for certain, I've found that many middle-aged women have built up a lot of emotional baggage; sometimes it seems impenetrable. One does get tired of trying to deal with that and wasting a lot of time.

Happy hunting,

Merlot

 

[simonpaul]

For me i see sp only now for the sex.they have skills that we can find when you meet a regular women.

 

[mixfight]

Personally I think life is about experiences. And there's no way I would regret trying an SP for the first time, yet it seems to me that I've started it the wrong way..The first times should probably be different escorts..

 

[mixfight]

I think it just clicked with the second one, don't know if I should try another one or stick to her...I'm kinda confused at this point.

 

[Wexdog]

SO MUCH EASIER !

Just pay and away you go. No questions or wondering.

 

[moth2011]

The reason i use SP is every 2 years , by curiosity i want to explore another women then my own , make her lapdance which mine would never do.. but mainly since i dont want to play games with another women just have a taste of a different one so i dont end up at 50-60yrs old having had sex with only 2 womens ^^ si in overall i tottally agree with gll's post

 

[lgna69xxx]

I agree with Wexdog!

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Me too!
To much introspection leads to what happen to me this morning, and I would appreciate a male perspective to figure if if I 've been played for a fool or just that some guys are just not made to have fun?

See I was exchanging email with this mature(over 50) man , no 20 something angst here, for about 6 weeks now, he had tons of questions being new to this. That's fine with me I prefer that there is no misunderstandings, we agreed on a meeting 2 weeks ago, he cancelled, ok , I always give one chance , with me its 2 strikes your out not 3 loll... but he booked me again for tomorrow for 2hrs meeting and also to reserve him the 19 as a maybe...and he wrote meanwhile to chat and say hi, asking what wine I like...etc...and this morning he write to cancel, that his conscience doesn't allow him to meet because he thinks of his daughters (?)and that there is a blood drive tomorrow that if wanted to go he could not...

Hum...I was really taken aback as that kind of anguish I understand from a teenager but a grown men?...

Ah well, I am just wondering if I am wrong of thinking those existential questions should be asked and answered BEFORE booking a lady?

 

[blover]

Some are just not made for this kind of activity. I guess that it could be "guilt", fright of getting cought or something else.. At least he did not show up to the appointment and start crying about how he felt sorry for himself and his family!

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Thank you blover! you are right , it could have been even more a waste of time and energy...I once met a guy that cried over his divorce and I felt terrible that there was nothing I could say to console him...meeting are suppose to be fun ...

 

[blkone]

I use SP's between girlfriends. I prefer having a girlfriend and I never use any SP's when I'm with one.

Why did I decide to use an SP? Hmm, well besides sex which is good I enjoy the company of a fun female. Sure, I could 'release' for free with my hand but it's not the same thing.

I could also just use a 'fuck friend' but I've tried that once with an actual friend and that ruined our good relationship, so I'll never be doing that again.

So I think, for me, that it's a way to have sex between relationships without any of the emotional baggage that comes with a f friend.

 

[blkone]

Oh and girlfriends are more expensive than SP's! LOL!