And yet it is still safer than bbbj for that same thing... this is on the surface, you reach out for it even... yet providers are almost pressured into giving bbbj, when this same risk is still higher on her own throat having the man's member rammed down it with no protection, meaning if there is any irritation to any possible infection, (oh I have ALWAYS had these bumps/irregularities, it isn't anything, I want you to suck it without a condom.) The provider is just as at risk if not more. Even when they say they aren't into DT, it doesn't stop a client from trying to push their desire over the providers allowed oral limit.
And daty isn't as complex as men seem to think it is... picture your penis head in a micro form, pull the skin of the hood back, like you would foreskin, and thats even what it looks like... hell it even gets hard when your doing it right... I treat a woman's clit, the same way I treat a man's head. Tease it, lick it, suck it, don't only pull 1 move, and your bound to find the sweet spot and get her going. You'll know if your doing it right, or not, because of how she moves, or not. The body says what words often don't. And when in doubt, just ask what could be done to make it feel even better. For some the whole vulva can get a reaction, for some it takes more precision, clit targeted.