Who do you attract the most?

[Thor Jr]

I attract trouble, plain and simple. From my very first girlfriend to my last date, just grade A crazy trouble. And i don't mind it so much, its an adventure and it just goes to show you that love can come in all forms.
Then again, i may be looking for crazy, who knows. God has a weird sense of humor, he gives me what i can handle. One day, he may get it right. Until then, i have dating, SPs, MPs and i still have 2 good hands.

God bless women, i love them all, even the bat shit crazy ones.
Besides, sex with crazy is crazy good.

 

[Nachoy]

I tend to attract woman who have estranged daddy issues. Last three deep long relationships I had they all disliked or hated their Dads

 

[DomPerignon]

It’s been asked many times who you were usually attracted to but what about the reverse situation? When men or women approach you or like you back on dating apps, what ethnicity/race are they?

Beyond that, what kind of people do you seem to attract?

I had an international career so I was constantly interacting with women of many different backgrounds, races and ethnicities. I would not say i attract one ethnicity more than another. That did not seem to be a consideration for women who showed interest in “knowing me a little better” during my business trips overseas.
I never attracted women that were looking for a “George Clooney” type since i’m a very average looking joe, a romantic nerdy intellectual with a warm smile and a good sense of humour.
I seem to attract ladies who just enjoy having nice conversations about a wide variety of topics…and then want to get to know me a little better. Perhaps i attract women who prefer to connect intellectually before physically? Does that makes any sense?
I admit it was at times very tempting to act on those frequent “opportunities” overseas…but i never did….i was happily married at the time. Yeah i know….Boring answer!

 

[mtl_mg]

I seem to attract bigger black ladies. I'm only 5'7" and 160 lbs and asian so I don't see the connection as to why. lol

 

[jmioffe]

Cheery, slightly chunky, short Asian girls. Nothing wrong with that, could be worse, but it's kind of tiresome.

White-but-not-white tomboys (Middle easterners: Arabs, Jews, Turks; Anglo-passing Latins; non-colonial power Europeans with Asian interests; third-culture kids) lacking father figures.

Oh and straight-passing gay men with yellow fever, but that's neither here nor there.

 

[jmioffe]

I seem to attract bigger black ladies. I'm only 5'7" and 160 lbs and asian so I don't see the connection as to why. lol

Black women and Asian men are considered least desirable in mainstream opinion. It's exacerbated when you're a fat woman or a skinny man. That could be the dynamic happening there.

 

[bodick7]

Hier, une de mes favorites m’a dit que j’étais beau. La dernière qui m’a dit ça, c’était ma mère…

 

[sorengard]

Mid-40s, 5'6....nice but not hot (unfortunately).

Amazing how much your physical appearance impacts your life despite our refusal to acknowledge it.

 

[LC18]

In my personal life I tend to attract older white men (45+) either tech guys or business men (can be real estate or have his own business).

Older white men suddenly realizing they were into black women all this time

 

[S.S neo]

Gold diggers... i’m suddenly more interesting when they ask where i live or the type of car i’m driving ...

 

[LC18]

Gold diggers... i’m suddenly more interesting when they ask where i live or the type of car i’m driving ...

Then lie and tell them you live in a basement in Anjou and you drive a Tercel 98. That should keep them away.

 

[Sylar]

Black women and Asian men are considered least desirable in mainstream opinion. It's exacerbated when you're a fat woman or a skinny man. That could be the dynamic happening there.

The recent polls involving Lena beg to differ.
I am of Asian heritage, I never felt being less desired than my non Asian counterparts. Of course that is just my personal perspective. I guess it depends where this "mainstream" opinion is originating from.

 

[jmioffe]

The recent polls involving Lena beg to differ.
I am of Asian heritage, I never felt being less desired than my non Asian counterparts. Of course that is just my personal perspective. I guess it depends where this "mainstream" opinion is originating from.

Don't shoot the messenger:

"Rudder wrote that user data showed that most men on the site rated black women as less attractive than women of other races and ethnicities. Similarly, Asian men fell at the bottom of the preference list for most women. "

https://www.npr.org/2018/01/09/575352051/least-desirable-how-racial-discrimination-plays-out-in-online-dating

Maybe it's different in Quebec?

 

[Sylar]

Don't shoot the messenger:

"Similarly, Asian men fell at the bottom of the preference list for most women."

https://www.npr.org/2018/01/09/575352051/least-desirable-how-racial-discrimination-plays-out-in-online-dating

Maybe it's different in Quebec?

Maybe it's different in Asia

 

[BombaRad]

Older white men suddenly realizing they were into black women all this time

Older white men suddenly realizing they were into black women all this time

Seed was planted early: my first slow dance was with mixed-black girl.
Later, there was only one black girl in high school and the image of that ass in tight Jordaches and those tits under that jean jacket are still great spank material.
Not as sudden as it may seem. Simmering is how I'd put it.

I was intimidated by all that sexual potency and hadn't a clue as to how to tap into it.
But now I do
It was in me all along! LOL

 

[hello123]

When I used to shave my head and facial hair:
- Good girls
- Gay men (includes gay pickup artist)

With beard and long hair:
- Girls in relationships
- Free spirited girls with a dormant raunchy side

 

[LC18]

I think a real gold digger wouldn’t mind what car

I think a baby gold digger would assume that a nice car means money, a seasoned gold digger would know that a luxury car doesn’t mean money. Many very wealthy men drive very basic cars but they’re just full equipped and not leased/on payment plans.

But that’s a topic for another thread

 

[mtl_mg]

Don't shoot the messenger:

"Rudder wrote that user data showed that most men on the site rated black women as less attractive than women of other races and ethnicities. Similarly, Asian men fell at the bottom of the preference list for most women. "

https://www.npr.org/2018/01/09/575352051/least-desirable-how-racial-discrimination-plays-out-in-online-dating

Maybe it's different in Quebec?

It is also data from 10 years ago. The world changes quite quickly.

 

[Daffy]

30% Women around my age.
69% (hehe) Women way younger than me.
1% Mens.

In my professional life (or school) I'm a very assertive person without effort and most women seem to be attracted by that.

If they see me outside my professional life then they realize I'm an introvert and I like a lot being alone enjoying music and observing the world. That's when most of those women lose interest.

For the rest still interested (mostly young) then it becomes a roleplay and ask a lot of advices about life. They understand I'm not a saint and I've seen a fairly amount of shit on my life.

A few times I've been in a fantastic platonic relationship because they feel safe and even if they know I'm not a saint they understand that I'll never "make a move".

Story short... Young troubled women hahaha.

 

[LC18]

Slavs mostly Russians, Ukrainians and Serbians are still at the top of the list but I’d add Italians and mosquitoes