A male SP in Montréal is sharing his experience : http://mi.lapresse.ca/screens/ebbfc668-0b00-44f9-82b0-10d79326a3db__7C___0.html
Women paying for sex
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the myth that 'women dont need to pay for sex' is just that, a myth. I would like to see this phenomenon grow in popularity, to remove the taboo in the industry in general
Well, I registered a dating website, and just in a few days, I receive many emails from the girls, but maybe 30-40% of them from mature (50-60 yr old) ladies. Reading their very long emails are quite interesting, and I can understand their loneliness; however too bad I were looking for younger ones.
Women go to male strip clubs to fondle guys, women go on vacation in Mexico and have sex with Gigolos.
It is about control, power and sexual gratification. Just like what guys are looking for.
It is about control, power and sexual gratification. Just like what guys are looking for.
You can see a female dwarf make money in the sex trade, do not see any male dwarfs doing well, the point is that almost any female ( below a certain age ) can get laid if she wants to, for free plus even throw in a few drinks and perhaps a meal. Now take a male, the odds of free sex is on the low side unless you pay for it or look great and are in shape, even then the odds are not in your favor.
It's so nice to see non-judgmental media coverage of this. 
I've had a number of clients who are women or non-binary folks, they have needs just like anyone!
Plus I booked an escort for myself once before, to celebrate the end of a good tour, and I'd love to do it again sometime. Honestly I think everyone should see a provider at least once in their life.
I've had a number of clients who are women or non-binary folks, they have needs just like anyone!Plus I booked an escort for myself once before, to celebrate the end of a good tour, and I'd love to do it again sometime. Honestly I think everyone should see a provider at least once in their life.
Really? Just speaking for myself but only sexual gratification, nothing about control or power, WTF for.
The power is usually tacit but it's there. When you're the one paying for sex, you are setting the terms. That doesn't mean you own her (an SP I saw recently said there are guys who act that way) but it's definitely different than when two people sleep together and money isn't involved.
So, when you pay someone for sex, get a blowjob and perhaps COF it is a feeling of power? Interesting.
the power thing is another bullshit thing. I never wanted power over the providers I see, I dont feel like I have power, I just want to feel the touch of a woman...If anything i think providers have power. they set the terms, price, restrictions, ....we do not set the terms
the famous quote from oscar wilde is cute, but bullshit. (everything in life is about sex except sex, sex is about power)
the famous quote from oscar wilde is cute, but bullshit. (everything in life is about sex except sex, sex is about power)
This! Not to say that there aren't some clients out there who view it as a power thing, of course. But honestly trying to turn a booking into a weird power play or acting like you can hold money over me is the quickest way to get turned down or kicked out. I'm here for the gents who take a respectful, egalitarian approach. We can have so much more fun together that way!
Not that hard to go to a pub across the city where no one knows you, do not mean go out every week to get laid and after awhile you run out of pubs. Airport lounge for layovers are a good place..
Where there is a will there is a way. Never fish at the office, ever.
Totally agree with Patron here. Lack of time is one major, if not THE major, reason we do this.
You may say go to a pub and just take over whoever wants it but men it's not that easy! I know because once in a while I hit off with girl (most of the time when I travel for work) but men it's hard! It's time consuming and down the road, quite costly.
Much easier to look at the menu, schedule, bing bang boum and pay
Cheers,
You may say go to a pub and just take over whoever wants it but men it's not that easy! I know because once in a while I hit off with girl (most of the time when I travel for work) but men it's hard! It's time consuming and down the road, quite costly.
Much easier to look at the menu, schedule, bing bang boum and pay
Cheers,
No.... For me it is the only way I can have sex with a hot girl one third my age, no other reason. When I was in my teens to mid thirties I never paid for sex and had it enough to keep a smile on my face.
Be nice, have a good sense of humor and at times have top quality drugs.
PS. Got married in my mid thirties. Started the escort thing in my fifties.
Not saying it's a feeling of power but you're not exactly on the equal footing of mutual attraction and sexual desire. You're a consumer who is paying for a service so the provider generally aims to satisfy you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't please her too. I can also confidently say I've never COF or COB of any woman I've ever slept with, SP or not.
But anyway, thank goodness for SPs. I can still get non SP women but in between the time required and the uncertainty, it's far easier just to do away with the pretense. Plus, SPs have been drama-free for me. That's more than I can say with women that I don't have transactional relationships with. SPs haven't checked my phone to see if I've been texting another woman. Maybe one day, Western sensibilities won't define love as not letting different people experience your genitals.
natasha hall 'woment are paying for sex'
local radio show caught part of this interview with Maxime Durocher, an apparently successful male escort (for women)
http://www.iheartradio.ca/cjad/what...f-2-1.4210906?mode=Article&autoplay=1.4210906
Apparently she recently did interviews with female escorts, but cannot get them to play on my pc, if someone can get a functionnal link, i would be interested to hear it
local radio show caught part of this interview with Maxime Durocher, an apparently successful male escort (for women)
http://www.iheartradio.ca/cjad/what...f-2-1.4210906?mode=Article&autoplay=1.4210906
Apparently she recently did interviews with female escorts, but cannot get them to play on my pc, if someone can get a functionnal link, i would be interested to hear it
The reporter that did fist did the story on French media determined that the female clients for male SPs varied widely in age. They only common factor was that they could afford to pay for sex as a diversion.
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