Ask us anything part 3

[musiqslut]

It doesn't need to be down to the skin to be more comfortable. Just trimming it so it is short enough not to become dental floss while I'm there is something appreciated. At least for me.

A haircut instead of shave is enough to show there was care put in. Though it isn't really something I focus on beyond noticing the effort, then on to reward their efforts. Same thing without needing to stop, to pick loose hairs out of my mouth.

Yeah, I’ve been trimming recently not shaving and still had the same issue. It’s mostly around my underwear band at the top. I figure it’s because it’s tight fitting around there. I’m also quite activité and routinely work up a sweat playing volleyball. I’m over thinking it all.

Anyway funny story about hair in your mouth. Recently during a spirited session I ended up with a few strands of my partner hair stuck in my teeth. Have no idea how it happened. It was funny at the time.

 

[Enjoying life]

It doesn't need to be down to the skin to be more comfortable. Just trimming it so it is short enough not to become dental floss while I'm there is something appreciated. At least for me.

A haircut instead of shave is enough to show there was care put in. Though it isn't really something I focus on beyond noticing the effort, then on to reward their efforts. Same thing without needing to stop, to pick loose hairs out of my mouth.

Just shaved there recently got an uncomfortable prickly sensation went away though!

 

[Enjoying life]

My partner has been arrested multiple times for DV. Most recently she flew in a rage, stood up and spit food repeatedly on me and the baby that was in my arms at the time. Basically I hate her and stay for the kid. I haven't banged her in almost two years. I don't want to get emotionally involved with a civilian girl/woman, I see that moreso as cheating. The time I spend with an escort I don't really see it as such. My partner recently found out what I've been up to and says as long as I keep making money and keep her happy she doesn't care.

Yes I know it's toxic and untenable but it is what it is for now at least.

Figures! Like a date I once had the woman goes, “Oh the job is the most important thing”! Ya later good luck with that! lol

 

[Alucard87]

Figures! Like a date I once had the woman goes, “Oh the job is the most important thing”! Ya later good luck with that! lol

We have a few signed agreements that should we split neither of us has to pay the other.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

That’s how I work, others may keep 100%
I personally don’t care about hair and will always prefer hair than shaving bumps that will stop me in my tracks so that I can analyze them

I've never thrown anyone out for suspicious skin problems, and having the most sensitive skin myself, I'm pretty comfortable at recognizing benign issues vs something transmissible... but I think I'd go more towards 50% because of the behind the scenes effort that I put in and/or paid for already by the time I get your pants off. Which reminds me:

SPs how much work do you put in both before and after a session that is essentially invisible? Like, hair, nails and makeup but also client/potential client communications and admin and incall tasks, parking/transport etc etc.
Personally, when I start to think about it, and what my hourly rate actually is, it makes me not want to think about it anymore.

 

[Enjoying life]

Just shaved there recently got an uncomfortable prickly sensation went away though!

Love your blue hair Rebaynia!

 

[LC18]

My partner has been arrested multiple times for DV. Most recently she flew in a rage, stood up and spit food repeatedly on me and the baby that was in my arms at the time. Basically I hate her and stay for the kid. I haven't banged her in almost two years. I don't want to get emotionally involved with a civilian girl/woman, I see that moreso as cheating. The time I spend with an escort I don't really see it as such. My partner recently found out what I've been up to and says as long as I keep making money and keep her happy she doesn't care.

Yes I know it's toxic and untenable but it is what it is for now at least.

I think you should leave for the child instead of staying for them. There’s no benefits in being afraid of your partner and being in a toxic environment

I’d be happy to chat some more with you in private on that matter

 

[Enjoying life]

Love your blue hair Rebaynia!

You rock ! Always be unique!

 

[Julia Sky]

I think you should leave for the child instead of staying for them. There’s no benefits in being afraid of your partner and being in a toxic environment

I’d be happy to chat some more with you in private on that matter

I agree with this, ESPECIALLY with a child involved. The fact that she spat on you is gross enough, but doing it while youre holding an infant?! Absolutely inexcusable.

Children are more resilient than we give them credit for and for their well being, it's better to leave an abusive situation than to stay in it and damage their psyche in the process + risk the child eventually getting hurt too. So many people who grew up with parents that "stayed together for the kids" express how miserable their childhood was and how they would've preffered their parents split

 

[Rebaynia]

You rock ! Always be unique!

Thank you. I've been enjoying the look, and each step as it fades.

It was much more accepted in all aspects of my life than I was expecting. Something I may need to keep up on.

It was the civi side that I used to have to keep it natural hair colors for. My boss acted like nothing was different the first day, while everyone reacted positively, before informing me the following week he hardly noticed because of my colorful personality. LoL I informed him how stressed I was he would be critical.

 

[Enjoying life]

Thank you. I've been enjoying the look, and each step as it fades.

It was much more accepted in all aspects of my life than I was expecting. Something I may need to keep up on.

It was the civi side that I used to have to keep it natural hair colors for. My boss acted like nothing was different the first day, while everyone reacted positively, before informing me the following week he hardly noticed because of my colorful personality. LoL I informed him how stressed I was he would be critical.

We are both the same also love fetish play! You are always trying different things pushing boundaries keeping life exciting so be proud ! You get those adrenaline rushes!