Who do you attract the most?

[LC18]

@LC18, interesting thread to put in a escorting board. I hope you are not surprised that many of the answers are bitter... a lot of people wouldn't be here if they had a fulfilling sex life elsewhere....

I think the answers were very great. Not everyone has positive experiences with dating for multiple reasons. No one seemed bitter to my opinion

 

[curly]

I think the answers were very great. Not everyone has positive experiences with dating for multiple reasons. No one seemed bitter to my opinion

They were honest, at the very least!

 

[AirBo]

My experience, when I let things happen, is that I attract scammers

In my short experience with Tinder, I'm not surprised. It's much more difficult to get scammed in real life.

 

[curly]

In my short experience with Tinder, I'm not surprised. It's much more difficult to get scammed in real life.

Well, I'm thinking of that girl at work, very pretty, blonde, blue eyes, early 20s, who told me with tears un her eyes, that she was ready to do anything to get that position she wanted (with her putting emphasis on "anything"). Cliché, but true story... I could just imagine if I had felt in the trap, the black mailing, the threats... sight!

So there is not only Tinder... they are amongst us!

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

I have noticed a peculiar pattern in my interactions with women, where I tend to attract individuals who display unusual and irrational behavior. It is unclear whether this phenomenon can be attributed to my personal charm, distinctive character , or the fact that I consistently approach others with respect and kindness. Regardless of the cause, it is unfortunate but true that I often find myself in the company of women who exhibit barbaric and delusions behaviour.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

Not sure why people laughed at my answer…I was telling the truth. I’m pretty sure I know why those two types are attracted to me more than others as well.

 

[AirBo]

I have noticed a peculiar pattern in my interactions with women, where I tend to attract individuals who display unusual and irrational behavior. It is unclear whether this phenomenon can be attributed to my personal charm, distinctive character , or the fact that I consistently approach others with respect and kindness. Regardless of the cause, it is unfortunate but true that I often find myself in the company of women who exhibit barbaric and delusions behaviour.

One of my best buddies is the nicest and most patient guy I know. He mostly attracts (and ends up with) women who, like you said, display unusual, irrational, barbaric and delusional behaviors. The reason for this is that he's the only one able to put up with their shit. You might be facing the same problem: You're too nice of a guy.

 

[Fradi]

Regardless of the cause, it is unfortunate but true that I often find myself in the company of women who exhibit barbaric and delusions behaviour.

Perhaps you should cut down on the charm aspect a bit. It is obviously driving them crazy.

 

[AirBo]

Lol

have you seen its parody?

I definitely score pretty high on the Emotional Unavailability scale

Hey... at least I'm aware of it

 

[AirBo]

I have invited a 25 years old colleague of mine to take a drink with our other collègues last week after our shift. She invited me to schedule it today.

There is a lot of information in this subtilities, but the information is not clear.

A)She either forgot about valentine day and she is in couple 5%
B)She either forgot about valentine day because she is not in couple 20%
C)She knew she had nothing planned and wanted a date. 50%
D) @AirBo I let your creative mind make its magic?

So you're leaving me 25% to work with

D)i - AirBo wasn't available (5%)​

D)ii - AirBo was available, but pharmacies are out of personal lubricant (5%)​

D)iii - AirBo was available, but he already spent half of his entertainment money on @LC18 and he plans on spending the other half on @April Dyson by end of month (15%)​

 

[DouMan]

Being inconscious incompetent is dangerous, never doubted you were self aware



Je pense ne pas avoir été clair…

Alors que nous travaillons dans ses départements voisins, je texte ma collègue pour lui demander si elle veut venir prendre un verre entre collègue lundi soir.

Elle me répond qu’elle préférerais que nous planifions un verre ce soir, mercredi 14 février

Qu’est-ce que cela veut dire?

Je te laisse le 100% divise le comme tu veux

D'un autre coté faut pas nécessairement sur-analyser le comment du pourquoi. La dame se dit dispo ce soir, si ca fit l'horaire des gens en cause, cool, passer une belle soirée, tout simplement.

D'autant plus que je crois qu'on s'éloigne un peu du sujet initial. Le sujet du comment du pourquoi du cheminement décisionnel de l'être humain pourrait sans doute bien remplir son propre fil de discussion.

 

[AirBo]

Elle me répond qu’elle préférerais que nous planifions un verre ce soir, mercredi 14 février

Qu’est-ce que cela veut dire?

Je te laisse le 100% divise le comme tu veux

Les femmes n'oublient pas la St Valentin. Donc!

100% que tu as une ouverture et, si tu joues bien tes cartes, que tu vas peut-être conclure

Si j'étais toi, je ne me poserais pas trop de questions et je foncerais sur l'occasion

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

One of my best buddies is the nicest and most patient guy I know. He mostly attracts (and ends up with) women who, like you said, display unusual, irrational, barbaric and delusional behaviors. The reason for this is that he's the only one able to put up with their shit. You might be facing the same problem: You're too nice of a guy.

That is accurate my friend.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Perhaps you should cut down on the charm aspect a bit. It is obviously driving them crazy.

You are indeed right. Thanks

 

[Thor Jr]

I attract trouble, plain and simple. From my very first girlfriend to my last date, just grade A crazy trouble. And i don't mind it so much, its an adventure and it just goes to show you that love can come in all forms.
Then again, i may be looking for crazy, who knows. God has a weird sense of humor, he gives me what i can handle. One day, he may get it right. Until then, i have dating, SPs, MPs and i still have 2 good hands.

God bless women, i love them all, even the bat shit crazy ones.
Besides, sex with crazy is crazy good.

 

[Nachoy]

I tend to attract woman who have estranged daddy issues. Last three deep long relationships I had they all disliked or hated their Dads

 

[DomPerignon]

It’s been asked many times who you were usually attracted to but what about the reverse situation? When men or women approach you or like you back on dating apps, what ethnicity/race are they?

Beyond that, what kind of people do you seem to attract?

I had an international career so I was constantly interacting with women of many different backgrounds, races and ethnicities. I would not say i attract one ethnicity more than another. That did not seem to be a consideration for women who showed interest in “knowing me a little better” during my business trips overseas.
I never attracted women that were looking for a “George Clooney” type since i’m a very average looking joe, a romantic nerdy intellectual with a warm smile and a good sense of humour.
I seem to attract ladies who just enjoy having nice conversations about a wide variety of topics…and then want to get to know me a little better. Perhaps i attract women who prefer to connect intellectually before physically? Does that makes any sense?
I admit it was at times very tempting to act on those frequent “opportunities” overseas…but i never did….i was happily married at the time. Yeah i know….Boring answer!

 

[mtl_mg]

I seem to attract bigger black ladies. I'm only 5'7" and 160 lbs and asian so I don't see the connection as to why. lol

 

[jmioffe]

Cheery, slightly chunky, short Asian girls. Nothing wrong with that, could be worse, but it's kind of tiresome.

White-but-not-white tomboys (Middle easterners: Arabs, Jews, Turks; Anglo-passing Latins; non-colonial power Europeans with Asian interests; third-culture kids) lacking father figures.

Oh and straight-passing gay men with yellow fever, but that's neither here nor there.

 

[jmioffe]

I seem to attract bigger black ladies. I'm only 5'7" and 160 lbs and asian so I don't see the connection as to why. lol

Black women and Asian men are considered least desirable in mainstream opinion. It's exacerbated when you're a fat woman or a skinny man. That could be the dynamic happening there.