Page 1 of 4 123 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 56

Thread: Anyone had 1st kiss or lose virginity to a SP??

  1. #1

    Anyone had 1st kiss or lose virginity to a SP??

    I might not get any responses but....have any of you had your first kiss
    or lost your virginity to a SP ? How was the experience ? Did you feel
    any shame/guilt ? Just wondering....because I have been considering
    going down that road myself.

  2. #2
    It was the best thing I ever did... I mean, I was 23 and I had to tried it... It was burning me inside. i could not take it anymore ... It was either this or lord know what...

    I went to an incall place, I almost came when she was sucking me, and then when I was inside her, it felt sooo good.... After a bit, (I did not come that fast ) I came and it was the best feeling ever... I never told the sp I was a virgin....

    After many years and absolutely no luck with the lady I called Devilish and met KIM. She was really amazing. Sweet, gentle, nice respectfull. I consider that I lost my virginity with her because she was the first gril that I did daty with. We did multiple position and after the date I told her it was kinda my first time... She said dont be ashamed, "I'd rather be with a guy that is new to this that a guy that has fucked tho whole MERB multiple times..."

    Anyway, if its with the right girl, I would suggest to go for it. It just depends how well can you deal with your virginity... I could not take it anymore. KIM would be great for that. Maybe the first time, dont take a sex bomb like Trixxie or Lilly Lombard or Tamara... might just be a little too much to handle...

    Take care.

  3. #3

    Hey

    My first was with an SP, I felt shame, guilt, and pure giddy joy.

    It was not a great time for me as I had not discovered boards like this at the time.

    If your getting down the road into your 20's and you don't have other options coming your way then give an SP a try. Look for a professional that will take care of you. Tell her your new, I believe you would have a better time. I would recommend Lisa SexxxyMontreal, something like that.

    Be warned, eventually shame and guilt will leave you, and you'll be left to ponder is this what you really wanted.

    My best to you.

  4. #4
    Quote Originally Posted by Frank29 View Post
    She said dont be ashamed, "I'd rather be with a guy that is new to this that a guy that has fucked tho whole MERB multiple times..."
    LOLLL so funny!!! I didnt know that she was stupid like this.....I mean, she told you that she prefer to fuck with a noob than with someone who fucked the whole MERB. Well, what about what you could have been thought : "I prefer to fuck a fresh new girl than a girl that got fucked by the whole MERB" ?

  5. #5
    Working rage-aholic
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Location
    a rocky planet with one moon
    Posts
    863
    Quote Originally Posted by Dragonatic View Post
    LOLLL so funny!!! I didnt know that she was stupid like this.....I mean, she told you that she prefer to fuck with a noob than with someone who fucked the whole MERB. Well, what about what you could have been thought : "I prefer to fuck a fresh new girl than a girl that got fucked by the whole MERB" ?
    Great attitude. Call her stupid and bemoan her long list of partners. She likely was trying to assauge him and/or meant that she preferred a shy, gentle hobbyist to a rough, crude boor
    Why are homely people discriminated against...we're the majority

  6. #6
    Banned
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Location
    Visiting Planet Earth
    Posts
    4,160
    Quote Originally Posted by Dragonatic View Post
    LOLLL so funny!!! I didnt know that she was stupid like this.....I mean, she told you that she prefer to fuck with a noob than with someone who fucked the whole MERB. Well, what about what you could have been thought : "I prefer to fuck a fresh new girl than a girl that got fucked by the whole MERB" ?
    Well Dragonatic,

    Explain why she is "stupid" from her viewpoint????? You mean to say that preferring to have sex with someone who has not had sex with hundreds of escorts with all the risks involved is "stupid"?????



    Merlot
    Last edited by Merlot; 11-21-2009 at 08:24 PM.

  7. #7
    ‹^› ‹(•¿•)› ‹^› Special K's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2003
    Location
    Red Sox Nation
    Posts
    5,108
    Quote Originally Posted by Dragonatic View Post
    LOLLL so funny!!! I didnt know that she was stupid like this.....I mean, she told you that she prefer to fuck with a noob than with someone who fucked the whole MERB. Well, what about what you could have been thought : "I prefer to fuck a fresh new girl than a girl that got fucked by the whole MERB" ?
    That's the class of some Merbites for ya.
    Jules Winnfield (Samuel L. Jackson in Pulp Fiction) English, motherfu*ker, do you speak it?

    Typical Yankee fan in the Merb Sports Section!! Bwwaahh.

  8. #8
    Registered User
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Location
    Whoville
    Posts
    291
    Quote Originally Posted by K.I.M View Post
    J'adore la manière dont un gars agit lorsqu'il est tout nouveau dans le business. Gentil, attentionné , a peur de faire quelque chose de travers. Il se montre respectueux.
    First off, a girl who said something like that, even if it wasn't true, would be making the guy feel better; so she's totally not stupid, she's just being attentive to the guys insecurities. Same as when she tells an old guy she likes old guys better because they are more interesting to talk to or better in bed or whatever. Fact is each guy is his own self and it's probably hard to generalize.

    Second, sad to say though KIM is surely right. Girls still appreciate seeing me in general but I gotta say that my first few times I felt like the luckiest guy in the world and acted accordingly, like I was on a date with a girl I had been dreaming about forever. I still do my best to make sure the girl has a good time but I have definitely gotten a little more selfish over time.
    --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Also : I don't think you should have your first experience with an SP unless you are, say, over 25 maybe. It's better to have your first experience as part of a loving long-term relationship. My first girlfriends weren't perhaps all the best looking women in the world but I had wonderful relationships with them and I wouldn't trade those relationships for a short session with the hottest SP in the world. I know guys who lost their virginity to some hot girl with whom no relationship was possible or who treated them like shit. I have no doubt I had a better experience by far.

    Moreover, SPs are expensive (sorry girls!) and addictive. Best to wait until you have more life experience under your belt and money in your wallet.
    If you are in your late 20s or older and are still a virgin and have a steady job then maybe this could be a confidence-boosting experience for you.

    My two cents.
    Last edited by Dr Edgar Who; 11-21-2009 at 05:57 PM.
    J Edgar Whoever

  9. #9
    Quote Originally Posted by Frank29 View Post
    I never told the sp I was a virgin....

    Take care.
    Frank29,
    That's interesting (not telling the sp about it).
    My closest buddy lost his virginity to ex XXXtase's Vicky a while back.
    Neither him nor I did reveal that to Vicky since there was no need to.
    But I am sure that not telling it to Vicky ensured a pleasurable session without intrigue.
    Turned out to be a great move for him. It all started strangely: at that time, Vicky had just started (at Candy delights if I recall properly) and I had just met Vicky for the 1st time. It was the ultimate blast for me. At that time, that best buddy wanted to kick off his sexuality but with a gal he would not me emotionally attached to. I recommended Vicky to him and yrs later he keeps reminding me how Vicky was stellar in making him the sexually happy man that he became.
    DENISE MILANI REDEFINES HOTNESS! !!

  10. #10
    well sorry but the way it was said it looked like KIM prefered to have sex with a man that did not fuck many SP. But if you think it in the other way, when a man call for an SP he have to deal with the fact that she fucked many other johns before him....

    Well, sorry for my missunderstanding but I wanted to say that her citation was stupid, not "KIM" the person.

  11. #11
    Banned
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Location
    Visiting Planet Earth
    Posts
    4,160
    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Edgar Who View Post
    First off, a girl who said something like that, even if it wasn't true, would be making the guy feel better; so she's totally not stupid, she's just being attentive to the guys insecurities. Same as when she tells an old guy she likes old guys better because they are more interesting to talk to or better in bed or whatever. Fact is each guy is his own self and it's probably hard to generalize.

    Second, sad to say though KIM is surely right. Girls still appreciate seeing me in general but I gotta say that my first few times I felt like the luckiest guy in the world and acted accordingly, like I was on a date with a girl I had been dreaming about forever. I still do my best to make sure the girl has a good time but I have definitely gotten a little more selfish over time.
    --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Also : I don't think you should have your first experience with an SP unless you are, say, over 25 maybe. It's better to have your first experience as part of a loving long-term relationship. My first girlfriends weren't perhaps all the best looking women in the world but I had wonderful relationships with them and I wouldn't trade those relationships for a short session with the hottest SP in the world. I know guys who lost their virginity to some hot girl with whom no relationship was possible or who treated them like shit. I have no doubt I had a better experience by far.

    Moreover, SPs are expensive (sorry girls!) and addictive. Best to wait until you have more life experience under your belt and money in your wallet.
    If you are in your late 20s or older and are still a virgin and have a steady job then maybe this could be a confidence-boosting experience for you.

    My two cents.
    Hello Dr. E W,

    Yes, it's the best thing in the world to do it first with a real girlfriend. Otherwise you have explained the situation very well.

    Quote Originally Posted by K.I.M View Post
    L'attitude de certains gars me dégoutent sur ce board... toujours prêt à ramasser une fille à la moindre occasion. Aucun respect. Nous nous devons nous montrer impeccable. Aucun signe de faiblesse , toujours le meilleur service au monde, grand sourire , rester en shape, beau maquillage, bref vous comprenez le principe.
    Kim
    TRANSLATOR: The attitude of certain guys me dégoutent on this board... always ready to collect a girl to the least occasion. No respect. We ourselves must show ourselves impeccable. No weakness sign, always the better service to the world, big to smile, remain in shape, beautiful make-up, brief you understand the principle.

    Quite an excellent point. The ladies have to be perfect, while too many members are disrespectful and/or insulting to them. And when some ladies challenge this one-way world some tell them they have no right. Maybe the reason some ended up hobbying is just too obvious. They can't handle women on equal terms.

    Cheers,

    Merlot
    Last edited by Merlot; 11-21-2009 at 08:52 PM.

  12. #12
    *************editted***********
    Last edited by CS Martin; 12-25-2009 at 04:29 AM.

  13. #13
    Quote Originally Posted by Dragonatic View Post
    LOLLL so funny!!! I didnt know that she was stupid like this.....I mean, she told you that she prefer to fuck with a noob than with someone who fucked the whole MERB. Well, what about what you could have been thought : "I prefer to fuck a fresh new girl than a girl that got fucked by the whole MERB" ?
    What do you mean? She is not stupid, i can totally see what she meant! Have you ever met her, she is by far one on the most intelligent girl i know, a real business woman and to call her stupid would just be foolish....

    For me, I did not care how many she saw before, all i cared about was that she was very gentle, soft, true GFE, client oriented and made me feel great... That is why I booked her exclusiovely for almost 3 years after that....

    maybe I did not transalte it well because english is not my mother tongue.

    Anyway, on my first incall, it happens so fast, I remember the sp was sucking me and I almost came so fast it was a cbj so she said: "do you want to hop on me"? I said yes!!!! and about 3 to 5 minutes later, I was not a virgin anymore..... With Kim it was for 2 hours so we took hour time....

    Hope it answer the first question...
    Last edited by Frank29; 11-21-2009 at 11:31 PM.

  14. #14
    Thanks to all who took the time to reply and offer advice & relate their experiences.


    Quote Originally Posted by CocaCola View Post
    If your getting down the road into your 20's and you don't have other options coming your way then give an SP a try.
    Late 30's actually.

  15. #15
    Banned
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Location
    Visiting Planet Earth
    Posts
    4,160
    Quote Originally Posted by CS Martin View Post
    Shouldn't respect be a two-way street? Some SPs, Agency Owners, etc.. have exhibited what can ony be described as blatent disrespect for the time, intelligence, privacy, courtesy and caring of the clients. Some of the weak willed attitudes of MERBites are quite surprising given the income necessary to participate in this activity.

    In stark contrast was Chris's attitude & HONESTY (how "refreshing") today. It was nothing short of outstanding. My compliments to him. (Note to Mods: Saw Mod 8's comment in the other thread, but this comment is not about the "instance" or "issue", but rather the attitude)
    Yes,

    Of course CS, but not every post has to cover every angle to satisfy everyone all of the time. Besides, we members have a habit of getting our angle covered. Just maybe we can take the time to look at that of others...just once without infinitely covering our own ...AGAIN. ..as in nearly every post on this board.

    Cheers,

    Merlot.

Page 1 of 4 123 ... LastLast

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •