Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

As an SP, how do you like your very first minute to be with your 1st-time client? When you see them, what is your approach in greeting and the following minute? Hug, kiss on the cheek or no touching until play time begins? In a hotel setting or if you are heading to a pub/cafe to hang out for a bit, is holding hands or having their hands around your lower back into the venue/elevator to let you in first weird?
To me, it is almost always uncomfortable if I am meeting an SP for the first time which is mostly the case as I am new to the MTL SW industry. Yes the SP is there for whatever service the we agreed for but that doesn’t change the fact that we are seeing each other for the first time which can make touching a bit awkward. On the other hand, not touching could also feel awkward because we both know what we are there for.

Well depends where, but if it's hotel, or apartment complex even though I have the room or apartment # before going, I like them to be a gentleman and greet me outside the hotel, in a hotel setting so we walk in together, it feels like less eyes on us than meeting for the first time in a lobby, or open the door in an apartment complex to let me in and walk me to their door. Homes or motels tend to be different as often the door is just to their 1 room or location.
I tend to greet anyone like I would an old friend. A hug, a kiss, and a pleased to meet you feel before asking for payment once the privacy door is closed behind us. Once paid the kisses and hugs get more passionate than friendly.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I’ve heard of people doing that but to me it would be weird because if you pay 2 hours separately, it’s more expensive than 2 combined hours. I don’t know if I’m being clear.

You have a significant great deal on the additional half hour and for multiple hours as well. Actually in your case i think 90 minutes is the best deal. But you are one of the fews who significantly adjust rates on time like that. Most escorts listing i seen have either no deal for 2h or ocasionally you may save a little 20 or 50 at the very best on the second hour. Only dinner dates or overnight really start to be significantly "discounted" compare to hour rates.

 

[LC18]

You have a significant great deal on the additional half hour and for multiple hours as well. Actually in your case i think 90 minutes is the best deal. But you are one of the fews who significantly adjust rates on time like that. Most escorts listing i seen have either no deal for 2h or ocasionally you may save a little 20 or 50 at the very best on the second hour. Only dinner dates or overnight really start to be significantly "discounted" compare to hour rates.

Yes, my rates are based off the type of bookings I want to get. I have my favourite durations so those will have the best deals

 

[Rebaynia]

Would you ever introduce a client to a very close friend of yours who is not in the industry because you think they’d be a good fit?

Depends how they became a client.

If it is someone I came across threw a booking from my ads, No. Because this is a person who activly seeks out escorts, and I wouldn't wish my friend to be hurt because his hobbying doesn't stop.

But if it is someone I have been friends with in other means, and only became a client because I am now doing this, but is the type of person I trust wants and respects relationships, and would treat my friend well because hobbying isn't a right fit for him. Then it becomes a maybe. I won't set them up, as that is it's own stressers and expectations, but might help them be connected by other means so they can either develop or create their own connection together organically.

 

[envelopes]

For clients
Those of you travelling to a different city and booking 4-5 girls, how and why?

Are you not physically exhausted? The way some of you are f******, I cannot believe you’re be able to do that twice a day.

Also why do you want to see so many girls, sometimes in the same day? Might make it harder to cum the second time too.

Why not 2 and repeat? You could build on the intensity and have an even better second encounter.

I travel a lot for work. But recently, I mostly come to Montreal for hobby-only visits

How and why? Because I was on the road 50% of the year. I want to fuck and after I found this hobby, it was something I did everywhere I went. It was just fun.

Are you not physically exhausted? Depends. But I typically travel for a week, then fly home. I only do 1 SOG per session. What's incredible is hearing guys who do 2-3 SOG per session. And I don't f*** like the guys you are describing, so I guess that's why I can do so much. Im easy. 10 min BJ then 15 min action and I'm done

Why not 2 and repeat? Depends on how long my TDL is. Back in 2019, my TDL was ~40 SPs, so I rarely repeated. I only repeated with a couple. The rest of the time I wanted to see my TDL. These days, my TDL is like 1-2... I repeat a lot. In 2019, if I did 14 sessions in a week, 3-4 of those would be repeats.

 

[LC18]

And I don't f*** like the guys you are describing, so I guess that's why I can do so much. Im easy. 10 min BJ then 15 min action and I'm done

Not so much about the length but the intensity. Cardio

 

[LC18]

Anyone
Not so related to the industry but how do you politely reject a neighbour? My neighbours often ask me out on dates and I’m not interested. Then anytime I cross path with them in our building or street it’s very awkward and they ask me out again. How do I politely say that I’m not interested and to stop asking?

P.S: I’m also a bit scared to reject them because well they know where I live

 

[Rebaynia]

Anyone
Not so related to the industry but how do you politely reject a neighbour? My neighbours often ask me out on dates and I’m not interested. Then anytime I cross path with them in our building or street it’s very awkward and they ask me out again. How do I politely say that I’m not interested and to stop asking?

P.S: I’m also a bit scared to reject them because well they know where I live

It is not an easy situation to deal with unfortunately.
Out right rejection can lead to retaliation, and trying to let them down gently could lead to miscommunication and even more requests in the future.
But it may need to be said to them that your just not interested in forming a relationship with them, or anyone at this time, and you are too busy in your active life to deal with dating in that way, and when it comes to being around home, you need this to be a safe place that you get to just be left alone please.
That neighbors looking out for eachother is something you appreciate, but you aren't comfortable with more than that at this stage of your life.

Not sure if these words resonate with how your feeling. But it's a kind of approach.

 

[Jaz]

Anyone
Not so related to the industry but how do you politely reject a neighbour? My neighbours often ask me out on dates and I’m not interested. Then anytime I cross path with them in our building or street it’s very awkward and they ask me out again. How do I politely say that I’m not interested and to stop asking?

P.S: I’m also a bit scared to reject them because well they know where I live

I wouldn't be rude, but just always respectfully say no and keep it moving.

 

[bamer]

Question: Since the start of the Covid pandemic, I have not participated in meeting an escort. I would like to meet an independent for my trip back, yet they seem to want too much private information ( which I understand from their point of view). Any recommendations to help me ease in ? In Call or Out Call agencies? Best Motels( I have used Charbrol in the past? . Best Agency's today. I used to use Vogue as my go to. Thanks Guys

 

[LC18]

Question: Since the start of the Covid pandemic, I have not participated in meeting an escort. I would like to meet an independent for my trip back, yet they seem to want too much private information ( which I understand from their point of view). Any recommendations to help me ease in ? In Call or Out Call agencies? Best Motels( I have used Charbrol in the past? . Best Agency's today. I used to use Vogue as my go to. Thanks Guys

Not every independent escort asks for private informations.

 

[Robert 21]

Question: Since the start of the Covid pandemic, I have not participated in meeting an escort. I would like to meet an independent for my trip back, yet they seem to want too much private information ( which I understand from their point of view). Any recommendations to help me ease in ? In Call or Out Call agencies? Best Motels( I have used Charbrol in the past? . Best Agency's today. I used to use Vogue as my go to. Thanks Guys

@bamer
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***GOOD TIMES***

 

[joeca]

Anyone
Not so related to the industry but how do you politely reject a neighbour? My neighbours often ask me out on dates and I’m not interested. Then anytime I cross path with them in our building or street it’s very awkward and they ask me out again. How do I politely say that I’m not interested and to stop asking?

P.S: I’m also a bit scared to reject them because well they know where I live

4 words:

"Have you found Jesus?'

 

[LC18]

4 words:

"Have you found Jesus?'

I saw him on the elevator today and immediately froze. I had nowhere to escape and was forced to answer his questions

 

[Sylar]

Anyone
Not so related to the industry but how do you politely reject a neighbour? My neighbours often ask me out on dates and I’m not interested. Then anytime I cross path with them in our building or street it’s very awkward and they ask me out again. How do I politely say that I’m not interested and to stop asking?

P.S: I’m also a bit scared to reject them because well they know where I live

"Respectfully, I am not interested."

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

I saw him on the elevator today and immediately froze. I had nowhere to escape and was forced to answer his questions

Talk about money! Or God !

 

[Julia Sky]

I'd probably make a fool out of myself and eventually tell him : "Listen I'd go out but I'm broke, allergic to gluten and nuts and soy and mustard and most fruits, I am vegan and I have HIV and can only fall asleep watching ballet videos. Maybe your bed would work better since mine has bed bugs but I don't know... Dating me is boring and complicated."

If he still asks to take you on a date after that he's clearly unhinged lol

 

[Sylar]

I'd probably make a fool out of myself and eventually tell him : "Listen I'd go out but I'm broke, allergic to gluten and nuts and soy and mustard and most fruits, I am vegan and I have HIV and can only fall asleep watching ballet videos. Maybe your bed would work better since mine has bed bugs but I don't know... Dating me is boring and complicated."

If he still asks to take you on a date after that he's clearly unhinged lol

We know that the allergy against nuts is a lie.

 

[LC18]

Talk about money! Or God !

Oh yeah money should do the trick

 

[AirBo]

how do you politely reject a neighbour?

The same way you politely reject a friend. Just replace "friend" with "neighbour"

I like you as a neighbour.
Let's be neighbours!