Only a few of them because we are friends outside of this job, because they told me or because I saw it by accident. Doesn’t matter if I know their legal name or not, when in a professional context, I call them by their stage name.
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Only a few of them because we are friends outside of this job, because they told me or because I saw it by accident. Doesn’t matter if I know their legal name or not, when in a professional context, I call them by their stage name.
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Was someone who wanted to be a client, and I don't trust or like him enough to. His personality is absolute sh*t. And if you have to try to resort to blackmail to sleep with a girl. Well you don't deserve to.
He was discouraged because everyone already knows. I tell people myself. Also correcting and telling other family members my mom lies to about what I do to make herself look better. (I was my families pride. Only one to go to post secondary school, and have a career for myself, and she doesn't want to loose the "I'm better than you, because my daughter works and your offspring don't" standing in the family) I can't lie and I Don't like her trying to put me in a corner to lie. Besides not hiding it removes anyone elses power to 'out me'. It's already common knowledge. I believe people either accept or deny me as I am. I won't pretend to be something I am not.
Here is the plot: 2 hour outcall at my hotel, wine and a snack is ready for you. Do you give a shit what Im wearing? The reason I ask...its usually in the evening. I want to relax. Its cold outside. Id like to throw on sweats and get comfy, and wait for your arrival.
I block them and give their phone number to my close friends in the business so that they don’t have to waste their time like I did
As long as you have good hygiene I do not care about what you are wearing at all. You could be in a full on Naruto costume I wouldn't mind
Sounds like someone might have a naruto cosplay fantasy lol.As long as you have good hygiene I do not care about what you are wearing at all. You could be in a full on Naruto costume I wouldn't mind
I am not focused on what you are wearing jogging pants is easier to strip you down out of then fiddling with the belt, button, and zipper. And easier for teasing while still dressed, as your not being constricted.
Casual comfort it is then, and if I feel like its a Naruto night, then thats ok tooSounds like someone might have a naruto cosplay fantasy lol.
I am not focused on what you are wearing jogging pants is easier to strip you down out of then fiddling with the belt, button, and zipper. And easier for teasing while still dressed, as your not being constricted.
When contacting an SP who offers PSE and I want to ask about certain details of what her PSE experience is like (they can be very different from one sp to another) not asking for a full menu but rather wanting to know if she is confortable with this or that) is it expected to provide screening information before asking any questions? I don't want to look like a time waister but also if what i am looking for is not something she offers I would like to politely move on and contact someone else without having to screen with multiple providers while not yet knowing if they offer what I am looking for.
When contacting an SP who offers PSE and I want to ask about certain details of what her PSE experience is like (they can be very different from one sp to another) not asking for a full menu but rather wanting to know if she is confortable with this or that) is it expected to provide screening information before asking any questions?
I once again, I cannot answer for everyone but it seems normal to ask reasonable questions before sending your information. You are going to waste more time if you send them first and then realize you’re not a great match.
Every provider is different. You can always ask them if it is alright to ask your questions before providing screening information. Personally I would think screening would be while an appointment is being set up, but there are other SPs who are busy, and want the screening first, and then will discuss semantics about the appointment before setting it up.
Everyone runs their business their own way, and it is as much about finding a provider who you are comfortable and connect with as it is for her to find clients who she is comfortable seeing.
In broad strokes, what kind of SP do you think would be a good fit for someone like me?
I'm scared to read the answers LOL
I might have to go hide somewhere under a rug and reconsider my life choices
To SPs reading this, if you react with a laughing smiley like Rebaynia did, you're automatically added to my list
In the end, maybe I'm not asking anything... I'm going fishing here LOL after all, this is a target rich environment
- I'm a gentleman but naughty and playful. I can't help it
- I'm confident sexually, which can be intimidating
- I have a pretty wild imagination
- I have a way with words
- A "no" is a "no" but "maybes" or hesitations turn me on LOL
- I went past the vanilla GFE standard a long time ago
- I'm more dominant than passive
- I can be quite intense sexually IF I feel I have the right partner
- I'm looking for a connection first. Services come later
- I hate bimbos (fake tits, fake lips, make up and the whole stripper look)
- I'm middle aged
I'm scared to read the answers LOL
I might have to go hide somewhere under a rug and reconsider my life choices
To SPs reading this, if you react with a laughing smiley like Rebaynia did, you're automatically added to my list
In the end, maybe I'm not asking anything... I'm going fishing here LOL after all, this is a target rich environment
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I think an equally naughty SP would be right up your alley.In broad strokes, what kind of SP do you think would be a good fit for someone like me?
- I'm a gentleman but naughty and playful. I can't help it- I'm confident sexually, which can be intimidating- I have a pretty wild imagination- I have a way with words- A "no" is a "no" but "maybes" or hesitations turn me on LOL- I went past the vanilla GFE standard a long time ago- I'm more dominant than passive- I can be quite intense sexually IF I feel I have the right partner- I'm looking for a connection first. Services come later- I hate bimbos (fake tits, fake lips, make up and the whole stripper look)- I'm middle aged
I'm scared to read the answers LOL
I might have to go hide somewhere under a rug and reconsider my choices in life
To SPs reading this, if you react with a laughing smiley like Rebaynia did, you're automatically added to my list
In the end, maybe I'm not asking anything... I'm going fishing here LOL after all, this is a target rich environment
Read profiles and look for for signs of mischief.
It is dangerous to speak about specific acts by email. Especially if I do not know you already. It's not good for discretion and also we get a lot of time wasters looking to make us talk dirty to them. Also, I will not offer every dance move in my repertoire (if you catch my rizz) to anyone. It depends on hygiene and chemistry. So to consent by email to something doesn't ring like a good idea for me. For well known providers you can expect to have fun and read their website about what kind of service they offer.
Usually I accept to say if I provide a service if it's a very specific thing like pegging or roleplay. But for more traditional acts, I do not.
Lady, you can be my wingman anytimeI think an equally naughty SP would be right up your alley.
Read profiles and look for for signs of mischief.
LoL careful what you ask for.. I've been know to take the attention of both ladies and gents.Lady, you can be my wingman anytime
And being a lady myself, tend to get away with more than you might if you tried.
It's more fun to be naughty than be polite in that case.
This is a male ego thing and I kind of understand it. I don’t think it has anything to do with being disgusted more like I am good looking enough smart enough and girls like me enough why would I need or want to pay anyone.
I was kind of like that in my youth mainly because it was easy for me to date girls that I found attractive, I never pushed and wasn’t ever aggressive about wanting to get them into bed.
I was always of the opinion that what ever two consenting adults did is totally their business and nobody else’s I just never found the need to look for a professional as there were so many that were willing to be with me just for who I was.
Obviously when you get older a little bit wider you don’t have an athletes body any more but your taste in women hasn’t changed you still like the 25-50 year olds then you realize that seeing an SP is a pretty decent solution because it is not easy anymore more like impossible to attract these women which is perfectly normal and the way it should be.
They often ask "what is available?".
My answer is always. "I don't give ideas. I require you ask for what you're looking for, and I will let you know if it counts as gfe, extra, or is unavailable."
What someone asks for is a clear indication on if we might be compatible, or not. And kinks not previously discussed are not accepted while on a visit. Neither is someone trying to be dominant if they have not paid for the right to be.
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