Don't know if this as been asked before (probably considering the number of pages
), but i'll ask anyway: from your experience, ladies, what's the ratio between MERB members and not in your clients?
I understand you don't systematicaly ask the question so i know it will be an approximation.
I'm asking the question cause i often notice that there's a gap between the availability of certain ladies and the number reviews of said ladies here.
Some people always assume that merbites "hide" some ladies by not reviewing their experience, that may be so; but another reason could also be that there's a good number of clients who simply don't come here.
(Of course there are also lurkers
)
I don't really know about any ratio.
I've seen merb members before. Don't know who they are on merb for the most part.
I only know of 1 for sure. Everyone else, I enjoyed my time with, and am sure they did too. Haven't had any reviews written, but I'm alright with that.
The fact that it's been almost 3 years, and there are no negative reviews, and I have only started to be a supporting member, so imagined being an active participating member, not supporting, that if someone did write a good review, might just be shut down anyway. If it was bad it would have stayed for sure.
But those I clocked as merb members, or they told me after, admitted they found the reviewing, dehumanizing, and didn't like to participate in sharing for that reason.
Who knows could be I was bad, but sweet enough they didn't want me to feel negative after. (Not likely from what I have seen in the reviews, but never know. Could be a reason.)
Also I'm not exactly thin. Could be not wanting to be known for liking a bigger person, and there's really no nice way to review a bigger size without it sounding like a jab at attraction. Even for those who like it, there isn't positively charged terms to make it sound desirable, but is something that would likely come up in followup questions, that even a well intentioned review could turn into a fat-phobic thread.
I choose to see it as a positive, no bad news is good news, especially when the day my account was started here, was the day I started being available as a provider. Oct. 2022
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