Ask us anything part 3

[Julia Sky]

The very first time you had sex for money, how did it happen and how you feel about it after? What advice would have for a woman thinking about trying out escorting?

I had a lady friend with benefits who was an agency booker when I was 17-18. I'd regularly see her posting ads and answering phone calls. I needed money so took note of what sites she advertised on and eventually posted my own ads shortly after turning 18. Fell in love with the job and haven't looked back. She was annoyed I didn't want to work for the agency and we stopped seeing each other lol

I always knew I wanted to try having sex for money, it was a fantasy of mine as a teenager. So when I did at 18, naturally I loved it and decided to do it long term.

As for advice the best advice I could give is : community. Network with people who have been doing this job for longer than you have, you can learn a lot & there's nobody better than us to keep each other safe.

 

[LC18]

The very first time you had sex for money, how did it happen and how you feel about it after? What advice would have for a woman thinking about trying out escorting?

I was 16 or 17 I think, I met someone off SeekingA. That’s mostly why I am concerned when I hear of people meeting girls that look very young off that website. I don’t know if it’s still like that but back then they weren’t asking for IDs…

 

[Nachoy]

How do you tackfully decline BBBJ to a client when you notice warts/sores in his penis ?

 

[LC18]

How do you tackfully decline BBBJ to a client when you notice warts/sores in his penis ?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

How do you tackfully decline BBBJ to a client when you notice warts/sores in his penis ?

I explain the situation with tact, and I won't try to find excuses. I will invite him to get tested as well.

 

[Skym]

Your favorite festivals in Montreal?

 

[kstanb]

The best sex I've had in my life was with a woman that I was dating. And it got better and better over time till we broke things off.

but it won't be the same, ever, with a sex worker because the level of intimacy of dating someone won't be the same as meeting a professional sex worker

2 risks of regularly booking the same companion:
- sex getting boring
- you develop feelings for her

the first is easily mitigated by meeting other ladies, by alternating the team, by sharing the love
the second one is really bad and should be avoided

 

[Sylar]

but it won't be the same, ever, with a sex worker because the level of intimacy of dating someone won't be the same as meeting a professional sex worker

2 risks of regularly booking the same companion:
- sex getting boring
- you develop feelings for her

the first is easily mitigated by meeting other ladies, by alternating the team, by sharing the love
the second one is really bad and should be avoided

Oh I agree with you. I misunderstood your first message and thought you were talking about non SP

 

[Nostalgia]

Have you ever had a client brake down crying in the middle of a date? If so did they explain why?

Has your mind ever wondered off in the middle of a date with a client and thought about something funny that made you want to burst out laughing? And you had a hard time controlling your laughter? If so did the client notice?

 

[LC18]

Has your mind ever wondered off in the middle of a date with a client and thought about something funny that made you want to burst out laughing? And you had a hard time controlling your laughter? If so did the client notice?

I just laugh and explain. They were or they’re about to be deep inside me, why being embarrassed about my random thoughts?

 

[Nostalgia]

I just laugh and explain. They were or they’re about to be deep inside me, why being embarrassed about my random thoughts?

I meant during sex.

 

[LC18]

I meant during sex.

Same. I would still laugh and share my thoughts. It happens even in my personal life

 

[CuriousGent]

Stealthing = removing the condom !

With everything you have to watch out for and be alerte during a meeting, how are you able to relax enough to enjoy the moment and give pleasure to the client?

 

[Julia Sky]

With everything you have to watch out for and be alerte during a meeting, how are you able to relax enough to enjoy the moment and give pleasure to the client?

It's a talent! Hahah!! To be fair most clients don't try these types of things.

 

[LC18]

Clients

When you like a SP* on dating websites, is it because you expect her to go on a date with you for free?

I mean we have have your contacts, if we had wanted to go out with you for free we would have said so lmao.


*one that you’ve already met in person

 

[Sylar]

Clients

When you like a SP* on dating websites, is it because you expect her to go on a date with you for free?

I mean we have have your contacts, if we had wanted to go out with you for free we would have said so lmao.


*one that you’ve already met in person

I've never been in that situation, and personally I would probably not try to match unless I had a good joke locked and loaded.
But the client might not have known that the SP is looking to date. And the SP wouldn't necessarily know that the client was looking for something else either. So I would not necessarily hold it against him.

 

[LC18]

I've never been in that situation, and personally I would probably not try to match unless I had a good joke locked and loaded.
But the client might not have known that the SP is looking to date. And the SP wouldn't necessarily know that the client was looking for something else either. So I would not necessarily hold it against him.

I just think it must make certain SPs uncomfortable to know that their clients now know their real names and personal details.

 

[Sylar]

I just think it must make certain SPs uncomfortable to know that their clients now know their real names and personal details.

That's a good point. I haven't used dating apps in a long time. I assumed that you both need to match to get details about the other person.

 

[LC18]

That's a good point. I haven't used dating apps in a long time. I assumed that you both need to match to get details about the other person.

You have a page and you can put your name and some info about you so that the other person has a general idea before liking your profile.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I just think it must make certain SPs uncomfortable to know that their clients now know their real names and personal details.

But she deliberately chose to do both, escorting and subscribe to a dating website. Un moment donné il faut s’assumer non?