If this is shown to be a nasty sort of business dealing with nasty sorts of people, then you won't attract the new younger and fresh providers you want. You will only continue to chase away the ones that remain, while the new younger ones choose to stay safely out of reach and on a screen instead of as a live option.
Making the business a less scary and distasteful option from such dehumanizing manners and thoughts.
We aren't forced into this, we choose it, just as we can choose not to be part of it. People with views like the OP have a point. I will choose a single hour with one of my favorites than ever accept a 3 hr with someone who I don't like or want to spend time with. I often refuse people I would not be compatible with. It isn't just about money. We look to make our work something that can keep us going. And shitty encounters only lead to burnout and another SP who disappeares from the scene.
Poor behavior by either men or women, SPs or clients, there are consequences. One of those consequences is the SP you want to see avoiding you, because they didn't like you. Just as your reaction is to not call an SP back you did not enjoy either.
You don't have to be a white knight, or go above and beyond, we are not your wife who gets mad at you for forgetting your anniversary again. But common courtesy, and kindness goes a long way to making the difference between getting to see someone you like again, or not.
We also very much do appreciate the lovlies who do enjoy sharing their desire to display a little extra something, whatever that may be, that brings a smile to the SPs they choose to share much of their intimate time with.
Yes money is involved, but our interactions are not just money. There are different kinds of relationships that form within the framework of SW.
