Would it be fair to say Porn is the most difficult type of SW?

[TheQuestion]

Hey guys,

Here are some of my thoughts based on some research I've done:

Easiest to Hardest types of SW:

1-Camming: Showing models will show some skin but mostly bikini pictures or G/G makeouts. Most of the content is softcore.

2-OF: Some women choose to only show nudes. Or film with their BF

3-Sugar Dating: Women mostly going on dates, and it prepares most ladies for escorting in the future. I met some women who told me they got started sugar dating before moving to escorting or stripping.

4-Stripping: While it might seem difficult half the ladies do extras while the other half don't. Doing extras is not a requirement. There are bouncers watching over the ladies. Also, OTC seems to have happened but not all the time.


5- Brothels and legal massage parlors: It seems these places are heavily regulated. I'm talking about legal brothels and massage parlors primarily in Europe.Most ladies use condoms for sex. At best, if you pay more, you might get a BBBJ but doing more seems to be uncommon.CBFS appears to be the norm.

6-Others/maybe BDSM-type events/swingers. These tend to be very ruled-orientated as well, from what I read. There are a few models performing and other people watching. So sometimes people will only pay to watch.

7-Escorting: Some people think escorting is hard because they think escorts have sex with anyone. But I believe it isn't since most escorts know their clients. The clients are a small group. Also, condom use is common.I read on review that some guys are happy to get BBJ.

8- Porn: I do believe is the hardest type of SW because the producers want a lot of hardcore content for tube sites where the competition is high. Also many producers make porn stars have sex with no condoms, rimjobs right away, creampies, anal, even piss..etc. You might see a model doing "softcore" type of content one week and then the next one she is doing more hardcore scenes right away. I heard people who have experiences in other kinds of SW saying, "Porn is rough."


What do you guys think?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Are porn actresses at risk of being killed on their job?

But I believe it isn't since most escorts know their clients.

Every client I have was once a stranger.

 

[Doc Holliday]

I agree with Giselle. I think it’s the other way around.

 

[Sylar]

What do you mean by "easiest"? Lowest barrier of entry? Least risk? Highest potential for money? There are a lot of different way to look at this.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I do not think so. I think the hardest is working as an escort posting ads and seeing strangers. That is risky. You got no idea who the person is, whether you will like him or not, and you never know there are a lot of as×$#)ls out there.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I'm at loss for words lol ... ALL of these jobs are difficult and dangerous, for different reasons. What Giselle says is true, and it seems like you're assuming that escorts always have the same clients. That's not true. We always meet new clients and regulars are not as common as you think.

A lot of your assumptions about different types of sex work are false.. It's not easy to be a stripper for instance.. I know people who are dancers and they have to hustle all night, it's physically strenuous and guys will try to get extras from you even if you don't offer them (aka assault. I've had friends complain to me that guys would pull their hair or try to finger them or grab them during shifts).. It's the same thing with MP's, it's not because you're working with other people that you're safe. Some girls get stealthed at parlors, you have to deal with guys who are on coke or drunk, etc. Sugar daddies can be very cheap and manipulative, I've known girls who were r*ped and coerced into very weird stuff by their SD's. The few times I tried SD sites I was offered 300$ to spend a whole day with dudes I had never met and wanted to pick me up at my place by car.

I think clients underestimate how difficult it is to be an escort sometimes. If I write too much about this people will say I am victimizing myself and ''I decided to do this so I should just shut up''. I love my job, but some aspects of it are undeniably hard, and even after 3 years of experience I still struggle with them sometimes.

 

[Anong]

Sugar Dating: Women mostly going on dates, and it prepares most ladies for escorting in the future. I met some women who told me they got started sugar dating before moving to escorting or stripping.

Yes, some start as sugar baby and then do escorting. I met one, when she started escorting and she told me that that did did sugar baby before starting.

Brothels

Is there any Brothel in Montreal or in Canada? We are not living in Europe.

All your question 3-6. All very risky for the ladies who are doing. They do not know who will show up.

 

[minutemenX]

I'm at loss for words lol ... ALL of these jobs are difficult and dangerous, for different reasons. What Giselle says is true, and it seems like you're assuming that escorts always have the same clients. That's not true. We always meet new clients and regulars are not as common as you think.

A lot of your assumptions about different types of sex work are false.. It's not easy to be a stripper for instance.. I know people who are dancers and they have to hustle all night, it's physically strenuous and guys will try to get extras from you even if you don't offer them (aka assault. I've had friends complain to me that guys would pull their hair or try to finger them or grab them during shifts).. It's the same thing with MP's, it's not because you're working with other people that you're safe. Some girls get stealthed at parlors, you have to deal with guys who are on coke or drunk, etc. Sugar daddies can be very cheap and manipulative, I've known girls who were r*ped and coerced into very weird stuff by their SD's. The few times I tried SD sites I was offered 300$ to spend a whole day with dudes I had never met and wanted to pick me up at my place by car.

I think clients underestimate how difficult it is to be an escort sometimes. If I write too much about this people will say I am victimizing myself and ''I decided to do this so I should just shut up''. I love my job, but some aspects of it are undeniably hard, and even after 3 years of experience I still struggle with them sometimes.

Even if most clients are good people that wish you no harm, there is a measurable possibility to eventually run into a real psycho on drugs even with rigorous screening. Frankly, I would have a bear spray, a taser or even a loaded gun somewhere and if the shit hit the fan would not hesitate to use it in self defence.

 

[LC18]

*eye roll* *loud sigh*

 

[Lunaseraphim]

*eye roll* *loud sigh*

Right lol

 

[Halloween Mike]

I don't think you can "rank them" like that. Experience may be different from one person to another and you need to experience them all to be able to tell wich one was easier or harder for you.

All have their benefits and lowbacks.

Porn can be "safer" aka regulated (test, agents, production companies with recognition) but then it always depend on the performer, what she want to push herself to do, and so on. How many stories we had of porn performers being heavily on drugs and eventually it turned out very bad for them. For every "glamour big names" there is hundreds of gals who don't get near that. And its not just about "beauty" or performances.

Some performers may enter the business not wanting to do any of these "DPs, rimming, ass stretching or rough scene etc" but they may get push by agents or should i say manipulated in, being told this where the money is at and so on. Sometimes they may do it on their free will and all but regret it later (for instance Felicity Feline). Once its on the internet, its not going away.

Anyway...

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I don't think you can "rank them" like that. Experience may be different from one person to another and you need to experience them all to be able to tell wich one was easier or harder for you.

All have their benefits and lowbacks.

Porn can be "safer" aka regulated (test, agents, production companies with recognition) but then it always depend on the performer, what she want to push herself to do, and so on. How many stories we had of porn performers being heavily on drunks and eventually it turned out very bad for them. For every "glamour big names" there is hundreds of gals who don't get near that. And its not just about "beauty" or performances.

Some performers may enter the business not wanting to do any of these "DPs, rimming, ass stretching or rough scene etc" but they may get push by agents or should i say manipulated in, being told this where the money is at and so on. Sometimes they may do it on their free will and all but regret it later (for instance Felicity Feline). Once its on the internet, its not going away.

Anyway...

I think this is true, I wouldn't want to be a porn actress.. it's also hard to be successful in porn and actors don't get paid as much.. I just don't think it's useful to compare

 

[TheQuestion]

Hey guys,
Thanks for the answers. I have revised my list to make escorting more difficult based on your testimonials, I do take your feedback into account. At the same time, I have met some SB's it is possible to get away with going on dates or events, I had SB friends. I am not saying there's a lot of money in it but it is an option. So if you are a someone wanting to do it part time like make it a side gig. Likewise with stripping some dancers do extras and other don't. So you can get away with dancing and make money our of lapdances or selling bottles.

Meanwhile, with porn it seems most actresses have to do scenes with most companies. So they are doing no condom sex, rimjobs, anal earlier on. You guys know more about Escorting than I do but isn't condom use more condom and at least on some escort websites you are asked for references and verifications.

 

[LC18]

Why making a list anyways? Especially as someone who hasn’t done any of those jobs…

“Based on research” you guys always want to act like you know everything about sex work just because you fucked a few of us.

I’ll stop here before I say things that will…

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Hey guys,
Thanks for the answers. I have revised my list to make escorting more difficult based on your testimonials, I do take your feedback into account. At the same time, I have met some SB's it is possible to get away with going on dates or events, I had SB friends. I am not saying there's a lot of money in it but it is an option. So if you are a someone wanting to do it part time like make it a side gig. Likewise with stripping some dancers do extras and other don't. So you can get away with dancing and make money our of lapdances or selling bottles.

Meanwhile, with porn it seems most actresses have to do scenes with most companies. So they are doing no condom sex, rimjobs, anal earlier on. You guys know more about Escorting than I do but isn't condom use more condom and at least on some escort websites you are asked for references and verifications.

What? A lot of clients refuse to screen! That's one of the biggest issues we have! And references are not necessarily reliable.

I honestly don't see the point of making this post, it's full of misinformation... A lot of other things you're saying aren't true. What do you mean by "getting away with going on dates and events"? Do you mean you didn't compensate them for the dates? Sugar babies are doing the same thing as escorts.

All of these jobs are difficult and dangerous.. by the way the porn industry creates expectations for clients and generally men in our lives.

 

[Julia Sky]

Hey guys,
Thanks for the answers. I have revised my list to make escorting more difficult based on your testimonials, I do take your feedback into account.

I don't think anyone gave you feedback to have you revise your list - I think the list itself is unnecessary and a weird idea from someone who hasn't done any of these jobs. I've done several forms of sex work and they're all difficult for their own reasons.

Nobody particularly wants or needs you to make a list. What are we trying to achieve here?