Are Montreal Escorts generally having a good time with clients?

[AlmostMidaged]

I was just thinking about how different the sex worker (emphasis on escort) experience must be like between countries.I thought some more and realized it must even vary between cities? Then I realized the experience changes from person to person. In the end, I started to wonder if those escorting in Montreal had mostly positive experiences. And is the experience you have as an escort determined by personality, attitude, looks, the clientele you see, or something else?

Note: I am talking about escort who choose to do sex work. Not those trafficked or coerced.

I guess I am just wondering if the fact most MERB Advertisers (Indy and Top Agencies) have good reviews is a good sign that Montrealers who go see them mostly behave. Or does someone having lots of good reviews not preclude them from exiting sex work not having enjoyed any of it?

It’s funny that if you haven’t seen many ladies at the agency you may doubt they’re all great. But once you’ve seen a few of them you start to realize they’re all great. It’s very rare and hard to have a bad meeting. Thinking back, I never had a bad booking with Euphoria, despite having seen different ladies. Always GFE with a good attitude. I should book more often with many different ladies. Edit: I only had good experiences with Indy Companion as well. I How is it I always had good experiences?? Great experiences really? It’s kind of blowing my mind right now.

I hope the stock market recovers by fall, it’d be nice to see my investments go up.

 

[envelopes]

yes they tell me they love me

 

[MCTJ]

It's a good question. I can even see this being a topic for a Master's thesis is Social Work (seriously). Imagine, one might find they are on average happy and satisfied with their work...

There is actually little research on "indoor" sex workers because they are hard to reach by researchers. Too bad.

 

[wetnose]

It’s funny that if you haven’t seen many ladies at the agency you may doubt they’re all great. But once you’ve seen a few of them you start to realize they’re all great. It’s very rare and hard to have a bad meeting. Thinking back, I never had a bad booking with Euphoria, despite having seen different ladies. Always GFE with a good attitude. I should book more often with many different ladies. Edit: I only had good experiences with Indy Companion as well. I How is it I always had good experiences?? Great experiences really? It’s kind of blowing my mind right now.

I hope the stock market recovers by fall, it’d be nice to see my investments go up.

Try a little experiment:

1) Show up late in your worst outfit
2) On arrival at the incall, bang loudly on the door "I'm here to see the WHORE!!!"
3) Ensure you smell of alcohol
4) Don't shave, bathe or brush your teeth for 4 days
5) Bargain - "I've had $160 whores who looked better than you. And they swallowed!!!"
6) Try to recruit the SP for your OnlyFans channel

 

[Lexus3]

yes they tell me they love me

They say the same to me

 

[Flyingby]

Wouldn’t you be happy? Unlimited orgasms. Having sex all day. Making 10k a week cash

seriously. If they don’t fake it. They won’t make it
It takes a high level of “ I don’t give a shit” to be an sp
A high tolerance to all kinds of gents
From cheese dick, to bad teeth. To smokers breath. And even smelly ass
These girls deal with all kinds. And to get paid. Have to go through with it.

so. If you want to garantee yourself a good time
Be nice. Respectable. Clean. And she’ll have a better time than she did with 50% of the guys she saw that week

 

[CoolAmadeus]

They say the same to me

And to me as well!

 

[Fradi]

Wouldn’t you be happy? Unlimited orgasms.

You have either been writing or reading too many Merb reviews.

I absolutely agree that it takes a high degree of “ I don’t give a shit to be an SP.
Montreal SP have better experiences and seem happier? Perhaps they are way better actresses.

 

[TheJames101]

Hard to say. All the SP's seem to have plenty of nightmare stories. More or less here than elsewhere? No idea.

 

[section80]

From what I saw from many Montreal SP's Twitter, the average client from the city is much cheaper than most places. I don't know if it's because income in Quebec are generally below average of other big cities, or clients are just less "generous".

 

[Cruiser777]

the average client from the city is much cheaper than most places. I don't know if it's because income in Quebec are generally below average of other big cities, or clients are just less "generous".

You maybe insulting lots of clients who are not cheap and also lots of non Montrealers who book lots of girls, who come from cities with much more
"Higher" income then Quebec plus $$s exchange rates to go with it.
Lets remind ourselves that Quebec / Montreal is, was much more open and liberal society then other places Canada and the US included. Drink at 18, bars open till 3am, girls getting drunk, having fun and having lots of sex , sex was not a big deal over here as it was at other cities to charge ridiculous prices even for non-GFE services...
Also lets not forget other factors that Montreal living expenses were fairly cheap for long time, unlike some other cities that the rent was much much higher then Montreal, condo housing way up through the roof (Toronto, Vancouver as examples) hence charging the extra $$s...

 

[MrProfiteroles]

From what I saw from many Montreal SP's Twitter, the average client from the city is much cheaper than most places. I don't know if it's because income in Quebec are generally below average of other big cities, or clients are just less "generous".

Maybe I'm a "cheap" local guy, but I don't recall any girl complaints about it especially for the 2 years when border was closed!
Criss qu'on était ben!

 

[Julia Sky]

I guess I am just wondering if the fact most MERB Advertisers (Indy and Top Agencies) have good reviews is a good sign that Montrealers who go see them mostly behave. Or does someone having lots of good reviews not preclude them from exiting sex work not having enjoyed any of it?

Hm well you have to remind yourself that reviews are an indication of how we, and the date, were perceived by the client. Not the other way around. A review won't say if we were faking the whole time, if we thought the client was annoying or anything like that. I've had discussions with girls that went like "Wow have you seen my most recent review? Seems like this guy had a lot of fun. Well at least one of us did because it was not me!" haha.

We do have fun often, but not every time and reviews aren't an indication of this. Sorry to break the bubble!

Some of us love our job, some are just ok with it and some dislike it. Like every other job, not every worker likes it, but it's just a job and that's valid! Even those of us who love the job don't love every single appointment or every single day at work. That's fine. We're all human!

 

[anon_vlad]

Disclaimer: I have no experience with low fee SPs (<200/hr) nor any outside Montreal.

I've lived with two SPs (one platonically) and have known a few others socially. Here's what that very small sample of all SPs have told me about themselves and their colleagues :

1) Most clients are clean and pleasant. SPs sincerely enjoy talking with them.
2) Only the desperate (desperate as in lack of clients or insatiable need for money) SPs will repeat with clients they strongly dislike. They will encourage the ones they like to call for them again.
3) Only 30% of agency clients attempt to sexually stimulate them and only 1/3 of those 30% succeed.
4) Even if they do orgasm, they don't necessarily enjoy having sex with clients. Some clients are better than their boyfriends in bed, but they still much prefer sex with the latter.
5) Many will attempt to hide their occupation from their boyfriends and tell clients they are single even if they are not.
6) Some SPs hate their job and transfer that hatred to their clients.
7) A very, very tiny fraction are nymphomaniacs. A tiny fraction enter into a love relationship with their clients.
8) For most, the happiest time of a session is receiving the payment.

My own observation:
9) Some lose interest when the money is in their hands. Try not to pay in advance. NEVER loan money. Even in the unlikely event that you actually are reimbursed in money or services, aggravation is guaranteed.

 

[section80]

You maybe insulting lots of clients who are not cheap and also lots of non Montrealers who book lots of girls, who come from cities with much more

I'm not insulting anyone, that's what I've read from a few canadian SP's Twitter account. I'd be curious to hear from the perspective of actual workers it's the only way to find out.

 

[Julia Sky]

My own observation:
9) Some lose interest when the money is in their hands. Try not to pay in advance. NEVER loan money. Even in the unlikely event that you actually are reimbursed in money or services, aggravation is guaranteed.

My own observation : it's been 5 years and that one guy still hasn't paid me. I try not to give service before pay now, but still this kind of post makes me feel like I'm a bitch for doing so. So I sometimes can't bring myself to ask for it and I just stress for the whole appointment, which could affect the service even if I try my best not to let it show.

I'll let you guess which is more damaging between not being entirely satisfied with the service you got, or getting raped by deception and robbed.

Stop advocating for this. Makes it harder for us to stand up for ourselves and then shitty things happen to us. You (not you specifically, but general you) have the option to meet with well reviewed ladies, why not do that instead so you don't have to worry and we don't have to risk being raped?

 

[Fradi]

My own observation : it's been 5 years and that one guy still hasn't paid me. I try not to give service before pay now, but still this kind of post makes me feel like I'm a bitch for doing so. So I sometimes can't bring myself to ask for it and I just stress for the whole appointment, which could affect the service even if I try my best not to let it show.

I'll let you guess which is more damaging between not being entirely satisfied with the service you got, or getting raped by deception and robbed.

Stop advocating for this. Makes it harder for us to stand up for ourselves and then shitty things happen to us. You (not you specifically, but general you) have the option to meet with well reviewed ladies, why not do that instead so you don't have to worry and we don't have to risk being raped?

I don’t understand this hang up with paying before the session starts.
With the ladies I see I make sure I do that up front even the tip, it puts them at ease and this way I am sure I won’t forget and accidentally walk out without paying them. I am never worried about the service I will receive, I know exactly how the session will go.
Then again the ones I see I have known for years and there is no lack of trust in this regard. between us.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I don’t understand this hang up with paying before the session starts.
With the ladies I see I make sure I do that up front even the tip, it puts them at ease and this way I am sure I won’t forget and accidentally walk out without paying them. I am never worried about the service I will receive, I know exactly how the session will go.
Then again the ones I see I have known for years and there is no lack of trust in this regard. between us.

Depends on who you see. If it is a well reviewed agency/escort on Merb with reviews to back her up then paying in advance is not an issue (I always did that with XO and Vog). Problem is when clients use Leolist/Annonce Intime. As we all know most of them are scammers giving poor non-GFE service. Paying them after makes sense but what makes even more sense is to not use those types of sites all together.

 

[Fradi]

what makes even more sense is to not use those types of sites all together.

This I completely agree with.
Using those sites you are setting yourself up to be scammed, robbed or even worse.
That is not to say that there may not be a few legitimate SP advertising there but I will not take that chance.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Paying upfront never worries me because I dont use those LL girls and my regulars dont care about getting the money before or after, they know they will get it.