Ask us anything part 3

[MissCeci]

At what age do you observe woman getting into escorting ?
how long do you want to escort for ?

It varies. I know girls who started at 19 and girls who started at 32.

I think I wanna do it for around 5 years, unless something happens and I have to stop. However, I also have another “normal” job so I have to balance both.

 

[kabukicho]

I’d be tempted if I had extraordinary chemistry with the person.

I don’t really think seeing SPs is some kind of “moral fault”, so I wouldn’t assume that because they like SPs they would be a bad and/or cheating partner.

But also, I’m probably a minority because I wouldn’t mind my partner seeing SPs from time to time, as long as it wasn’t a nuisance to our sex life.

everything even up to the 'but' is already a thoughtful and amazingly mature perspective, to not look at it as a'minus point's thing.

to add, even liking SPs could be a temporary situation for the individual.

 

[Julia Sky]

how long do you want to escort for ?

As long as my body will allow me to, honestly. I'm a whore by vocation lol

 

[Julia Sky]

But also, I’m probably a minority because I wouldn’t mind my partner seeing SPs from time to time, as long as it wasn’t a nuisance to our sex life.

Me too, but I'd probably prefer if I was the one introducing the idea as opposed to someone who already books escorts regularly. It would be for threesomes half of the time haha.

I just dont trust a pre-established client because for many of them, this "hobby" becomes an obsession and it has the potential of making a partner feel like she's not enough.

 

[Nachoy]

Have you ever considered conceiving a baby with one of your clients ?

 

[LC18]

Have you ever considered conceiving a baby with one of your clients ?

Yes, then I woke up all sweaty and thought: glad it was just a nightmare.

It’s a no baby zone, we can pretend if you’re into that breeding kink stuff but it’s never going to happen for real.

 

[Nachoy]

What’s the longest break you taken from escorting if any?

 

[Rebaynia]

What’s the longest break you taken from escorting if any?

Started 18yro for 6 months, stopped 19yro, restarted 39yro. 20 year gap.

I needed love more than sex partners, and now I have my love who also enjoys I have sex partners to match my drive, that is difficult for 1 man to keep up with. I have the best of both worlds.

 

[Julia Sky]

What’s the longest break you taken from escorting if any?

Probably about 6 months at the start of covid. So not very long lol

 

[Julia Sky]

Have you ever considered conceiving a baby with one of your clients ?

What - and I cannot stress this enough - the fuck

 

[Giselle Montreal]

What’s the longest break you taken from escorting if any?

5 months. It was during Covid when I got my surgery, so it was a great moment to take some time off, no guilt, no regrets!

 

[AlmostMidaged]

Where do you Advertise for Onlyfans?
Where should a solo male advertise for his Onlyfans?
Does everyone in an Onlyfans Videos need to verify themselves on the site?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If you came across a client profile on a dating site with whom you really click with, would you not be tempted to like the profil for a match? or because this person was a client or has seen sps that would make you automatically pass on them?

personally no.. because i don't want clients to know my real identity. i do view some of my clients as friends and i vibe with some of them, but i want my private life to be separate.. as for people who have seen sps, why not? there are many reasons why people book escorts.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Have you ever had a client brake down crying in the middle of a date? If so did they explain why?

Has your mind ever wondered off in the middle of a date with a client and thought about something funny that made you want to burst out laughing? And you had a hard time controlling your laughter? If so did the client notice?

i've had a few clients cry during dates yes because i'm a good listener and i'm comfortable with vulerability and emotions and some feel safe enough to confide.. as for laughing, no!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

But she deliberately chose to do both, escorting and subscribe to a dating website. Un moment donné il faut s’assumer non?

mais c'est pas la même chose. on ne recherche pas la même chose sur un site de rencontre que quand on travaille comme escorte.. moi je sais que ce que je recherchais quand j'ai utilisé ces applications c'était quelque chose de romantique, pas des hook ups. et mon identité d'escorte est différente de qui je suis en réalité. pas SI différente, mais il y a quand même plein de côtés de ma vie que les clients ne connaissent pas..

 

[LC18]

[CLIENTS]

I know a lot of you don’t believe in paying a SW for activities but I am still going to ask. What are some interesting activities you’d do with a SW?

 

[Julia Sky]

Where do you Advertise for Onlyfans?
Where should a solo male advertise for his Onlyfans?
Does everyone in an Onlyfans Videos need to verify themselves on the site?

I don't think there is any solo male creator on merb so it might be hard to get the answers you're looking for to your first 2 questions. All I can say is you're gonna have to advertise a LOT and as a solo male don't expect to make a ton of money.

Yes, everyone needs to be verified, and the fact that you even needed to ask is slightly worrying. Imagine a world where you can post your ex on OF without their consent to get revenge....

 

[Julia Sky]

Has your mind ever wondered off in the middle of a date with a client and thought about something funny that made you want to burst out laughing?

I'm going to regret saying this, but it happened once. During a duo, years ago, and no I won't say with who. Something happened and we both looked at each other and started laughing and we spent like 20min moaning-laughing as discreetly as possible while we took turns riding his face and sucking his dick. Our abs were SO painful by the end of it lol. The client never noticed that the moans were actually laughs and still doesn't know.....

I promise I don't normally laugh like that during duos. It was exceptional due to circumstances haha. Oops !

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Where do you Advertise for Onlyfans?
Where should a solo male advertise for his Onlyfans?
Does everyone in an Onlyfans Videos need to verify themselves on the site?

on twitter, instagram and reddit. you can also post ads. yes everyone needs to be verified.. and if you want an onlyfans just to ''collab'' with people for free, it's not likely to happen

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Pretty much anything I would do with a romantic partner or a platonic lady friend. Had a picnic with one recently where we read funny, insightful, or poignant pieces of writing to each other. Went to a museum and played board games with another.
These outings were done as part of specially priced social/private packages. I get the attitude that social activities are superfluous and run counter to the point of seeing an SP, but even if sex was my ultimate focus (which it is not), I’ve observed a strong correlation between better sex and deeper connections with an SP - which platonic activities help to develop and strengthen - so it makes sense to do in that respect too.

Yes, social time and seeing the same SP for multiple times deepens the connection and makes your time more pleasant. Most of us charge way less for social time than we do for intimacy, and we have more specials for social time (I know I do). There are 2 different types of clients when it comes to that.. one just wants short bookings and just wants to have an orgasm or a few, the other appreciates companionship and books longer. I personally don't think social activities are superfluous but it depends on the client's needs for sure.