My question to clients : what do you like seeing providers wear when they greet you? I know seeing an indy is not the same as meeting someone at a spa
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Oh, the man would have a perfect body? Okay, then I can relate of course
(Yes, we do need more emojis!)Honestly, and this is just my two cents but, while you have amazing pictures in lingerie and god knows you have some amazing lingerie sets and pieces agent provocateur etc, my favorite pictures of you are the ones that show you fully clothed and leave a lot more to the imagination. Like your aperol spritz picture is amazing. The position of the hand and fingers pointing on your head, the side turn and slight tilt of your body, the perfectly manicured nails and the way you are holding the stem of the glass between your fingers. The way the jewelry around your neck tastefully brings attention to your chest and goes with the v-neckline of your dress. That is a truly enthralling picture. I think there was a picture of you on a chair in leather pants recently as well in an amazing pose. I would rather see a great picture of you out and about in Montreal fully clothed that shows off your curves than in a hotel room in lingerie, or bathroom selfie/shower selfie. Not that those type of pictures don't have a place but, you in bluejeans and a t-shirt out in Montreal is an amazing sight. I like the girl next door aspect of those type of pictures, or I think you had one in yoga pants at a gym or something. What guy hasn't seen a hot girl in a gym and had that fantasy.
As far as pictures with a man. guess it would depend. One ebony provider I used to follow had a video of her lap with her clients hand on it at the start of a play in a theater in Vegas. That was kind of hot, it was just the lap and hands and tastefully done but, only like 15 seconds. I don't think I would want to see a full blown picture though of a SP and a client even with faces blurred out. I recently by chance found a sex video of a SP that I wanted to see and even though you couldn't see much of the client, it killed my desire to see that SP.
You in GND everyday clothes in like pictures out and about Montreal are my favorite pictures of you. Again just my opinion.
Not gonna lie man, this brings back PTSD from your review.
I really do think you mean well, but this is a little... too much, you know?
Yeah exactly that when I see POVs and the hands are white and old. It doesn’t feel as real for very obvious reasons.
Anyways I was asking out of curiosity. I have no plans to add a man to my photoshoots for the reasons I’ve mentioned, it’s impossible to have a man that would represent the wide range of clients I have. Unless he was wearing a morph suit
That's interesting on the negative ones because they would never have occurred to me. People are of all income levels, don't need my date to be posted or care what client has more money. I don't try to outspend anyone but, try to get something very thoughtful if I know something about the SP. I got an SP a bowl of strawberries one time for our date and she asked me how did I know that is her favorite fruit. I didn't, she loved it and we had a great time.
On the “photos of a date” topic, if I do take a photo I will try to hide the man because I value privacy. I don’t want to be recognized and I assume he doesn’t want to be recognized either.
I don’t post every single date because; it would be redundant, because I prefer posting them on my personal page
I don’t post every single date because; it would be redundant, because I prefer posting them on my personal page
Well Sylar quite honestly in a world of FOX NEWS, internet misinformation, wokism, viral hawk tuah videos, racist/mysognist BS against Kamala Harris going on in my country, if a post gives you PTSD from something I wrote back in March, then I feel sorry for you. Get over it. I had a conversation recently with a Vietnam Vet in his 70s about the PTSD he has for getting shot in the war when he was 19 and his backup taking his point position getting killed two weeks later while he was on leave rehabbing before he came back finished his tour of duty. He cannot bring himself to go to the memorial because it would break him down. Blames himself for getting shot that his backup got killed. That is PTSD. You really are going overboard. Sorry you are so easily triggered.
I completely misunderstood what you meant then. I did not think it would be from a date, but a professional shoot. And now that I gave it a bit more thought I can see how some shots can work, when the man is more of a "prop".
You are right. Comparing my response to yours, it's very obvious that I am the one who is trigged.
But thank you for the summary of the US and the education about PTSD.
Yes that’s what I was referring to, I didn’t want to add the photos I’ve seen because they’re my peers but yeah some of them were hot some others made me feel like a voyeur and I don’t think that was the goal
At spas that doesn't surprise me because providers are overworked and underpaid and have bad working conditions but i'm sad and really sorry if you had that experience with indy's
I mean, no matter what, politeness should be expected.bonjour,
the usual protocol for incall is that the sp is already showered and the client takes a shower to freshen up upon arrival, would you ladies be displeased if the client asked for you to take a quick shower right after him, while he is drying himself and rinsing his mouth with mouth wash?
the usual protocol for incall is that the sp is already showered and the client takes a shower to freshen up upon arrival, would you ladies be displeased if the client asked for you to take a quick shower right after him, while he is drying himself and rinsing his mouth with mouth wash?
If a client came to you with a video that they thought could be you being filmed unknowingly but, he is not sure it is you, how would you take it? I am really bad with faces and the video is sort of hard to make out with the lighting and image could be sharper but, the body is very similar from what I remember and her pictures that are on her site and elsewhere. It is only one camera that never moves. The SP never really looks at the camera like she knows it is there. Part of me is like not my problem, other part of me is like well if it was me I would be pissed. You can also hear her voice at times but, it has been so long that I really am not sure if it is the same. Also do I really want to bother the SP with this? I am not a regular. Have only seen her once. How will the SP take it if I am wrong? I probably am wrong but, when I first saw it I was like holy crap that is scary how much it looks like her to me.
Do you mean you found a video online and you think the provider was filmed without her consent? It's possible to take a screenshot and tell where you found the video when you inform the person that you think it might be them. Edit : don't just ask of it's her, but inform and give context and details.
Yes, I am not sure what to do.I really do not know if it is her or not. I don't want to offend the SP. I am not sure how you do the screenshot thing on my laptop. Probably could find same video on my phone and screenshot it that way. I might just email her and say hey, I am probably wrong, there are so may women on this planet but, could this be you and send her the link.
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