The right way to lick a pussy is the way your partner likes it. For that I simply ask them. And everybody are happy.
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or the way she pretends to like it Which is pretty much every single technique
I always try to give constructive feedback as I do want to enjoy myself. However half the time the guy takes it personally and just stops.
Thanks for chiming in Rose and kind of endorsing it , myself I always believed in this thread haha
You speak from experience and god knows many of us can use some guidance/feedback , but the male ego can be a fragile thing
You speak from experience and god knows many of us can use some guidance/feedback , but the male ego can be a fragile thing
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No reason to take it personal. I love doing it so I might as well do it properly than blindly. Another way to see it, if you are going to put in the effort, at least do it in a way she enjoys it. Otherwise, why bother if you are going to do it just to say you did it without taking her into consideration.
Has anyone ever watched those YouTube videos on how to eat a girl out and wrote notes on your hand and used them while actually doin it?
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Yes but the sweat erased whether I should finish with the counterclockwise swirl or the pinch. I stopped to try and read the notes and she kicked me out. Credit to Seinfeld.
Good idea. Often, though, they can't explain to me what to do. (Some can explain. A fair amount.) Then, when I do some things (if I am lucky) she says "wow, where'd you learn that?".... ans: practice and listening (ex: holding her hand, and feeling how her hand moves when I do things).
But I still get stumped by some women. Everyone can be different. But fun to learn!! Women are great!
Yes, I watched some videos. Somewhat helpful.
One was ... Nina Hartley??... and some younger porn star. Some good ideas.
Writing on my hand? No. Although if you did and said it with a sense of humor, she might enjoy it.
OK. One scenario recurs to me.
1. Remember you are licking her mind as much as anything else.
2. Build up slowly. Tell her to do something, give up a bit of control. (eg, close her eyes, she must for you)
3. Touch her body, slowly building toward going south.
4. Lick very gently at first. All around there. Like she is your last meal. And you want to savor every taste.
5. Tell her she tastes great. (It needs to be true you feel that way. Don't ever lie.)
6. Get closer to the button. Now, you are trying to decide how much....friction...she likes. Usually less. Keep it VERY wet at first.
7. Roll near the button, the clit, but don't touch it.
8. At a good point (she has become aroused)...put the clit and the area around it in your mouth. Suck it in gently. And do a gentle little sucking thing on it. Gentle. You are NOT trying to suck it off. This is NOT how you want your dick sucked. This is more how women often gently lick and suck a cock....
Note: Sucking is a fine art. Depends partly on the anatomy of each woman. And putting just the right of suction to pull the blood there. Not friction, more suction. And very gently, for probably most women. Not sure every woman will like this, even if very gentle.
8b. Make her move her pussy against your tongue. You learn a lot that way.
9. Lick up through her slit and up and under and over the clit. Very wet. And then back down on the top of the clit with the bottom of your tongue.
10. By now, you have done many things. Pick one that she seems to like a lot, and stay with that in a rhythmic way. Maybe a long second (of time) of rhythm. Back and forth or up and down, or side to side. Or suck-suck-suck-suucckkkkk. Find the rhythm that takes her to the top.
10b. Tell her with your tongue how much you love doing this to her. And that you want to stay there as long as it takes. You love it! (Needs to be true.) (If you need to move to be comfortable, do it. Get in a position where you are relaxed enough.)
11. Make her work with you gently and slowly over the top.
Hope those ideas helped. Brings back to me some wonderful memories. Have to get back to the laboratory and test some more techniques for fun.
Oh. When done, tell her thank you. She'll want to thank you, but you thank her. It should be the truth.
Keep it positive, and always say only the truth. (If there were some negative aspects, don't talk about that, but figure out how to avoid the negative next time.)
It's still relatively rare. It is still one of the safer activities. Obviously, this is relative to other unprotected sexual activities. Other than kissing and touching, can you name anything safer?
And yet it is still safer than bbbj for that same thing... this is on the surface, you reach out for it even... yet providers are almost pressured into giving bbbj, when this same risk is still higher on her own throat having the man's member rammed down it with no protection, meaning if there is any irritation to any possible infection, (oh I have ALWAYS had these bumps/irregularities, it isn't anything, I want you to suck it without a condom.) The provider is just as at risk if not more. Even when they say they aren't into DT, it doesn't stop a client from trying to push their desire over the providers allowed oral limit.
And daty isn't as complex as men seem to think it is... picture your penis head in a micro form, pull the skin of the hood back, like you would foreskin, and thats even what it looks like... hell it even gets hard when your doing it right... I treat a woman's clit, the same way I treat a man's head. Tease it, lick it, suck it, don't only pull 1 move, and your bound to find the sweet spot and get her going. You'll know if your doing it right, or not, because of how she moves, or not. The body says what words often don't. And when in doubt, just ask what could be done to make it feel even better. For some the whole vulva can get a reaction, for some it takes more precision, clit targeted.
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That video from Nina Hartley is how I learned. Afterwards is simply listening to cues and what she likes as not everyone is the same
I learned how to eat pussy from watching "American pie", where Kevin was told by his brother to look in the library for the "Book of love". So yes the tornado twist does work !
