It's happened that I was interrupted by a delivery yes, I just got dressed and went to pick up the package but those were not pleasant experiences. This has never happened to me at a hotel or anywhere else however.
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Ohhhh we were interrupted once... I wish it were delivery, or something simple like that.
It was a second visit, and apparently he and his gf were in an argument. Lived appart.
When I arrived his phone went off a time or 2, he ignored it. I thought nothing of it. We were well I to our visit, when his gf showed up, yelling for him and just barged into the room.
The rest of the visit was her yelling, while I still demanded I need my shower, so go deal with his business, as there is nothing emotional with us, but he has to deal with this long after I am gone. There was no fighting between her and I. It was never braught up I was there for escorting, she just thought he was playing me trying to get a local to marry him for citizenship. The only negative thing she said to me was I was old. But under the circumstances, that's actually one of the nicest things that someone might say when walking in and seeing their man, deep in someone else. It was not a good situation to be in, but was relieved her anger was him, and not me.
Was able to go from bedroom to shower, clean, got dressed in the bathroom and left. He was trying to cater to my discomfort, while I was telling him take care of her discomfort, and I just want to make sure i don't have to deal with any fights because of his stupidity...
Apparently he wrote her just as I was arriving, 'Do not come over.' While she was pissed at him... yeah right. Any man in a relationship knows, that is not the moment to call someone over to your bedroom.
This is such an uncomfortable situation.... Some people really lack judgement...
It helps to handle it with class though. I understood her place, and she didn't come after me in the attack, but I also didn't try to take any of the focus, I'm not fighting for the man, I'm not laying stakes on him. Not my fight. She is hurt and defending her feelings that he hurt.
Things escalate depending on how someone behaves themselves in the situation.
Lol one of my session was cut short with an incendy alarm in the hotel. The whole hotel had to be evacuated. I was laughing so hard.
Why do you assume that clients are all ''older gentlemen''? There are literally 21 year olds reaching out to book me. I saw a 26 year old guy yesterday. By ''exchange of money'' you mean it's our job.
Also, most of my clients are not married or in a relationship.
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I’m not assuming. That what I was told by a few SPs, that the clients that see them are mostly older and attachedWhy do you assume that clients are all ''older gentlemen''? There are literally 21 year olds reaching out to book me. I saw a 26 year old guy yesterday. By ''exchange of money'' you mean it's our job.
Also, most of my clients are not married or in a relationship.
Sure there are young dudes too and unmarried but I don’t think that’s the majority
Everyone has a different type of clientele…
A lot of men nowadays are in their 30's and 40's and unmarried and not in a relationship.. Also a lot of men in their 40's and 50's and 60's are divorced. I think it's a cliche that only older married men hire sex workers.. No, I don't prefer older married men. If I wasn't a sex worker, I would be having sex with very few people, and the people I would date would definitely NOT be older married men.
We don't choose our clientele even if we create our branding to attract a certain type of person, meaning it's not our decision to be picked by married guys. A lot of men choose us because of our body type, or because we are the type of girl they would like to date for real. At least that's what I am usually told by my clients.. Obviously most clients are over 30 for financial reasons but I don't consider 30-40 year old men ''older gentlemen''...
And I'm not saying that because I judge married men for hiring sex workers or because I don't find older men attractive.. It's not my place to judge. But due to my branding and the way I present myself I mostly attract very similar types of men as I do in my personal life.. nerdy or artsy men, and bisexual men lol usually the much older men, and the guys who are in a relationship pick me more because of my rates, services and body type, and it's a completely different type of dynamic.
Some colleagues have told me they prefer seeing married men because they are less demanding emotionally and there's less talking, it's less work for them. Personally I like the relational aspect of being a SP and I like conversations..
Hmmm,
if I stop to think about it, would the demographic change? Not likely. I only accept the visits I agree to having. It isn't a guarantee just because someone reaches out, that i get to see them.I have my comparison to go by though.
In 'exchange of money', his pleasure matters more than before I was compensated.
In my single days, when I wasn't an SP,
, dudes job being invited into my bed was, make it worth my while. If his goal wasn't my pleasure above his own, he was easily ghosted and never reinvited back.And for those who did a good job, they were issued a day of the week they could expect me to reserve for them. My guys all knew I had other guys, some even got excited about hearing what I did, with say the one from yesterday, or earlier on in the week. They knew their place was to be used as my toy to get off, otherwise they wouldn't be there.
There is a reason I fantasized this kind of relationship I am in now. I just needed to find the relationship, before I could enjoy being the taboo who got paid for it. (I needed the relationship more than the sex, but also feared if I was charging for the sex I needed, I would never find the relationship willing to be part of that. In my twisted brain, there is romance in waiting for things to align, and if we never found eachother, I never would have let him or anyone know, it was something I was ashamed to desire.)
I don't accept seeing all the clients who reach out.Hmmm,
I have my comparison to go by though.
In 'exchange of money', his pleasure matters more than before I was compensated.
In my single days, when I wasn't an SP,
And for those who did a good job, they were issued a day of the week they could expect me to reserve for them. My guys all knew I had other guys, some even got excited about hearing what I did, with say the one from yesterday, or earlier on in the week. They knew their place was to be used as my toy to get off, otherwise they wouldn't be there.
There is a reason I fantasized this kind of relationship I am in now. I just needed to find the relationship, before I could enjoy being the taboo who got paid for it. (I needed the relationship more than the sex, but also feared if I was charging for the sex I needed, I would never find the relationship willing to be part of that. In my twisted brain, there is romance in waiting for things to align, and if we never found eachother, I never would have let him or anyone know, it was something I was ashamed to desire.)
They have to be polite, follow requirements and respect my boundaries. But I'm here to provide a service.. If I refused to see a client just because he's not my type or we have nothing in common, that wouldn't be professional of me, and I'd have a lot less business. Sometimes clients do happen to be my type or to be people I have a lot in common with and a connection, tho! And the more I work on my branding, the more I attract the right people..But yeah, in my personal life, I'm not someone who likes to have many different lovers. So if you're my client, you are lucky I'm in this industry and you get to know this side of my personality
I'm a very private person and I'm not someone who is ''easily accessible'' outside of this.