Where is the raped by finger thread?

[Ricky bonds]

Was it deleted..?
Did it dissapear..?
Or did the thread started.... End the whole fiasco..?
Thoughts? Opinions..?
While were at it... Who else has been raped..? Or forcefully entered a finger without notice..,?
If this can be considered rape.. There's been a few mp's that have raped me !!!

 

[Mod 8]

The thread was removed by Leyenda, the thread starter.

M8

 

[old_beginner]

Sorry for you Leyenda

Too bad, it was an interesting thread but not really well started and I understand why she removed it. However, I will post the answer I was writing while the thread was removed. I hope it is still pertinent and that she will read it.


When someone is being forced to perform a sexual he/she is not consenting to, it's a rape.

Unfortunately, that thread started akwardly because Leyenda described the situation in a very confusing manner about the circumstances. Was she the client or the SP, for example?

I understand that we can attribute it to the fact she was deeply shocked by the incident and wanted to discuss it with someone, hoping that the Merbites would be supporting.

To my understanding, she fully accepted the session as a client but it evolved in a way she was not consenting anymore.

Leyenda, at what point did it change from a situation you agreed (and even sollicited, since you were the client) to a situation you were refusing? Why? Did you mention it clearly to him?
Maybe I'm coming too rational for something that was very emotive for you but it is important for you to understand when and why an acceptable situation became an unacceptable one.
If you want to share your feelings with others, it should help if you could better understand what happened to explain it to others.

Maybe you could restart the thread and be able to better explain yourself after some time. Sorry for you about what happened and I hope you will be able to feel better soon. I also hope that you will have the opprtunity to obtain somewhere else the comprehension you didn't obtain on MERB.

 

[Voyager]

Too bad, it was an interesting thread but not really well started and I understand why she removed it. However, I will post the answer I was writing while the thread was removed. I hope it is still pertinent and that she will read it.


When someone is being forced to perform a sexual he/she is not consenting to, it's a rape.

Unfortunately, that thread started akwardly because Leyenda described the situation in a very confusing manner about the circumstances. Was she the client or the SP, for example?

I understand that we can attribute it to the fact she was deeply shocked by the incident and wanted to discuss it with someone, hoping that the Merbites would be supporting.

To my understanding, she fully accepted the session as a client but it evolved in a way she was not consenting anymore.

Leyenda, at what point did it change from a situation you agreed (and even sollicited, since you were the client) to a situation you were refusing? Why? Did you mention it clearly to him?
Maybe I'm coming too rational for something that was very emotive for you but it is important for you to understand when and why an acceptable situation became an unacceptable one.
If you want to share your feelings with others, it should help if you could better understand what happened to explain it to others.

Maybe you could restart the thread and be able to better explain yourself after some time. Sorry for you about what happened and I hope you will be able to feel better soon. I also hope that you will have the opprtunity to obtain somewhere else the comprehension you didn't obtain on MERB.

o_b,

Leyenda is a guy, and he allegedly solicited a transsexual on purpose. If you check out his other threads he makes a habit of cruising for streetwalkers, calling adds on CL & Annonce, and hitting the pickup clubs.

He must have had his reasons for deleting the thread, and he will have to decide whether to restart it...

Voyager

 

[Bucky]

Qu'importe les circonstances, quand tu as des activités sexuelles avec une femme et qu'elle te dis STOP tu dois t'arrêter car ca devient une agression sexuelle, alors s'il avait affaire a une TS de bonne stature et qu'il voulait arrêter et qu'elle a refusé ca devient une agression, nous sommes ici pour discuter surtout de nos expériences avec des prostituées, a parfois les comparer a des morceaux de viande avec des cotes sur leur service, apparence ou mensurations, alors qui sommes nous pour le juger ? Si une femme a le droit de sortir seule dans une discothèque sans se faire agresser ou importuner, un homme seul a bien le droit de sortir seul dans un bar fréquenté par des transsexuels. Son erreur aura été d'avoir eu des activités a risque pendant sa probation.

 

[old_beginner]

Ooops!

o_b,

Leyenda is a guy, and he allegedly solicited a transsexual on purpose. ... Voyager

At least, it proves that initial posts by Leyenda were confusing! On the other hand, it doesn't change my mind that "when someone is being forced to perform a sexual he/she is not consenting to, it's a rape."
Of course, some people have more tendencies than other to put themselves in ambiguous situations.

 

[Leyenda]

Dû à la réception et à la dérision généralisé de ma situation, je ne ferai plus aucun commentaire sur l`évènement.

Je ne suis pas homosexuel du tout et je tiens à clarifier que j`étais consentant à avoir un rapport mais j`ai été forcé à effectuer des actes contre ma volonté et malgré mes demandes de cessation à l`agresseur, il s`agit donc d`une agression. Ce n`est pas la première ``shemale`` avec qui j`ai eu une expérience mais je ne pratique pas le BJ sur des ``fonctionellis (c-à-d qui peuvent avoir des érections) `` et JE L`AI MENTIONNÉ à la personne concernée qui malgré ça m`a FF de FORCE.

Si vous avez des questions ou des clarifications, demandez-moi les en PM, je ne commenterai plus en public et je demande que ce thread soit bloqué.

Je trouve vraiment dégoûtant le peu de compréhension que j`obtiens sur ce forum et pour mes détracteurs, vous pouvez aller vous faire fouttre...avec votre consentement bien sûr...

 

[Special K]

Je ne suis pas homosexuel. Ce n`est pas la première ``shemale`` avec qui j`ai eu une expérience mais je ne pratique pas le BJ sur des ``fonctionellis (c-à-d qui peuvent avoir des érections) `` et JE L`AI MENTIONNÉ à la personne concernée qui malgré ça m`a FF de FORCE.

Is this not contradicting yourself? You say you`re not gay yet you`ve had numerous experiences with other men. To me, that would be considered gay. Not that there`s anything wrong with that. Just to clarify Leyenda. Shemales/ transvestites are still men.

 

[Leyenda]

Do u really wanna start that convo about "what is being homosexual" ?

When you're a sex addict, you just need SEX, this sickness doesn't care about who you fuck , you just need easy sex

 

[ericmathew54]

I'm not a sex addict. I just enjoy sex. I don't over indulge....just enough...I would rather have 1 scoop of ice cream and feel satisfied than have 2 scoops and feel sick.

 

[Voyager]

Leyenda,

Since you obviously are responding to questions, could you please explain

Ce n`est pas la première ``shemale`` avec qui j`ai eu une expérience mais je ne pratique pas le BJ sur des ``fonctionellis (c-à-d qui peuvent avoir des érections) ``

and

this sickness doesn`t care about who you fuck , you just need easy sex

You reported that you were forced to give him a bj while he had his finger in your butt... so what type of ``easy sex`` did you plan to have with the tranny (or previously with other men), before the rape/assault occurred? Believe me, I understand the need for sex, but I`m confused about what type of sex you wanted when you negotiated the deal?

Voyager

 

[Special K]

Do u really wanna start that convo about "what is being homosexual" ?

Sure...It's pretty straightforward. Male + Male intercourse, oral, etc = HOMOSEXUALITY! PERIOD!

 

[Ricky bonds]

So let's forget about leyenda or layenda.....
Does anybody else like seeing ts. Or she-males..?
Does anybody do it to convince themselves that they are still straight..?
No disrespect intended.. I'm curious to know..?

 

[Mod 9]

Leyenda,
We did not like where it lead last time. By removing the thread, the issue becomes a non-issue. Now it is back and you are trying to give a better explanation. It is one sided and the truth will come out and surely you do not want the board to know about it, am I right?
Just reading over your version, members and Mods have a hard time believing your story. You consciously went to meet the provider, first at CitiBar where there are full of TS, had a talk, went to a private location and paid. Then forced into sex acts that you do not wish to perform.
We collected the facts and refusal was never hinted.
I believe that it is more about your sexual orientation confusion after the fact - than being raped.
We consider this matter closed.