Ask us anything part 2

[LC18]

I feel a strong turn on with a particular SP and want to see her at least 2-3 times a month but at the MP there is the time and noise factor that is off-putting. Is there a good way to suggest a different place or arrangement ?
How do you not become infatuated ?

What do you mean by time factor?
Noise I can understand if you can hear people in the next room it might be hard to keep the focus.
You can ask if she has a phone number that she gives to client so that it’s easier for you to book in the future. Then if she has one you can ask her over text messages if she’d be open to see you outside of the salon, compensated.

 

[Rebaynia]

I feel a strong turn on with a particular SP and want to see her at least 2-3 times a month but at the MP there is the time and noise factor that is off-putting. Is there a good way to suggest a different place or arrangement ?
How do you not become infatuated ?

These types of locations could have issues with their girls working outside of the location. To them it is concidered stealing their clientel. (But it doesn't hurt to ask,) if she is caught though she could have issues by her workplace. A business scorned could become hostile to the girls who work there if they are caught privatizing the customers outside of the workplace.

If she doesn't give her number, that could be a reason why. No harm in asking though.

Time constraints is part of her job though. If you want to see her expect to pay for the time you are looking for. It is unfair to expect to request her time and not offer to compensate for it. Especially if you are taking time from her personal life.

As for becoming infatuated. I would say we rely on it in a way. Someone infatuated with us means we will get to see them again and again. There is no real earnings in 1 time meetings. Even myself I rely heavily on regulars and repeat visits. If they are infatuated it makes for a more comfortable and pleasant visit.

 

[OHenry]

These types of locations could have issues with their girls working outside of the location. To them it is concidered stealing their clientel. (But it doesn't hurt to ask,) if she is caught though she could have issues by her workplace. A business scorned could become hostile to the girls who work there if they are caught privatizing the customers outside of the workplace.

If she doesn't give her number, that could be a reason why. No harm in asking though.

Time constraints is part of her job though. If you want to see her expect to pay for the time you are looking for. It is unfair to expect to request her time and not offer to compensate for it. Especially if you are taking time from her personal life.

As for becoming infatuated. I would say we rely on it in a way. Someone infatuated with us means we will get to see them again and again. There is no real earnings in 1 time meetings. Even myself I rely heavily on regulars and repeat visits. If they are infatuated it makes for a more comfortable and pleasant visit.

These types of locations could have issues with their girls working outside of the location. To them it is concidered stealing their clientel. (But it doesn't hurt to ask,) if she is caught though she could have issues by her workplace. A business scorned could become hostile to the girls who work there if they are caught privatizing the customers outside of the workplace.

If she doesn't give her number, that could be a reason why. No harm in asking though.

Time constraints is part of her job though. If you want to see her expect to pay for the time you are looking for. It is unfair to expect to request her time and not offer to compensate for it. Especially if you are taking time from her personal life.

As for becoming infatuated. I would say we rely on it in a way. Someone infatuated with us means we will get to see them again and again. There is no real earnings in 1 time meetings. Even myself I rely heavily on regulars and repeat visits. If they are infatuated it makes for a more comfortable and pleasant visit.

Thank you for the reply.
I’m not looking for free.
When I say time constraints , it means problems with booking more than an hour because of scheduling constraints or the manager cutting time short because of calculating time from client arrival rather than hostess arrival and the corresponding “ knock of death”. Also the “ ticking clock” pressure is kind of annoying. Never mind the stress of worrying about noise from/for other clients or next door tenants.
I understand it’s a job and not a relationship but it would be nice to be in a relaxing atmosphere and I’m only interested in one particular MP. Others I’m content to be in the MP environ. But I don’t want to cause trouble so I’ll probably forget about a change in locale ( unless there a way the MP admin would agree to a contribution amount but I doubt it).
As for infatuation, how do you kill the fantasy of the relationship developing to be more than a transactional one ?

 

[OHenry]

What do you mean by time factor?
Noise I can understand if you can hear people in the next room it might be hard to keep the focus.
You can ask if she has a phone number that she gives to client so that it’s easier for you to book in the future. Then if she has one you can ask her over text messages if she’d be open to see you outside of the salon, compensated.

Thanks for the reply.
Time factor meaning you can’t always get extra time , time delays from previous clients adding on and cutting into my appointment , and the pressure of the ticking clock during an appointment.
I’m not expecting free , just an encounter less “ cookie cutter production line”.

 

[Rebaynia]

But I don’t want to cause trouble so I’ll probably forget about a change in locale ( unless there a way the MP admin would agree to a contribution amount but I doubt it).

You can always ask her. Maybe she does provide as an indy, you never know. Just be discreet in how and when asking so no co-workers are aware you are asking. The worst she can say is no. If she does, you get the expierience your looking for with her.

As for infatuation, how do you kill the fantasy of the relationship developing to be more than a transactional one ?

That is up to her, and how willing are you to accept this is what she does as a living? Understand that it isn't easy to have emotions for an SWer. There needs to be a lot of confidence and acceptance to her lifestyle, that most have trouble coming around to. It isn't easy to have feelings for someone who is unavailable to reciprocate those feelings either, unless your prefered lifestyle is the one your living already.

My own situation they know I have my master and he is my love, and I am clear that I will not leave him. That they need to understand my heart is spoken for, and time is paid. I have some who profess their love, and apologize to them that the best I can offer, is my affection for them, but my love belongs to my master.
He provides something that a regular relationship, and the average man just can't provide that I need to be and feel fulfilled.

 

[Hemme]

He provides something that a regular relationship, and the average man just can't provide that I need to be and feel fulfilled.

Wonder what is the "something"
Mind to try to elaborate a lil bit please

 

[Mefy]

Do you have a lot of attractive clients with a nice sculpted body and you actually enjoy the session more than the average guys?

 

[Rebaynia]

He provides something that a regular relationship, and the average man just can't provide that I need to be and feel fulfilled.

Wonder what is the "something"
Mind to try to elaborate a lil bit please

LoL. I would think that it is a master/slave relationship would be self explanatory.

He is a good man, dedicated and likes control, while I have looked for a relationship I trusted enough to let him lead instead of leading myself. I am an all or nothing person, and so is he. For my heart to feel secure to submit I need to have trust in him on every level. I get to be 100% dependant on him and not criticized for it, in a world where no one wants to be depended on entirely. I have issues with making decisions, and he enjoys being the one who gets to make every decision. He takes care of me in ways I tend to neglect myself, along with taking on being responsible for my mental health. I can message him 100 times a day about anything that comes to mind, and he encourages it instead of being made to feel excentric for it. Along with it is one of his orders that every negative thought I have, I am to let him know, so he can help me threw it. Which is a very big deal when taking into account I can have severely depressing thoughts at times, and can be and feel overwhemled to just not wanting to deal with life in any sense of it at times. He knows how to bring my spirits back up, and doesn't hold it against me, even when I say things that I expect might infuriate him, he listens to it with complete understanding (unlike any I have ever seen from anyone else in my life) and takes it upon himself to rectify it. He understands and works on healing the person I am from the damage I have endured over my life.

That's all not taking into account the sexual side, which he is as perverse as I am. And he is still trying to allow me the opportunity to come out of my own shell. As my own fantasies in life, was to find the 1 man I would submit to in the way I do with him. That he may guide me threw the extremely kinky world that I have always desired deep down, while keeping myself on the outskirts, because I wanted my someone I trusted to lead me threw it, than to just figure it out on my own. While in my previous relationships I was the one pushing and leading them threw explorations they weren't comfortable with. Going as far as when I quit my public job and suggested to him I might go back into escorting to earn a living and get out of debt, it turned him on. And even if he isn't part of the job I do, he wants to hear all about it, all the time, and wants me to enjoy and have a good time while I am out. Wanting me to re-find the joy I had in sex before the last 2 relationships over the last 5 years before him, had killed something inside of me twords it.

Mind you the kink I crave and enjoy is for him, and crave more the relationship style, tamer side of things with clients as it takes a form of trust that doesn't come easily to me. When others try to enforce submission, well without that trust I tend to fight. So long as the client doesn't push those boundaries, I remain tame, and my inner beast doesn't come out. Though it does seem to make an interesting, non threatening appearance when I meet submissive men. Which has me looking forward to explore when master and I take on subs together as a couple.

 

[FrenchSecrets]

These types of locations could have issues with their girls working outside of the location. To them it is concidered stealing their clientel. (But it doesn't hurt to ask,) if she is caught though she could have issues by her workplace. A business scorned could become hostile to the girls who work there if they are caught privatizing the customers outside of the workplace.

If she doesn't give her number, that could be a reason why. No harm in asking though.

Time constraints is part of her job though. If you want to see her expect to pay for the time you are looking for. It is unfair to expect to request her time and not offer to compensate for it. Especially if you are taking time from her personal life.

As for becoming infatuated. I would say we rely on it in a way. Someone infatuated with us means we will get to see them again and again. There is no real earnings in 1 time meetings. Even myself I rely heavily on regulars and repeat visits. If they are infatuated it makes for a more comfortable and pleasant visit.

Take into consideration that if she is an Indy and she drives to you at her own expense says a lot as well! remember she is coming to you as it saves you a lot of hassles!

 

[Rebaynia]

Do you have a lot of attractive clients with a nice sculpted body and you actually enjoy the session more than the average guys?

I have had clients who were attractive and sculpted, young and go to the gym. Who had MILF fantasies.

I enjoyed them LESS than my average guy clients. They come with an entitled ego style, that I find very unattractive, almost always ask for things not available, and act like I should feel privledged that they are interested in me , and will try and be sneaky in ways that are inappropriate for this line of work, and often need to be put in their place, and shown their strength is no match for my own, and that their place is to be grateful little boys.

I meet the occasional attractive athletic type, who is down to earth, who I enjoy, but that doesn't make him any better than anyone else. Personality trumps size and attractiveness any day. How you treat me makes for a good or bad visit, not how you look.

 

[Mefy]

When on the job, do you prefer that your client finish quickly or do you take time to enjoy yourself?

 

[OHenry]

Take into consideration that if she is an Indy and she drives to you at her own expense says a lot as well! remember she is coming to you as it saves you a lot of hassles!

I definitely don’t want to rock the boat

Take into consideration that if she is an Indy and she drives to you at her own expense says a lot as well! remember she is coming to you as it saves you a lot of hassles!

ill keep that in mind…

 

[LC18]

Do you have a lot of attractive clients with a nice sculpted body and you actually enjoy the session more than the average guys?

Do you have a lot of attractive clients with a nice sculpted body and you actually enjoy the session more than the average guys?
Bold of you to assume that we only care about a person’s body. Even in my personal life it’s never about someone’s body. I’ve had amazing sex with men that would be considered “overweight”.

 

[Mefy]

Do you have a lot of attractive clients with a nice sculpted body and you actually enjoy the session more than the average guys?
Bold of you to assume that we only care about a person’s body. Even in my personal life it’s never about someone’s body. I’ve had amazing sex with men that would be considered “overweight”.

I heard many SP refuse clients for many reasons.

Let's say you get to choose between a fit guy 175lbs vs a fat guy 250lbs.
Which one would you choose and why?

 

[FrenchSecrets]

When on the job, do you prefer that your client finish quickly or do you take time to enjoy yourself?

If you see she is comfortable with you it’s just like a friend coming over!

 

[FrenchSecrets]

I heard many SP refuse clients for many reasons.

Let's say you get to choose between a fit guy 175lbs vs a fat guy 250lbs.
Which one would you choose and why?

If you look like you take care of yourself it’s a plus!

 

[LC18]

I heard many SP refuse clients for many reasons.

Let's say you get to choose between a fit guy 175lbs vs a fat guy 250lbs.
Which one would you choose and why?

That’s correct but weight is never on my list of motives to refuse someone. Your introductory email would be one, your attitude/respect and whether you try to haggle or not.

 

[Mefy]

What has been the longest number of consecutive hours/days/weeks/months non stop you have worked?

 

[Mefy]

That’s correct but weight is never on my list of motives to refuse someone. Your introductory email would be one, your attitude/respect and whether you try to haggle or not.

Good to know!

 

[LC18]

When on the job, do you prefer that your client finish quickly or do you take time to enjoy yourself?

When on the job, do you prefer that your client finish quickly or do you take time to enjoy yourself?

It truly doesn’t matter. If he finishes quickly we’ll go for a second round (or maybe not). If he takes more time then we’ll talk less. At the end of the day, the session isn’t for me it’s for him. As long as he’s happy, that’s what truly matters.

Of course it has to be done with respect and care.