Lusty Pig said:
Ahahahaha! Time off for her period. Man, you're funny. OK, sure, that's what happens. DTAY anyone? Really??
Would you get married with an escort girl?
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Ahahahaha! Time off for her period. Man, you're funny. OK, sure, that's what happens. DTAY anyone? Really??
Double Standard?
What is wrong with her doing it? Presumably you are a customer of escorts. Do you look down on them that much? Do you think there is a problem with them doing that for a living? Why? And if so, why are you a customer?
tangoman000 said:
What is wrong with her doing it? Presumably you are a customer of escorts. Do you look down on them that much? Do you think there is a problem with them doing that for a living? Why? And if so, why are you a customer?
bensonnobalia said:
If so, then why is it OK to avail yourself of the sexual services of someone who is psychologically scared, damaged, what have you?
would marry an escort
There is nothing wrong with a dancer or escort. While chances are slim that I will get married again, it is more likely that it will be with a woman who takes part in my hobbies. I don,t intend to stick one woman, so if she can play and earn money the more power for her. Jack
There is nothing wrong with a dancer or escort. While chances are slim that I will get married again, it is more likely that it will be with a woman who takes part in my hobbies. I don,t intend to stick one woman, so if she can play and earn money the more power for her. Jack
YouVantOption said:
That's a good point. But you can justify it by treating them well. I've been to thailand, and didn't partake, but saw others that did. I was drinking at my hotel bar, the guy would come in with a woman, get a room, and come back out an hour later, slam down the key and not even say goodbye. At least I try to get to know them, and talk... It's not really much different than going to a club and having a one night stand. Women do that for free for guys they want to go home with...
gamelessdork said:
With my ex gf 5x a week, average 3 hours per session...that's 15 hours, not counting quickies. And we weren't living together.
Damn...if guys only spend 1 hour at a time giving pleasure to their lady it's no big surprise why they are single.
Techman said:With my ex gf 5x a week, average 3 hours per session...that's 15 hours, not counting quickies. And we weren't living together.
Damn...if guys only spend 1 hour at a time giving pleasure to their lady it's no big surprise why they are single.
I'm giving averages. I take a bit longer, so with my ex we would begin at the end of the night and basically the sun would come up by the time it was over, and she'd get really mad at me. I'm just saying the average person, is about an hour with everything included.
gamelessdork said:
Thailand is significantly different in that prostitution is both culturally more acceptable and heavily motivated by poverty (not saying week-four welfare street walkers aren't, but in Thailand, there is no welfare, so the villages send out their cute daughters to help support them all).
It is hugely different from taking a girl home for a one night stand. next time you are out cruising. try offering a hottie money to sleep with you.
bensonnobalia said:
Not at all disputing the assessment; I posted actual data backing it up some time ago from a government study. It was poo-poo'ed here. Or rather a lot of people stuck their fingers in their ears and went 'La la la la I can't HEAR you' when i pointed out the relevant parts that made note of the prevalence (i.e. significantly higher rates than among the baseline) of pimps, sexual abuse, rampant drug abuse and STDs among the hooking sector.
To be honest I think that if an SP creates strong feelings that would make me contemplate marriage, then I would believe she is just a better actress than the others.
However, its tough to say or know unless you are actually in that situation.
However, its tough to say or know unless you are actually in that situation.
Maria Divina said:who allow me to just strongly confirm something....
To never ever talk, in my future, that a day, I was an escort...to give me just a little more chance to find someone who may love me really a day.... and to skip all the "judgemental aura" that can be bring by the population to my relationship....
Thank you very much...and every girl/women should take the lesson too
I've never understood poetic speak. If it's not too personal, could you give us your take on this?
As I said in my original post 3 pages ago, I agree with Maria Divina, the past is the past.
Don't judge people on what they have done, as you don't know all of the circumstances. If you have to judge, judge only on the present.
People can be so closed minded. If you were to meet the woman (or man) of your dreams, someone who you are totally in love with, and all of that mushy stuff, but then you find out that she was an escort. Do you stop loving her?
What I said in my original post was that in the case of an escort or stripper, it would have to be behind them. I would not, and could not fall in love because of it. But if i were to fall in love with someone, and then find out about their past, I can accept it. What can I say, thats just the way I am.
Don't judge people on what they have done, as you don't know all of the circumstances. If you have to judge, judge only on the present.
People can be so closed minded. If you were to meet the woman (or man) of your dreams, someone who you are totally in love with, and all of that mushy stuff, but then you find out that she was an escort. Do you stop loving her?
What I said in my original post was that in the case of an escort or stripper, it would have to be behind them. I would not, and could not fall in love because of it. But if i were to fall in love with someone, and then find out about their past, I can accept it. What can I say, thats just the way I am.
tangoman000 said:
I've been to strip clubs 5x in my life, and they for some reason, always asked "would you date a stripper?". Why. I know my answer is no. And I'm sure I have a good reason why.
didn't understand
That i know, i was saying how bout if she just dances in clubs like Chez parre or wanda's, nothing else . Works at a non contact club and pays her bills! No escort on the side, no dinners with clients, nothing.......would you marry her?
oliver_kloseoff said:
That i know, i was saying how bout if she just dances in clubs like Chez parre or wanda's, nothing else . Works at a non contact club and pays her bills! No escort on the side, no dinners with clients, nothing.......would you marry her?
Maria Divina said:I just want to be sure to not be overjudged in my future, for my past....
and, do you know , personnaly, I just don't ask to a man how much girlfriends he got previously, that's not my own business... and I'm focusing more on the present....and all it could brings me...
What i wanted to say is, the girls/women should not tell to anyone what they did, when that's part of the past, if they definitevely want to keep it into the past.
It's like an "hobbist" should tell his fiancée of his pasts activities??
No!! That's not belonging to his relationship with her, and will just bring some anxiety to her eventually...
My conclusion, to have been an escort or a hobbyst is just part of something really private to not share with anyone....
That would be building a relationship on dishonesty from the very start and could not work. But this business is all about dishonesty... so you take it from there
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