Ask us anything part 3

[Julia Sky]

There is another reason that is more delicate to mention for SPs which is technique.

Let's not kid ourselves but we are not all gods gift to women when it comes to sexual pleasure. Some are complete morons when blood flow goes to their dicks, "dahh pushhy pushhy, me gonna prime yah". They never take into consideration if the lady is lubricated or not and shove their bit fat DRY fingers up her pussy as if there was no end, then go into a pumping rage that would put the Eveready Easter Bunny to shame to "make her cum".

Of course some will say all she has to do is tell me to slow down but unfortunately when they have to warn us it may already be too late. Women's genital area, like ours, are very sensitive. We can just think how we feel having our glans rubbed by a dry palm non stop or even worse our frenulum as if it were a guitar string. It's the same for women's anatomy.

Add to this that their body is their "work tool", if I may say, that can be hurt from just a few seconds of awkwardness which may even require a few days off in order to heal. For many this is their livelihood, their bread + butter, days off = no income.

Nailed it (pun intended lol). Technique is the biggest factor for me. I enjoy fingers when done the way I like it, but I'm very sensitive down there and going too rough with fingers simply hurts. I've been injured and had to take time off work a few times. Recently told someone to take it slow as I like the feeling of being filled up more than the movement of fingers, and he acknowledged what I said yet 5mins later I could've sworn he was trying to tear a 2nd pussy in my pussy lol. Some people simply seem to lose their ability to think when they're horny.

Telling someone to slow down is obviously an option, but it's surprising the amount of people who can't follow instructions or go right back to the thing you dislike after a minute.

 

[T'storm]

Why do so many SP's accept DATY but refuse fingering ? Is there something I'm missing ?

When I see my ATF we have a deal. As soon as I show up at her place(even before Covid) I wash my hands really well and then I can proceed. The way I do it is rub my hand over her panties(when she wears them.lol) and have got a technique that makes her wet. After I can go downtown with my mouth or a(1) finger to find her G spot and this will often make her squirt. She mentioned to me a long time ago that many are too rough as mentioned by you ladies on here but I have the right way to make her cum.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Is that the reason ? I always thought it was because SP's are scared to catch some kind of disease from fingering

Yes, also. But indeed, some nails even trimmed can scratch, or the way you use your finger, can hurt physically. And as Luna says, the client's incapacity to follow instructions is a deterrent; going fast never, never made me wet, only hurt me.

Of course some will say all she has to do is tell me to slow down but unfortunately when they have to warn us it may already be too late.

Exactly. I am open to the activity but the second I realize a client can't be careful enough, I will not allow it. Some also try to insert their finger first thing, no lube, no vaginal lubrication. I always say "Not now, I'll tell you when", then they proceed to DATY for 8 seconds and try again with their finger. I won't allow a third try.

 

[LC18]

Some men shove their fingers in you without any warning, permission or lubrification…

If done correctly and with permission, I’m all for it.

 

[john11296]

Yes, also. But indeed, some nails even trimmed can scratch, or the way you use your finger, can hurt physically. And as Luna says, the client's incapacity to follow instructions is a deterrent; going fast never, never made me wet, only hurt me.


Exactly. I am open to the activity but the second I realize a client can't be careful enough, I will not allow it. Some also try to insert their finger first thing, no lube, no vaginal lubrication. I always say "Not now, I'll tell you when", then they proceed to DATY for 8 seconds and try again with their finger. I won't allow a third try.

From my personal experiences, most SP's I've encountered simply refuse it from the get go. I'll start playing with the clit and they'll throw in something like ''just don't insert your fingers'' (without giving me a chance). I will assume it's from their bad previous experiences.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

simply refuse it from the get go. I'll start playing with the clit and they'll throw in something like ''just don't insert your fingers'' (without giving me a chance). I will assume it's from their bad previous experiences.

Indeed, I do that as well if I feel the need to.

 

[CantSeeMrHappy]

I saw nothing on BFE - so let's try this question - role reversal, me giving the boyfriend experience. How often do you do / receive? Those receiving, how much do you appreciate?

This really gets me fired up, taking charge and pampering the woman while I give her (my interpretation) of a BFE. Massage of course, getting rid of any knots in the back, neck, upper neck, legs, especially feet, ankles, lower leg, upper leg. Some very smooth and light teasing with the buttocks going from the back to the legs, then the flip and the fun starts for both.

IOW, no rush to get started in intercourse. Why I like taking at least 1hr sessions, and dedicate half that time to making the woman feel great, while giving positive comments on what I find very attractive on her body.

 

[SpencerSpender49]

Fingering can also fuck up vaginal pH balance. That means increased risks of UTis, BV and yeast infection. Which will results in sp taking a week off from work to take antibiotics.

 

[CantSeeMrHappy]

From my personal experiences, most SP's I've encountered simply refuse it from the get go. I'll start playing with the clit and they'll throw in something like ''just don't insert your fingers'' (without giving me a chance). I will assume it's from their bad previous experiences.

Same, but maybe 2 out of 10, after giving them my CSMH BFE experience, open up a bit, as I do the back rubs and soft nail scratching on their backs. Showing them I am clean also. I work in IT so don't have calluses, soft hands. One SP really liked it and said yes at the flip when I asked. Let's just say I was a dripping faucet during that time. Also why MSOG is important, to not break the mood if I shoot early but want to keep going.

I don't understand the Koala guys, that eat, shoots and leaves.

 

[CantSeeMrHappy]

Some men shove their fingers in you without any warning, permission or lubrification…

If done correctly and with permission, I’m all for it.

FWIW, you are on my bucket list for a full BFE session, I just have to get a bank loan (kidding of course) to finance a 2hr or more session, as I feel anything under 2 hours a disservice.

You'd be my #1 choice for receiving tantric from me. For me, a tiny brown girl (non-white) is extra sexy for some reason, no disrespect to the other girls that have posted to this thread, you'd all be very close 2nds and I'd have a very difficult time choosing.

I remember from years ago, where SPs did a Johnny Review (with consent), it was a lot of fun to read. The girls get reviewed, why not the guys?

 

[Nachoy]

BFE. That’s hilarious
SP how do you serve the GFE ( grandfather experience)?
It’s the much older gents that cannot get
hard enough to penetrate
How do you pleasure them?

 

[CantSeeMrHappy]

BFE. That’s hilarious
SP how do you serve the GFE ( grandfather experience)?
It’s the much older gents that cannot get
hard enough to penetrate
How do you pleasure them?

Ever since I've gone Ketovore, shed excess weight, go to the gym bi-weekly, I have no more libido problems. Though I am most definitely a "Papi". No blue pill required. At 54 I'm still relatively young, no?

LC18 you are such a tease doing a Wow on my post! Continue being the wonderful you that you are.

I doubt that a man that cannot get hard due to old age / health reasons would even sollicit a SP, other than to be able to sit upright and tell reminiscence about old times for an hour, and she pretending to be interested.

I'm going to be a problem in the old age home in 20+ years, I know it. I just hope there will be some willing grannies there too, though the odds will be stacked against me.

 

[Julia Sky]

I doubt that a man that cannot get hard due to old age / health reasons would even sollicit a SP

Oh, it happens. Intimacy is very nuanced

 

[DouMan]

I doubt that a man that cannot get hard due to old age / health reasons would even sollicit a SP, other than to be able to sit upright and tell reminiscence about old times for an hour, and she pretending to be interested.

You my friend, and especially your partner, is missing out on a lot sexually if you think it is only about "fucking her brains out"

 

[Fradi]

I'm going to be a problem in the old age home in 20+ years, I know it. I just hope there will be some willing grannies there too, though the odds will be stacked against me.

They say toothless BJ are phenomenal.

 

[LC18]

It’s the much older gents that cannot get
hard enough to penetrate

That’s the issue. Not everything revolves around that, if you only focus on that you might prevent yourself from having amazing experiences…

 

[EyesUp]

Hello!

Quick question, since chat apps are usually not allowed by agencies do they mind if they are contacted by an international number ?

 

[Nachoy]

Have you had period sex?
How was the experience?

 

[Rebaynia]

Have you had period sex?
How was the experience?

I have in my relationship life in the past.
I don't for work. I treat that time as though it is my weekend vacation from being available for this line of work, otherwise it is a 365 day/year job, no weekends or time off. So I treat my womanly time of month as my weekend... normal jobs get 8 days off every 28 days, so I get 7 days off every 28 days. But have a regular job as well so that became a 4 day vaccation every 28 days.
Depends on the person, as we are all different. But I found the hormones that time of month I was hornier than other times, so relationships I was the more dominant in, I demanded sex anyways, either in the shower, or with towels on the bed to protect the bed. The expierience was good as it happened because I wanted it.

 

[MichelleMontreal]

Have you had period sex?
How was the experience?

*coughs*
*attempts a British accent*
It was bloody good