Nice la Presse Article on XO this morning

Giselle Montreal · Mar 23, 2026

Verbal Kint said:
If I faulted, please indicate me where.

I am trying to indicate you where. Let me use other words.

Violent tendencies in men don't decrease with the number of time they come. They don't decrease with the number of time they made love that week, or their lack of sexual frustration. Their sexual needs are not related with their violent needs. Abusing women is a need for power, not sex. So no, we are not keeping the sexual crimes in check. We are the receivers of sexual crimes, just as their wifes are, just like any other women in our society are.

Sex workers are not responsible for stopping men from developing abusive tendencies. Just like no other women are. It doesn't work this way.

jmioffe · Mar 23, 2026

pilotman1 said:
The Canadian law requires only that you "communicated for the purpose" of paying for sex. You don't actually need to do it.

We're all in a lot of trouble then!

That brings to mind the subject of burner phones. I've always bought a new SIM when I get into town, and I registered under a fake name ... but I bought the SIM with a credit card, and used it with my standard phone, so I didn't really get myself any extra protection, did I?

EagerBeaver · Mar 23, 2026

RobertNYC said:
Great perspective. Thanks. EB, I think my larger point was, or my question should be, would a court grant a subpoena in a case like this to prove two people actually met up?

Because meeting up is not illegal. That’s a total waste of resources. You’d have to be in the room to prove transaction.

It's a question of evidentiary value and not discoverability. As I said the records may have no evidentiary utility. It's not a discoverability question, it's an evidentiary value question. The Courts do not block discovery requests like this. However if the discovery has no evidentiary value, there is no point in doing the discovery in the first place. The prosecutors all know this and that's why it's a big waste of time and money.

Verbal Kint · Mar 23, 2026

Giselle Montreal said:
I am trying to indicate you where. Let me use other words.

Violent tendencies in men don't decrease with the number of time they come. They don't decrease with the number of time they made love that week, or their lack of sexual frustration. Their sexual needs are not related with their violent needs. Abusing women is a need for power, not sex. So no, we are not keeping the sexual crimes in check. We are the receivers of sexual crimes, just as their wifes are, just like any other women in our society are.

Sex workers are not responsible for stopping men from developing abusive tendencies. Just like no other women are. It doesn't work this way.

I apologies about my comment, if it caused any kind of frustration.
I don't and didn't mean any disrespect.
I was aware about the Power/control need; and didn't reflect on it while making my point.
It is not your responsibilities to keep violent or abusive behaviour in check.
I though it did help indirectly.

I also sense there is a bigger picture at stake here, so for the purpose of keeping this thread in it's lane, may I ask you a question in private regarding this?

Giselle Montreal · Mar 23, 2026

Verbal Kint said:
I also sense there is a bigger picture at stake here, so for the purpose of keeping this thread in it's lane, may I ask you a question in private regarding this?

No, thank you. I don't have anything to add on this matter at the moment.

davydream52 · Mar 23, 2026

jmioffe said:
We're all in a lot of trouble then!

That brings to mind the subject of burner phones. I've always bought a new SIM when I get into town, and I registered under a fake name ... but I bought the SIM with a credit card, and used it with my standard phone, so I didn't really get myself any extra protection, did I?

The IMEI associated with your device is registered with the cell towers along with the phone number you used. So basically no, you weren't fully anonymous.
If you are using a device in this day and age, you are always trackable if authorities needed it to be.

Having said that, they are not going to pull up cell tower records unless there is further evidence against you, because the cell tower records only tell that you were in a certain area and does not pin point your exact location. So at maximum it is a supporting evidence

hob12 · Mar 23, 2026

psykick456 said:
Does anyone else think that lowkey the crackdown on this stuff is to reduce quantity and increase the price of sex workers here in Canada so more horny young 18-25 yr olds sign up for the military?

The Israel lobby wants more young people in the Military. Gen Z men tend to be right wing but anti Israel. However, many gen z men are now also unemployed and underemployed. Money and sex are probably effective carrots to dangle in front of young, horny, underemployed, underpaid, and undersexed young men to induce them into joining the military.

Get a grip

hob12 · Mar 23, 2026

Giselle Montreal said:
This line always upsets me when I read it. What we hear when people say that is that we, sex workers, deserve to see abusers and let them release their frustration on us so that the civil women don't have to.

I've been told stuff like that by SP too : I'd rather they come see me instead of raping someone. It alwas throws me off and kinda insults me too. I've had long periods of no sex in my life and It never brought me close to even entertaining the notion of sexually abusing a women because I was getting too horny or whatever.

It sure does damage you in other ways though, but that's something else.

AnthonyAnderson · Mar 23, 2026

Lolipopesun said:
I think it’s time to lay low for awhile. It’s a honey pot waiting to happen. They’ll be probably go after clients in other agencies and take them on the fact. Cases after the fact are harder to prove and a waste of resources. But if they take you during the fact that’s another story

At 900 posts it would be a good time, too, to close the thread pending any further significant developments in this file. This thread has become a catch-all on all things related to sex work ethics, politics and legal risks/consequences.

Rebaynia · Mar 23, 2026

Verbal Kint said:
10% of the cients will cause 90% of the issues. And by creating fear or discomfort in Sp we stray even further from what could be a genuine moment. Where at some point it might feel like ordering from a mc menu...Fake smile, check. nervousness, check. No one wants that. Yes it is theatre, and beautiful make belief in the end. But the time, experience can be real and fulfil both parties. I do enjoy your inputs, and I do beleive it does educates or at least inform. Please keep going (If you do feel like it...)

And amazingly, only 10% or less who contact me get to make it to a booking. It's not 10% who cause issues, sorry.

davydream52 · Mar 23, 2026

Rebaynia said:
And amazingly, only 10% or less who contact me get to make it to a booking. It's not 10% who cause issues, sorry.

It's about to get even lower. The case is getting attention. The interview on youtube and LaPresse article is gettimg insane attention.

TheJames101 · Mar 23, 2026

davydream52 said:
I swear they aren't deleting the texts. I don't do this activity often but agencies' responses tell me they have my old texts from months prior. I can bet this can be easily tested.

Not only that, but in the case of one agency, they have your contact info from a previous agency from which it was an offshoot - I know this because the SP at the newer agency called me by the (fake) name I gave XO back a long time ago. Never gave it to the newer one.

TheJames101 · Mar 23, 2026

pilotman1 said:
The Canadian law requires only that you "communicated for the purpose" of paying for sex. You don't actually need to do it.

jmioffe said:
We're all in a lot of trouble then!

Informal merb meetup in court.

Rebaynia · Mar 23, 2026

davydream52 said:
It's about to get even lower. The case is getting attention. The interview on youtube and LaPresse article is gettimg insane attention.

What I mean is, even as we say 10 % cause 90% of the problems, but if we were to factor in the number of people who contact us and either don't get a response back because all they wrote was Hi. Or who threw the process of comunication, or lack there of, and appointment isn't created in the end.
If we count the "no way this is happening", contacts, before even including what might get in the door, that percentage of problematic clients goes up.
Just in the first 5 messages I see so much disrespect by most to the process of this is intimate relations these people are asking for. 75% of messages alone often start with
-Hi
-I wanna f*ck.
Or some deviation of this. Often with a tone of urgency, and the impression that we aren't anything but something to stick their hard on in. It is higher than 10%.

davydream52 · Mar 23, 2026

TheJames101 said:
Not only that, but in the case of one agency, they have your contact info from a previous agency from which it was an offshoot - I know this because the SP at the newer agency called me by the (fake) name I gave XO back a long time ago. Never gave it to the newer one.

For some reason I have a feeling more agencies are about to get raided

RobertNYC · Mar 23, 2026

jmioffe said:
We're all in a lot of trouble then!

That brings to mind the subject of burner phones. I've always bought a new SIM when I get into town, and I registered under a fake name ... but I bought the SIM with a credit card, and used it with my standard phone, so I didn't really get myself any extra protection, did I?

No you didn’t. But do you think an ayatollah is going to knock on your door to take you to the town square for your execution?

Again, nobody gives a shit about any clients.

RobertNYC · Mar 23, 2026

davydream52 said:
For some reason I have a feeling more agencies are about to get raided

Only if Canada is as totalitarian as many Americans believe. My guess is the country isn’t, you’re implying it is.

AlexDaniel · Mar 23, 2026

So if we used our phone to text XO even if we didn’t get an appointment we are cocked?
What about doing business with other agencies and they get raided and their phones seized?
The shit is about to hit the fan…

RobertNYC · Mar 23, 2026

AlexDaniel said:
So if we used our phone to text XO even if we didn’t get an appointment we are cocked?
What about doing business with other agencies and they get raided and their phones seized?
The shit is about to hit the fan…

I think you guys are just fucking with us at this point. Lol.

AlexDaniel · Mar 23, 2026

RobertNYC said:
No you didn’t. But do you think an ayatollah is going to knock on your door to take you to the town square for your execution?

Again, nobody gives a shit about any clients.

Why do you think they are not going after clients since their is a law against client but not law against the sp, so to stop this shit they are juste gonna put end on the demande to stop this scandale…

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