Ask us anything part 3

[Great]

Penis size!


Do you think there's any truth to ethnic stereotypes & penis size? Like, East Asians have small dicks, black people have bigger dicks, etc?
If there is truth to the stereotype, what ethnicity generally is the biggest? The smallest?

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Does a big flaccid penis necessarily equate to a big erect penis?
Do you think guys with a bigger penis generally feel more pleasure during sex?

Would you say it's true the unless you're one extreme or the other in terms of penis size, it's not a big deal in terms of giving the women pleasure?

TYIA

 

[Sylar]

I'd love to have an arrangement with a client but he would have to prove himself first. One old trick that manipulators in this industry seem to use is telling you they will be a regular client... it's never true. If someone wants to be your regular, he just will come back. I've had many clients come back 3-5-6-7-10 times even more and they never promised anything. They just booked again.

I have only recently became a regular for the first time in this hobby. I’ve never had repeats before. I agree with Luna, no promises were ever made but eventually a mutual understanding developed over time.

This goes as far as me sometimes paying much less that the usual rate but then much more the next session. I always make sure it evens out at the very least. Again, no promises are made, we simply trust each other enough at this point to share very intimate and private information but also try new things between the sheets.

We’ve never been on a social date or went out. Honestly, I am 99% sure she would agree and not charge me if I asked her.

 

[Fradi]

. If someone wants to be your regular, he just will come back. I've had many clients come back 3-5-6-7-10 times even more and they never promised anything. They just booked again.

If someone offered an arrangement that was worth it for me, I'd accept it probably, but I wouldn't give up escorting entirely... I'd probably just see less clients.. but I'd probably be trying to invest in other things eventually if I saw the gentleman was faithful to his promise

This is true. I have been seeing the same 2 ladies for over 7 years and I have never said I would be a regular. We are however friends and they know I will be seeing them there is no need to even bring this up. I am very lucky to have both these gorgeous young ladies in my life they are both amazing women.

As far as SB arrangement. The whole point of seeing an SP is not to have commitments or things that you have to abide by on a weekly or monthly basis or whatever. For me SB arrangements are ridiculous, just a way for both to make believe that one is not a prostitute and the other is not a client and for both to somehow feel better and superior to other SW and clients.
It is enough to be able to enjoy each others company and to know that you will be treated with kindness and respect on both sides.

 

[Smokemeal2]

The problem is commitment not a lot of men are committed to those relationships. Promises often turn out to be just words.

It works both ways. I once had a girl with whom I made an 'arrangement'. She was happy that she would focus on her school, and only on me. First 2 meetings she cancelled... Fuck it I tought too much time wasted.

 

[MCTJ]

For me SB arrangements are ridiculous, just a way for both to make believe that one is not a prostitute and the other is not a client and for both to somehow feel better and superior to other SW and clients.

Truth bomb. Not to mention that boundaries are even harder to define than in a client/escort relationship. I would also assume than the risk of emotional entanglement is higher.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It works both ways. I once had a girl with whom I made an 'arrangement'. She was happy that she would focus on her school, and only on me. First 2 meetings she cancelled... Fuck it I tought too much time wasted.

Maybe she decided you weren't a good match, or the arrangement wasn't convenient for her anymore. You also can't plan an arrangement before meeting the person and spending a lot of time with them, in my opinion.. That's why SD sites are flawed. You don't even know if you'll have chemistry or anything in common before meeting. As I said before, if a client I've never met texts me or emails me and says he wants to ''see someone regularly'', I don't trust him.

 

[Julia Sky]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

I hope no one answers that they are cancelling because of rain lol if we told a client we cancelled our booking because it's raining he'd insult us, make a whole vague post about us here baiting people to DM him to ask who he's complaining about and try to ruin our reputation.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

Don't tell me it happened to you :'(

 

[LC18]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

What? Is the client afraid to mess up his perm hair?

 

[themonk83]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

If we're inside, a little bit of rain doesn't matter, I'll be there. Even outside, an umbrella solves the problem. The only time I'll be looking at cancelling or rescheduling is if we're under a major snowstorm or a thunderstorm that leads to flooding.

Last summer, I was looking forward to a picnic, it end up raining, end up doing it indoor.

Feels like it was an excuse of said person wanting to cancel

 

[chrono187]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

My last 3 bookings were on rainy days and I still went to them. Rain jackets and umbrellas exist for a reason hehe

 

[MasterPat]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

As the motto of the us postal service says:

Neither rain nor snow shall prevent me from making it to my booty call!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

My last 3 bookings were on rainy days and I still went to them. Rain jackets and umbrellas exist for a reason hehe

You also reached my incall spaces by metro, and walked in the rain to see me. I'm really grateful

 

[LookAlike]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

A rainy day has nothing to do with the commitment for an appointements. I will drive to respect the meeting as per agreed.

 

[kstanb]

Clients : what do you do if you booked an appointment days in advance but learn that there will be a little bit of rain on the day of the appointment? Do you cancel or still keep the appointment? Do you still drive or use Uber/metro? I'm curious.

rainy days are perfect days for getting wet!
not a valid cancellation reason

and I personally avoid driving in MTL downtown (where 90% of incalls are), so no big deal to use the metro or uber

 

[chrono187]

You also reached my incall spaces by metro, and walked in the rain to see me. I'm really grateful

It helps that your incall spaces are all easily accessible by public transit and by foot, plus I enjoy walking and who wouldn't want to escape the rain to see a lovely fae

 

[kstanb]

Penis size!


Do you think there's any truth to ethnic stereotypes & penis size? Like, East Asians have small dicks, black people have bigger dicks, etc?
If there is truth to the stereotype, what ethnicity generally is the biggest? The smallest?

——

Does a big flaccid penis necessarily equate to a big erect penis?
Do you think guys with a bigger penis generally feel more pleasure during sex?

Would you say it's true the unless you're one extreme or the other in terms of penis size, it's not a big deal in terms of giving the women pleasure?

TYIA

pennis size is probably at the bottom of a sex worker's list of priorities; if you are clean and respectful they will make sure you have a good time

they will also avoid topic discussions that could offend "small" clients

EDIT: if you want SPH (small pennis humiliation), then you need to look for a dominatrix, not an escort

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I can't find the original question.. I'm not a scientist but I have not noticed a correlation between ethnicity/race and penis size at all. This is a subject that annoys me so much personally lol

 

[Alicemay]

Yes it is annoying