Am I the only one not feeling much with a condom?

[Just-ass-weet]

I really don't like the feel of the Avantis... I got simillar feeling as MakeIt.

Personally, I prefer latex condoms, try the trojan her-pleasures, warming lube inside (none outside since I get quite wet), try different positions and soon you will find that position that is most stimulating for you (RCG might be your best option since this will leave her with plenty of access to the lowest part of your shaft and balls)

xoxox
Anik

I did try the Avantis and they did break on my first try. I can't say I felt anything much more than a regular condom (until it broke and even then I didn't realize it). Size wise its still pretty tight IMO. I also find they have this plasticy feel to them, kind of like using saran wrap for a condom.

 

[Touch]

warming lubricants

Has anyone tried Durex's "Play Warmer" warming lubricant? Also, both Durex and Lifestyle market condoms with warming lubricants; has anyone tried either of them them?

As for increasing the man's sensation, I agree a little Astroglide inside the condom helps the heat transfer and increases the sexiness of the sensations.

Also I like the sensation provided by Lifestyle's Vibra Ribbed (Nervurés) in the pale blue wrappers. The ribs run vertically along the shaft inside the condom.

Touch

 

[HarmonyNYC]

I think Astroglide numbs the penis.

Lubrication helps increase sensation but in my experience I think Astroglide numbs the member.

I think "Millenuim" made by I.D. is by far the best lube ever.

It is made from silicon (a bit more expensive) and is ok for oral and for condoms.

 

[FlyBob]

Lubrication helps increase sensation but in my experience I think Astroglide numbs the member.

What do you mean by "numbs"...you get a stiffy and it holds your shots

Cheers!

 

[Touch]

Astroglide

Regular Astroglide doesn't numb anything unless they make another special version that does. However, I was told by an SP that it doesn't taste very good; she brought her own Kiwi and Strawberry lubricant for the oral.

Touch

 

[PHNINE]

Best advice is to jerk off with a condom and get your penis accustomed to having it on. Most of the time, you go soft just because you aren't use it. You need to train yourself to expecting the hood for your warrior. I mean would you want to go into combat without your helmet? I wouldn't. Of course, it is better with out one, but far safer with one.

 

[Just-ass-weet]

I mean would you want to go into combat without your helmet? I wouldn't. Of course, it is better with out one, but far safer with one.

I think a better analogy might be, "Would you want to drive a motorcycle without a helmet - of course, but it is safer with one!"

 

[HarmonyNYC]

Yes I am saying that in my experience I think Astroglide numbs the penis and...

What do you mean by "numbs"...you get a stiffy and it holds your shots

Cheers!

Yes I am saying that in my experience I think the regular Astroglide numbs the penis (it did mine) and it is very sticky and very messy.

Based on my amazement with Millenium I.D. lotion, I think that once you try it you will not only be amazed yourself but you will never use anything else and you will never leave home with-out it!

I realy think it is amazing and even girls are shocked at how soft and smooth it is. It never gets sticky and will last a very long time.

Now if only I could make a buck off promoting it.

 

[FlyBob]

Based on my amazement with Millenium I.D. lotion, I think that once you try it you will not only be amazed yourself but you will never use anything else and you will never leave home with-out it!
...
Now if only I could make a buck off promoting it.

Will have to try it, thanks for the tip. where did you get yours, where can we buy it?

Cheers!

edit: I did find a place by doing a quick google search: http://www.sensualcanada.com/product.jsp?product_id=325

is this the one?

 

[HarmonyNYC]

Yes FlyBob, that is the one.

I.D. makes many lubes but "Millennium" is THE ONE!

It is made from silicone. The many, many, many girl's that I have introduced it to are just as amazed as I am. "Wow" is a common response. In the past I would say that "it feels just like a woman", now I say "it is as close to feeling like a woman then any thing else I have ever come across... other then a woman"

It is not cheap but in NY after much searching I have found two places that sell it way under the norm. I know Montreal is allot smaller but keep searching and you may get lucky.

If you know Cleo's their is a small porno shop not too far. About two blocks past Saint-Laurent on Ste-Catherine is a small porno shop that has it, but again I will say it is not cheap. At first you should buy the smallest size but if you are as amazed as I think you will be you should always buy the largest size so you save some money and you won't want to run out.

I.D. home page: www.idlube.com
And the Millennium page: www.idlube.com/millennium/millennium.php

BUT...

let's remember this is a thread about condoms or more specifically about how "condoms don't feel too good". And our thoughts as related to said subject in quotes.

 

[FlyBob]

Hey HarmonyNYC, thanks! I'll try it out.

You sure know your way in montreal, considering your from NYC (?)...ok mtl isn't that big.

Cheers!

 

[PHNINE]

I have always found it funny how so many Americans love our country and sometimes know more about it then us Canadians do. LOL

 

[PHNINE]

True I stand corrected. LOL They like our shit, but not the country....LOL

 

[ck_nj]

regnad,

Do tell us the name of the silicone brand lube you picked.
Thanks.

CK

 

[Carla]

Wellbutrin

Greetings,

I'd like to know what is your experience with a condom...I didnt have many relations yet but I realy dont feel much with one even if the girl is very tight.

It even makes Mr. Happy not so happy after a while...what could make it more enjoyable, other than stop using one!

Cheers!

FlyBob, I didn't read the whole thread but I think I've got a perfect solution for you.

Last week I started taking antidepressant called Wellbutrin. So far I hate it. However it does have a few strange side effects. It kind of feels like you've had a few coffees and I guess if you are a normal not depressed person you should feel a bit happy. It only takes a few minutes after you take the pill to start taking effect.

Anyway, I'm getting there. It should make you hornier and it should increase your genital sensitivity by a mile. This includes making your orgasm/ejaculation a lot more intense. If you think this is what you need you can ask your doctor about Wellbutrin (antidepressant) or Zyban (smoking aid). Your doctor might have a free sample. You only need to take one pill (150 mg) prior your sexual encounter. The effect last about 6-7 hours.

Let me know how it worked!

Carla

P.S.: For others reading this post, avoid Wellbutrin/Zyban if you are already sensitive. It can make your erection and ejaculation painful.

 

[PHNINE]

I also picked up some Japanese latex condoms, Crown, recommended by the saleswoman.

Yes these are very close to bareback. They might not be the easiest to find nor the cheapest, but in terms of sensitivity and heat absorbtion they do the trick. If you are a novice hood user then you might not be able to tell the difference, however if you have sampled all the regular shit you can buy at 7-11, then this will feel like heaven for you. But remeber the first time is always the best, just like your first joint, your first E, your first good condom experience will almost never be repeated, so choose the lucky lady wisely, and not some first time SP you find hot.

 

[daydreamer41]

Development of Microbicides

I know this may be a bit off in the future, but several Pharmaceuticals have research into Microbicides. I've heard estimates of 2009 before one is approved for use, and 2012 before there is wide acceptance.

Here is a couple of paragraphs from on article on the subject on a website:

http://www.csa2.com/discoveryguides/micro/overview.php

Microbicides are substances that can be applied to the vagina or rectum during sexual activity to prevent the spread of HIV and other sexually-transmitted diseases and/or to act as a contraceptive. To encourage the use of these products, microbicides should be designed to be inexpensive, convenient, unobtrusive, and non-irritating to both partners. Ideally, microbicide preparations, which can be in the form of creams, foams or gels, should be available in contraceptive and non-contraceptive formulas. This would allow women to protect themselves from contracting sexually-transmitted diseases whether or not they wish to conceive children.

The Invisible Condom, developed at Universite Laval in Quebec, Canada, is a gel that hardens upon increased temperature after insertion into the vagina or rectum.9 In the lab, it has been shown to effectively block HIV and herpes simplex virus. The barrier breaks down and liquefies after several hours.

I suppose there must be lots of evidence that these methods work before people will use these.

 

[FlyBob]

Last week I started taking antidepressant called Wellbutrin. So far I hate it. However it does have a few strange side effects. It kind of feels like you've had a few coffees and I guess if you are a normal not depressed person you should feel a bit happy.

Anyway, I'm getting there. It should make you hornier and it should increase your genital sensitivity by a mile. This includes making your orgasm/ejaculation a lot more intense.P.S.: For others reading this post, avoid Wellbutrin/Zyban if you are already sensitive. It can make your erection and ejaculation painful.

Hey Carla, thanks for the tip but I already take something similar and the effect of having 4-5 coffees is my natural state!

Cheers!

 

[HarmonyNYC]

True I stand corrected. LOL They like our shit, but not the country....LOL

Come on brother give me a break!

That is not fair!

And what is their to not love about Canada!

America is a very big country with an extremely large amount of every kind of or class of person you could categorize.

I have never stayed at a 5 start hotel and I have never paid more then 180 for an entertainer. Never have and never will. I am also sure that you must recognize that most of the Americans on MERB fit into my class person not your classification of the Americans who come to Canada.

 

[HarmonyNYC]

LET US ALL PRAY FOR THE DAY WE HAVE Microbicides

I know this may be a bit off in the future, but several Pharmaceuticals have research into Microbicides. I've heard estimates of 2009 before one is approved for use, and 2012 before there is wide acceptance.

Here is a couple of paragraphs from on article on the subject on a website:

http://www.csa2.com/discoveryguides/micro/overview.php

Microbicides are substances that can be applied to the vagina or rectum during sexual activity to prevent the spread of HIV and other sexually-transmitted diseases and/or to act as a contraceptive. To encourage the use of these products, microbicides should be designed to be inexpensive, convenient, unobtrusive, and non-irritating to both partners. Ideally, microbicide preparations, which can be in the form of creams, foams or gels, should be available in contraceptive and non-contraceptive formulas. This would allow women to protect themselves from contracting sexually-transmitted diseases whether or not they wish to conceive children.

The Invisible Condom, developed at Universite Laval in Quebec, Canada, is a gel that hardens upon increased temperature after insertion into the vagina or rectum.9 In the lab, it has been shown to effectively block HIV and herpes simplex virus. The barrier breaks down and liquefies after several hours.

I suppose there must be lots of evidence that these methods work before people will use these.

LET US ALL PRAY FOR THE DAY WE HAVE Microbicides!