Why does it seem some women become more promiscuous as they grow older?(Single mom's in particular)

[TheQuestion]

Hey guys,

This is the opposite of my previous thread, since I had time to think and reflect carefully. I noticed that:

There's a group, let's call it Group A: Women who are prudes, get married, and once they become mothers, they no longer want to have sex with their husbands. This is one reason some their husbands see escorts, SB's, and strippers. This was the thread I made before and shared with you guys.

However, I think there's a different group of women, well, call it Group B: Who in their 20s or are prudes as well or selective with whom they date but once they are older in 30s and onwards or those who become single moms in their 20s. They stop caring. If you watch YouTube videos on street interviews, when the interviewer asks women in their 20s about sex, they'll look for approval from their friend group. And are very careful with what they say. Like if they are aware their potential husband is watching.

Meanwhile, when they ask women in their 30s or even older, they give much more direct answers. Like the interviewer will ask, "Would you let your partner lick your asshole, and would you do anal?" and she'll say, "Sure, whatever." or "I've done it before."

I notice that a lot of prudes, pearl clutchers online that I've talked to or debated with are primarily concerned with women in their 20s. Like if one of them gets involved in any kind of SW(modeling, camming...etc) or if they hook up too much/dates around they'll say, "She's a lost soul!" But if she is older in her 30s or if she is already a mother, they stop caring. I'll let you guys theorize as to why this happens.

 

[Julia Sky]

I think people simply become more comfortable with, and aware of, their sexuality, likes and dislikes, etc as they grow older. We also stop caring what other people think as we grow and become more comfortable with ourselves.

If you think about it, the same is true for men. Younger men often give clueless or self-aggrandizing answers when it comes to questions about sex whereas older men tend to be more realistic, more knowledgeable, and know what they like more than they did 15 years before.

I would disagree that people stop caring about women being sexual when they're older than 30 - women are being slut shamed regardless of their age, and single mothers specifically get so much back lash for simply existing or for having a past, regardless of the past in question.

 

[clemieux6]

In long relationships, things can fall into a routine. And some men are very closed minded when it comes to sex.

Certain times a woman’s sex drive can become dormant. I’ve met some women where they can go without sex for 6-8 months and not miss it.

But, once they become single again, a slight little spark, the feeling of being comfortable and safe with a new partner.

Their inner devil is out to play, especially when it’s summer or nice weather.

Men were horny creatures where most of the times we just wanna cum and call it a day.

But the majority of women are more naughty than men and have wild imaginations when it comes to play time.

 

[talkinghead]

Those who study sexual behavior have been intrigued by a significant decline in sexual activity across all ages and across genders. The decline is especially apparent among young people (under 25), and includes declines not only in "partnered" sex but in masturbation. In many cases, the rate of "sexlessness" is rising faster in men than in women. More and more people are identifying as "asexual." The reasons for these declines isn't clear but may include reductions in young adult drinking, more time playing video games, anxieties from the pandemic (though the trends predate the pandemic), concerns about "rough sex," more 20-somethings living with their parents, and so on.There are numerous studies that show this, but most are looking at Americans--though the trend is apparently global. (I haven't seen anything about Canada in particular.) Also, contrary to myth, married people have more sex than singles. Granted, MERB members may be statistical outliers in these matters!

Honestly, for someone of my generation, it's hard to fathom. Less masturbation? But ... why??!! Now I'm wondering what I would have done with all that free time...

 

[maymay]

Not only single moms the world is weird, I have a 30y old women at work who was giving me a lot of signs even staring at my private parts, after talking to her i found out she was in an open relationship with a guy who had like 8 girls.

It seems today lots of people are in open relationship, or screwed up relationships.

 

[Flyingby]

It is part of the mating ritual
She shows you she is a naughty girl
Then when you are hooked. It is back to starfish position
And then they make you feel guilty like you are too sexually demanding.
It is all a ploy!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think it's different for everyone, but here's my 2 cents.. a lot of women in their 20's are still testing the waters, and often not in optimal conditions. Things have changed, but when I was a teenager, we weren't taught about consent. There's also a lot of slut shaming as well, and I think the reason why it affects very young women more is that they are often in environments where rumors spread faster. Generally until very recently girls were made to feel very embarrassed about sexuality. (maybe it's still that way too..)

When I was a teenager, it was taboo for a girl to admit she masturbates. A lot of times when someone wanted to bully a girl, they would call her a slut and invent rumors that she slept with a lot of people. Not only that, but I think sexual education is not great. Girls are made to be paranoid about their health. many girls I know told me they were afraid of getting a STI and pregnant the first time they had sex even if they used protection. A lot of girls have also experienced sexual harassment and sexual assault at a very young age, which can seriously slow down someone's sexual development..

I think really often women are in relationships in which they don't have good sex, and aren't able to express what they like. Often we are educated to believe that a man's pleasure is more important. This is a generalization, but a lot of men tend to replicate what they see in porn, because that's how they got their ''sexual education'', and they are often more concerned with orgasms and performance. So if a woman gets out of a relationship in which she didn't feel satisfied sexually, and she is finally comfortable enough with herself to explore her sexuality to the fullest. As we get older we start getting over these ''hang ups'' about sex and unlearning all that bad stuff we were told about our bodies.