Ask us anything part 3
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Yes, sometimes it happens. It happened a lot more when I first started.. I personally have mixed feelings about it and I'm not alone. Makeup is part of my ritual and it just makes me feel better about myself. I usually accept tho.. I understand if the client is allergic to certain products or is afraid a stain will be left on his clothes, but sometimes I feel like certain people are under the impression that makeup can change someone's face so drastically that we are ''catfishing'' them and they want to know what we look like without it. This is annoying to me. It's also ok to prefer no makeup or light makeup.. we've had many conversations about it here, tho. Really often men think makeup = bright colors and sparkles. They don't notice natural looking makeup.
Only one man has made the opposite request and I told him I didn’t want to see him ever again (not just for that, he was also a pain in the ass)
I don’t wear makeup, don’t have time, don’t have money to spend on that and don’t have the skills. Outside of mascara and lipstick I don’t do anything. I might apply a bit of foundation for dinner dates
People will try to make special requests like clothing, or makeup. Depends how, and why. There are some exceptions i am willing to cater to, but for the most part my answer is, "I get ready how I see fit, and dressed how I feel like expressing myself that day. They could ask, but I don't guarantee they will get what they are asking for. (If I'm in a rocker mood, I'm not showing up elegant, or if I'm in a girly mood, I'm not showing up femfatal. It really does depend on my moods.) Often the thought is, this is what I feel good in today.
As for makeup, these days it's little or next to none, but what little I use often has a big impact. I don't wear full face of makeup, I don't know the products, and makes me feel like a clown. I like my skin feeling clean and void of products.
When it comes to outfit requests, I used to think they were fun until I received very specific, inconvenient requests that don't fit my way of receiving clients anymore. For instance one client I had in the very beginning wanted me to greet him naked with sneakers on because he fantasized about women jogging outside lol. It didn't bother me at the time, but I don't think I would indulge that request now. I got used to receiving clients wearing a nice dress and heels at my incall, so I don't think I'd do it particularly since there are other people in the building who could see me open the door..
Sometimes people assume we have a giant wardrobe full of all imaginable costumes and outfits possible. I think it's sweet when someone asks me to wear a certain color or dress casually or wear a goth style or something like this, and it's achievable. But if I'm sent a photo of a specific outfit found online, I may not have anything like it.. If a client wants me to wear something specific and I don't have it, he should get it for me.
Sometimes people assume we have a giant wardrobe full of all imaginable costumes and outfits possible. I think it's sweet when someone asks me to wear a certain color or dress casually or wear a goth style or something like this, and it's achievable. But if I'm sent a photo of a specific outfit found online, I may not have anything like it.. If a client wants me to wear something specific and I don't have it, he should get it for me.
I got this request a few times. I do it out of respect for the client's preferences but I don't feel good about it. I like doing my makeup for appointments, it makes me feel so much prettier and I'm honestly quite self conscious so when I'm not wearing makeup I spend the entire appointment apologizing in my head for being ugly. I'm not even kidding
I prefer outfit requests as long as they are achievable and in good taste (I refused a few requests over the years simply because some people have weird tastes and I knew it would be ugly to mix top X with bottom Y for example). If I dont have it the person can buy it for me.
So would you discuss about your lack of comfort or just accept it?
I was more seeing this request as a regular who find you attractive without makeup
Then I was wondering if there is a request to spend the night there will be no makeup removal before sleeping?
Obviously I'll remove my makeup during an overnight but it's really rare that I get such requests lol. If a regular asks me to wear no makeup or less makeup I'll say yes, it's less preparation for meSo would you discuss about your lack of comfort or just accept it?
I was more seeing this request as a regular who find you attractive without makeup
Then I was wondering if there is a request to spend the night there will be no makeup removal before sleeping?
Yes many times. One time I was at this fancier hotel with a man and room service kept knocking at the door to offer complementary service like chocolates, water and a book about the hotel
It felt like they were doing it on purpose.
He just had the door ajar and told them “thank you we don’t need anything”
It's happened that I was interrupted by a delivery yes, I just got dressed and went to pick up the package but those were not pleasant experiences. This has never happened to me at a hotel or anywhere else however.
Ohhhh we were interrupted once... I wish it were delivery, or something simple like that.
It was a second visit, and apparently he and his gf were in an argument. Lived appart.
When I arrived his phone went off a time or 2, he ignored it. I thought nothing of it. We were well I to our visit, when his gf showed up, yelling for him and just barged into the room.
The rest of the visit was her yelling, while I still demanded I need my shower, so go deal with his business, as there is nothing emotional with us, but he has to deal with this long after I am gone. There was no fighting between her and I. It was never braught up I was there for escorting, she just thought he was playing me trying to get a local to marry him for citizenship. The only negative thing she said to me was I was old. But under the circumstances, that's actually one of the nicest things that someone might say when walking in and seeing their man, deep in someone else. It was not a good situation to be in, but was relieved her anger was him, and not me.
Was able to go from bedroom to shower, clean, got dressed in the bathroom and left. He was trying to cater to my discomfort, while I was telling him take care of her discomfort, and I just want to make sure i don't have to deal with any fights because of his stupidity...
Apparently he wrote her just as I was arriving, 'Do not come over.' While she was pissed at him... yeah right. Any man in a relationship knows, that is not the moment to call someone over to your bedroom.
This is such an uncomfortable situation.... Some people really lack judgement...
It helps to handle it with class though. I understood her place, and she didn't come after me in the attack, but I also didn't try to take any of the focus, I'm not fighting for the man, I'm not laying stakes on him. Not my fight. She is hurt and defending her feelings that he hurt.
Things escalate depending on how someone behaves themselves in the situation.
Lol one of my session was cut short with an incendy alarm in the hotel. The whole hotel had to be evacuated. I was laughing so hard.
Why do you assume that clients are all ''older gentlemen''? There are literally 21 year olds reaching out to book me. I saw a 26 year old guy yesterday. By ''exchange of money'' you mean it's our job.
Also, most of my clients are not married or in a relationship.
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I’m not assuming. That what I was told by a few SPs, that the clients that see them are mostly older and attachedWhy do you assume that clients are all ''older gentlemen''? There are literally 21 year olds reaching out to book me. I saw a 26 year old guy yesterday. By ''exchange of money'' you mean it's our job.
Also, most of my clients are not married or in a relationship.
Sure there are young dudes too and unmarried but I don’t think that’s the majority
Everyone has a different type of clientele…
