Would you get married with an escort girl?

[YukonJack]

Pollys

There is more to multiple relationships than polygamy. There are societies that practice polyandry, thats when women have more than one husband. More common is polyamory when people are involved in multiple relationships, for some it might be called swinging, for others involves long term, not one night stands. I lost the love of my life to cancer a year ago. When she was alive we played together, we invited another woman to join us for fun. I was the instigator but with her approval. She decided when, where and who. It was only a few times a year. Never once did I stray. To some our committement may seem odd but it was based on truth and openess. She knew me for who I am and I could not have imagined seeing an SP without her knowing about and approving the choice, and being together as a couple.

I see following a polyamory as a lifestyle and intend to let any female suitors the score. This is not the lifestyle for everbody and like marriage to an escort or a john is not acceptable to most.
Jack

 

[naughtylady]

After 5 years of escorting I have a hard time believing in honesty and fidelity. How many time have I been with a man who tells me "quiet, its my wife" when the phone rings. Then talks to her all sweet and sugary, (honey I love you, I miss you...) then ravages me as soon as she is off the phone. Because of this I would be hesitant to marry a hobbiest... no matter how special he is to me, no matter how much I loved him, I would be afraid.

I am certain not all men cheat... I have lost a few long time regulars due to relationships but ...

I would love to find myself in a traditional relationship and quit my job. I very much enjoy escorting but... let me put it this way: in order for me to have what I really want in a relationship, I would have to find myself a new career (unless he was able and willing to support me ) Like JAG said: the bottom line is that we work for money, no matter how much we may like our work.


I have been in open relationships where he had "permission" to have an affair or another lover, AS LONG AS I WAS TOLD ABOUT IT. and still he cheated by keeping his affairs secret, telling me he was out with the guys drinking and passed out at one of their appts when he was actually banging some girl all night (yes I am still hurting over this and still am a bit bitter... does it show?

So while I would love to settle down and have a traditional relationship, I don't know if I can...

Ronnie,
Naughtylady