HE vs FS

[massagecentre]

Hello Merbites,

I was wondering do people prefer HE rather than FS because they can’t perform in the bedroom? I mean it is just masterbation by the girl in a parlor. FS is different while allowing our inner animal have a sexual encounter. Would to hear the pros and cons of everyone who has a personal view on this.

 

[massagecentre]

I found FS more fulfilling for sure.
Being given a HJ (HE) , if well performed, it could be a lot of fun too. It is fun to relinquish control. It all depends who we see and where we see them and to respect what is on the table.

The most important is to find variety in our routine.

Depending where we end up (massage parlor, incall sp or outcall sp) , it is fun to explore options as long as the partners involved agree to what they want to do.

Agreed on variety. But don’t you think that manual release would sometimes affect he performance of FS? I am older than 50 and with age, I think too much manual release would lose the sensation of FS. Would you agree?

 

[Johnny test]

I usually meet more SHE than HE but i'm open

 

[Harvey]

I like pizza, sometimes I like spaghetti.

 

[LeafsSuck]

Everything being equal, FS is better than a HJ for me. However, those that are not mechanical in the HJ can give you a better HE than a non responsive FS lady.
This statement reminds me of the post from a million years ago when the client knocks on the door, the SP replies come in, when he opens the door the girl is on all fours and just points at her ass. LMFAO. This is not a good one for me.

 

[Julia Sky]

Everything being equal, FS is better than a HJ for me. However, those that are not mechanical in the HJ can give you a better HE than a non responsive FS lady.
This statement reminds me of the post from a million years ago when the client knocks on the door, the SP replies come in, when he opens the door the girl is on all fours and just points at her ass. LMFAO. This is not a good one for me.

I had a booking like this once

 

[twenty4seven]

I had a booking like this once

*takes notes*

 

[urquell]

I think the obvious point that everyone seems to be leaving out, and working within the hobby and the general context of this forum, is that HE generally comes with a massage and FS generally doesn't (there are exceptions to both of these, natch). To put it simply, it's a different experience. Most of the HE guys are looking find a great relaxing experience, hopefully with a pro level massage, and a languid, relaxing release at the end of the session. It's all about the relaxation and the leaving of oneself into the hands of someone else. With FS it's generally (let's be polite) an exploration of erotic energy, with the man skillfully and adroitly guiding the lady in a frantic, energetic culmination of erotic congress and fulminating stimulation resulting in a convulsive, thundering release of sexual passion, reducing the lady in question to a whimpering, quivering mass of satiated flesh.

I mean, obviously it's a totally different experience. It's not about the act, it's about who's in control. I may have taken a little poetic license on the FS part. Valentino Neanderthals are go! Whoot! Whoot!

 

[twenty4seven]

Hello Merbites,

I was wondering do people prefer HE rather than FS because they can’t perform in the bedroom? I mean it is just masterbation by the girl in a parlor. FS is different while allowing our inner animal have a sexual encounter. Would to hear the pros and cons of everyone who has a personal view on this.

But seriously, I've had FS and then transitioned to HJs or mutual masterbation, both of which make me blast.

 

[massagecentre]

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But seriously, I've had FS and then transitioned to HJs or mutual masterbation, both of which make me blast.

But transitioning from HJs back to FS is difficult because of excess mutual satisfaction gives different sensation, thus harder to achieve. If you understand my problem

 

[twenty4seven]

But transitioning from HJs back to FS is difficult because of excess mutual satisfaction gives different sensation, thus harder to achieve. If you understand my problem

Everyone has their thing but I've definitely gone back to FS from an HJ but only bc I asked her to edge me, so I didn't cum and was ready to get back to fucking pretty quickly.