There are a few things to consider:
1) Most clients probably do not care where the SP’s background comes from, and that’s sad. When I read people visiting SP’s that do not speak French or English, or say: She’s visibly on drugs and unclean and is having a poor time, or I heard a guy in the next room but for the price, etc, you are directly contributing to the issues, and are a cause for hobbying having a bad rep. And no, the ladies are not the cause, they are providing a service that you want.
2) Even when you want to believe that you are dealing with a reputable person/agency, mostly, you probably aren’t. Bobcake, a well known orgy provider, was caught with underage soliciting. XO , well, we all know, a few gangbangs organisers were caught doing horrible things to providers, etc, etc. Most of us deep down inside know this and refuse to acknowledge it.
3) Like any commodity (and yes sex is a commodity here), you pay for what you get. Truly independent indies that are able to get the value of their service and have control over their bodies and choices, and are unexploited, deserve their rates. If you think it’s too expensive move on, use your screen, your hand and a tissue.
4) When a provider on this site tells you how it really is behind closed doors, seriously, who are we, as men that have no clue, to even start to disagree ?
I am not making a moral claim. I do believe that SP and hobbying should be legalized, but none of the people tring to justify what happened at XO or elsewhere are helping.