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Why does it seem some women become more promiscuous as they grow older?(Single mom's in particular)

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Hey guys,

This is the opposite of my previous thread, since I had time to think and reflect carefully. I noticed that:

There's a group, let's call it Group A: Women who are prudes, get married, and once they become mothers, they no longer want to have sex with their husbands. This is one reason some their husbands see escorts, SB's, and strippers. This was the thread I made before and shared with you guys.

However, I think there's a different group of women, well, call it Group B: Who in their 20s or are prudes as well or selective with whom they date but once they are older in 30s and onwards or those who become single moms in their 20s. They stop caring. If you watch YouTube videos on street interviews, when the interviewer asks women in their 20s about sex, they'll look for approval from their friend group. And are very careful with what they say. Like if they are aware their potential husband is watching.

Meanwhile, when they ask women in their 30s or even older, they give much more direct answers. Like the interviewer will ask, "Would you let your partner lick your asshole, and would you do anal?" and she'll say, "Sure, whatever." or "I've done it before."

I notice that a lot of prudes, pearl clutchers online that I've talked to or debated with are primarily concerned with women in their 20s. Like if one of them gets involved in any kind of SW(modeling, camming...etc) or if they hook up too much/dates around they'll say, "She's a lost soul!" But if she is older in her 30s or if she is already a mother, they stop caring. I'll let you guys theorize as to why this happens.
 
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I think people simply become more comfortable with, and aware of, their sexuality, likes and dislikes, etc as they grow older. We also stop caring what other people think as we grow and become more comfortable with ourselves.

If you think about it, the same is true for men. Younger men often give clueless or self-aggrandizing answers when it comes to questions about sex whereas older men tend to be more realistic, more knowledgeable, and know what they like more than they did 15 years before.

I would disagree that people stop caring about women being sexual when they're older than 30 - women are being slut shamed regardless of their age, and single mothers specifically get so much back lash for simply existing or for having a past, regardless of the past in question.
 

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In long relationships, things can fall into a routine. And some men are very closed minded when it comes to sex.

Certain times a woman’s sex drive can become dormant. I’ve met some women where they can go without sex for 6-8 months and not miss it.

But, once they become single again, a slight little spark, the feeling of being comfortable and safe with a new partner.

Their inner devil is out to play, especially when it’s summer or nice weather.

Men were horny creatures where most of the times we just wanna cum and call it a day.

But the majority of women are more naughty than men and have wild imaginations when it comes to play time.
 
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Those who study sexual behavior have been intrigued by a significant decline in sexual activity across all ages and across genders. The decline is especially apparent among young people (under 25), and includes declines not only in "partnered" sex but in masturbation. In many cases, the rate of "sexlessness" is rising faster in men than in women. More and more people are identifying as "asexual." The reasons for these declines isn't clear but may include reductions in young adult drinking, more time playing video games, anxieties from the pandemic (though the trends predate the pandemic), concerns about "rough sex," more 20-somethings living with their parents, and so on.There are numerous studies that show this, but most are looking at Americans--though the trend is apparently global. (I haven't seen anything about Canada in particular.) Also, contrary to myth, married people have more sex than singles. Granted, MERB members may be statistical outliers in these matters!

Honestly, for someone of my generation, it's hard to fathom. Less masturbation? But ... why??!! Now I'm wondering what I would have done with all that free time...
 

maymay

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Not only single moms the world is weird, I have a 30y old women at work who was giving me a lot of signs even staring at my private parts, after talking to her i found out she was in an open relationship with a guy who had like 8 girls.

It seems today lots of people are in open relationship, or screwed up relationships.
 
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It is part of the mating ritual
She shows you she is a naughty girl
Then when you are hooked. It is back to starfish position
And then they make you feel guilty like you are too sexually demanding.
It is all a ploy!
 

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I think really often women are in relationships in which they don't have good sex, and aren't able to express what they like. Often we are educated to believe that a man's pleasure is more important. This is a generalization, but a lot of men tend to replicate what they see in porn, because that's how they got their ''sexual education'', and they are often more concerned with orgasms and performance. So if a woman gets out of a relationship in which she didn't feel satisfied sexually, and she is finally comfortable enough with herself to explore her sexuality to the fullest. As we get older we start getting over these ''hang ups'' about sex and unlearning all that bad stuff we were told about our bodies. :)
It depends as i say door swings both ways, for me i make sure that the women i been with in the past also have pleasure so to speak, even my regular SP that i pay i made sure she feels good with me, treat her well, and make sure she had her pleasure too, even if i pay her.

I don't know were this is going to go because i am off the market and done with dating, this is my personal experience but the women i met who were in my age range 40-50 have way to much baggage and i am not ready to live with this. I have been single for a while now and enjoy my freedom too much.

I am not into tattoos and piercing, that is me, and a lot of women i spoke to told me that its a deal breaker that fact that i do not have tattoos. Its a good thing to want to stay young its another when it just doesn't fit your looks, 50y old women full of tattoos and piercing with blue hair come on kind of grow up and acts like a teenager. Sorry not for me.
 

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I feel it’s the same thing with men. Well it was for me. The more experienced i got over the years the more confident i grew. And i believe that in order to be good in bed experience & confidence go hand in hand. Then it’s almost normal to become more & more promiscuous since you may want to discover new experiences & keep on pushing the envelope as you become aware that your biological clock may be about to end & your best days as a lover are in the past. In my case i was in great physical & sexual shape & fucking like a bunny rabbit when i was in my 20’s & 30’s however i became a much better lover & more promiscuous person when i hit the mid-40’s. Sexually speaking i checked off many items on my bucket list that i never would have even imagined in my 20’s & 30’s when i was in my sexual prime.

By the way i’ve met many women who were more promiscuous when they were in their teens & 20’s than later in life.
 
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I notice that a lot of prudes, pearl clutchers online that I've talked to or debated with are primarily concerned with women in their 20s. Like if one of them gets involved in any kind of SW(modeling, camming...etc) or if they hook up too much/dates around they'll say, "She's a lost soul!"

She is considered a lost soul because in their conservative minds girls like that aren't mother/relationship/acceptable women, and the goal in their mind is a woman should be looking for the goal of being wifed up, and mothered up, and girls like that aren't acceptable wives and mothers.
yet it is OK, and excused for a young man in his 20's to exactly the same thing.

You are looking at it threw the terms of the conservative perspective. Not everyone sees it this way.

But if she is older in her 30s or if she is already a mother, they stop caring. I'll let you guys theorize as to why this happens.

By 30, they see single motherhood as the result of that kind of lifestyle.
And there are also the ones who were not those things in their youth, but their marriages have failed, and those same conservative ladies have been put in their place a time or 2 by clapback.

As for the rest I couldn't word it better than either @Lunaseraphim and @Julia Sky .
 
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