Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

How do you get your condoms?
Purchase in bulk?
Are they available free from health clinics?

Personally I am choosy about my condoms, so I buy the biggest boxs in varied sizes in the brand I like, and keep myself well stocked. I have a backup brand also, and when I realize I am out of my first choice, I have my backup for that visit, and restock at my next available moment. I often will have a backup box at home ready to empty out into my bag when it is time to restock my bag. I do the same with my choice of lube. Running out is not an option, as it is a necessity for this.
I believe there are places that condoms can be had for free. I remember 20 years ago when I worked threw an agency, the driver would stop somewhere for us to all reload from a clinic that offered them for free. I know I could go, but am too shy to, and like I said am picky about what I use these days. They had 1 time use, sample size, lube packs as well.

 

[john11296]

Why do so many SP's accept DATY but refuse fingering ? Is there something I'm missing ?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Why do so many SP's accept DATY but refuse fingering ? Is there something I'm missing ?

They are really different, they can't be compared. A tongue is not as sharp as a knife but nails often are.

 

[Nachoy]

Why do so many SP's accept DATY but refuse fingering ? Is there something I'm missing ?

I think SPs worry about dirty fingers .
Think about all the things your hand touches
Is there any dirt under your nails?

 

[john11296]

They are really different, they can't be compared. A tongue is not as sharp as a knife but nails often are.

Is that the reason ? I always thought it was because SP's are scared to catch some kind of disease from fingering

 

[john11296]

I think SPs worry about dirty fingers .
Think about all the things your hand touches
Is there any dirt under your nails?

I'm freshly showered and nails nicely trimmed, no dirt. I don't think that's the reason

 

[DouMan]

Is that the reason ? I always thought it was because SP's are scared to catch some kind of disease from fingering

I'm freshly showered and nails nicely trimmed, no dirt. I don't think that's the reason

There is another reason that is more delicate to mention for SPs which is technique.

Let's not kid ourselves but we are not all gods gift to women when it comes to sexual pleasure. Some are complete morons when blood flow goes to their dicks, "dahh pushhy pushhy, me gonna prime yah". They never take into consideration if the lady is lubricated or not and shove their bit fat DRY fingers up her pussy as if there was no end, then go into a pumping rage that would put the Eveready Easter Bunny to shame to "make her cum".

Of course some will say all she has to do is tell me to slow down but unfortunately when they have to warn us it may already be too late. Women's genital area, like ours, are very sensitive. We can just think how we feel having our glans rubbed by a dry palm non stop or even worse our frenulum as if it were a guitar string. It's the same for women's anatomy.

Add to this that their body is their "work tool", if I may say, that can be hurt from just a few seconds of awkwardness which may even require a few days off in order to heal. For many this is their livelihood, their bread + butter, days off = no income.