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    Who here has dated an SP ?

    I'm curious here who has or is dating an SP ? I'm a little/ alot confused about my present situation ...... But damn did I say the sex is good.. ...lol
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    Dating an SP is always going to be a challenge

    Not only for the gentleman, but for the woman as well. I know that I couldn't handle it, and I would expect a guy who truly cares for me to be uncomfortable with my intimacy with others... in other words - I wouldn't date a guy who was okay with me continuing to SP. That being said, I have a regular job, savings, and other skills that would allow me to remain independent if the opportunity for a relationship presented itself. I am not sure that many other ladies have this luxury.

    Bigdog - what would your GF do if she was no longer SPing? Could she find alternative employment or would she then be dependent upon you? Contrary to popular belief, most SPs DON'T want to give up that independence they have come accustomed to (myself included) - I am used to handling everything myself, to having the freedom to go on vacation on a whim, to buy that cute 150$ bra and the 75$ panty (afterall I can earn it back)... and it isn't just the material stuff. When you SP, you get everything you need and more, lot's of affection, tons of attention, you become almost a "star" for a few hours a day. It is very hard for a "real-life" relationship to compete with that.

    Bigdog - my advice, if you know you would like this to develop into something more serious, you'll have to let her know what you are not comfortable with and give her time to decide if she is ready to commit to you. You have only know each other a month or so... not very long. Either way good luck to you both.

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    I do not think you can generalise. I am in the very lucky position of having a wonderful boyfriend. We have been together for the past 4 1/2years (that is 1 year longer than I have been SPing).

    No he is not a loser, mooching, pimp. He is my rock, my anchor. We taked a lot before I ever got into the sex industry. It is not always easy, but we manage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by curious
    That's what Paul McCartney thought. However, dating/marrying an SP can be very expensive.

    http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2006250730.html
    Maybe she never stopped being an sp and viewed McCartney as the ultimate client!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ass_lover
    I've experienced... many strippers between the age of 17-25 (most of them from Chez Paree and Wanda's).
    Holy crap, man, are you playing for the Canadiens?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ben Dover
    I agree with Board Stiff... it's usually a bad move to date an SP. On the other hand, everything in life tends to be a question of perspective. If you change the word "girl" to "fuck" and "friend" to "buddy" (ie: girlfriend now = fuckbuddy) and change the word "dating" to "hanging out with" then you should be able to ride it out for all it's worth... Think of her as an SP-friend

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    Quote Originally Posted by curious
    That's what Paul McCartney thought. However, dating/marrying an SP can be very expensive.

    http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2006250730.html
    Divorce is always expensive. Her "colourful" past just makes it more interesting. If anything her past might end up reducing the ammount of her final settlement.

    We still have no proof that she ever actually worked as a prostitute, we only have proof that she worked in porn.

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    If you were dating an SP and you want to continue doing so, the last thing you want to do is post your experience on a public board like this. Think about it from the perspective of the sp.
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    whatever you do

    watch out for the pimp even if she says she doesnt have one
    its weird but sometimes the pimp doesnt live in the same city
    than the sp
    everything (sex,romance even plan for future...)is perfect youll see till you discover the pimp
    than youll think about this message...

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    Paul McCartney's estranged wife is asking for 20,000 US...a day!

    fml

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