Ask us anything part 3

[DouMan]

I feel the same lol... I also feel like it could be perceived as rude potentially but I might be wrong

It's not rude at all @Lunaseraphim , you are too nice . You just offered the dude the privilege of a CIM and he should accept your choice of SW or not.

Besides the sink "tuah" there is the tissue paper drizzzle or the sneeky turn of the head sideways and oups in the ruffled bedsheets

 

[AlmostMidaged]

Building your fan base is the hardest if you have none, or if you don't have a name in the industry already. Advertising to an empty Twitter doesn't bring much. Who is your targeted clientele? Do you know already the first people who will subscribe to your OF?

Also, don't expect to find collabs and just pay them a little to use their own fan base to make a name for yourself; they worked too hard to just share it loosely.

Gay men into the type of man I am physically and the performances I’ll put on.

And wtv other audience would be into the second portion, which is not related to sex and more comedy related.

Oh. Damn. Thank you. You are crushing my dreams a little, but I appreciate it. I thought maybe I could like pay collab say $500-700 as an investment and get exposure that way on theirs, but it seems I am mistaken. Guess I gotta build a following from scratch! I am gonna do it!

I would lower my expectations, there are women that don’t even make that on OF. Unless you’re open to being a Gay 4 Pay.

If Gay 4 pay doest’t have any relation to in person stuff, I am 110% open to it.

 

[Julia Sky]

Yes, when she said gay 4 pay she meant filming content with other men. The men who make the most money on OF are those who film gay scenes OR those who have 100k+ followers on social media platforms!

 

[LC18]

Yes, when she said gay 4 pay she meant filming content with other men. The men who make the most money on OF are those who film gay scenes OR those who have 100k+ followers on social media platforms!

A man jerking off alone on videos will not make $500-1,000 a month. You’re gonna have to get some man on man action

 

[LC18]

[Clients]

How do you feel about SPs posting photos in their ads with a man:

- Does it help you picture yourself with her or not at all?

- Does it turn you on/off or leave you indifferent?

 

[Sylar]

[Clients]

How do you feel about SPs posting photos in their ads with a man:

- Does it help you picture yourself with her or not at all?

- Does it turn you on/off or leave you indifferent?

- Not really, unless the guy looks like me? (Same height, weight, shape etc.)
- More a turnoff than a turn-on

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

[Clients]

How do you feel about SPs posting photos in their ads with a man:

- Does it help you picture yourself with her or not at all?

- Does it turn you on/off or leave you indifferent?

Indifférent, it certainly does "help me" picture myself with her.

 

[DouMan]

Complete turnoff.

Even though I am well aware of other/multiple partners I appreciate feeling like the "only one" for the time we are together.

Is it being self-conscious, jealous or any other peeve we may think of? Maybe, who knows.

Let's look at it in the mirror ... how would a lady feel walking into a room with pictures on the wall of gorgeous women with perfect bodies?

When meeting a lady this may be one of the rare times when the head between the ears would come into play with flash-backs of the male partner from your publicity.

We really don't want that since we need all our energy going towards our pee-wee head

 

[LC18]

I was asking because I see that sometimes and I really wonder if that’s a good marketing technique. I know it does nothing for me because there’s no way I could picture myself when the hands shown on the photos of those of an older white man.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I was asking because I see that sometimes and I really wonder if that’s a good marketing technique. I know it does nothing for me because there’s no way I could picture myself when the hands shown on the photos of those of an older white man.

oh yeah I've seen posts like this on twitter and i found it strange.. i'm not sure how i feel about it (sorry not a client hehe)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

My question to clients : what do you like seeing providers wear when they greet you? I know seeing an indy is not the same as meeting someone at a spa

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

My question to clients : what do you like seeing providers wear when they greet you? I know seeing an indy is not the same as meeting someone at a spa

A smile!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

A smile!

that's easy hehe

 

[Sylar]

Let's look at it in the mirror ... how would a lady feel walking into a room with pictures on the wall of gorgeous women with perfect bodies?

Oh, the man would have a perfect body? Okay, then I can relate of course (Yes, we do need more emojis!)

 

[lovethaifood]

I was asking because I see that sometimes and I really wonder if that’s a good marketing technique. I know it does nothing for me because there’s no way I could picture myself when the hands shown on the photos of those of an older white man.

Honestly, and this is just my two cents but, while you have amazing pictures in lingerie and god knows you have some amazing lingerie sets and pieces agent provocateur etc, my favorite pictures of you are the ones that show you fully clothed and leave a lot more to the imagination. Like your aperol spritz picture is amazing. The position of the hand and fingers pointing on your head, the side turn and slight tilt of your body, the perfectly manicured nails and the way you are holding the stem of the glass between your fingers. The way the jewelry around your neck tastefully brings attention to your chest and goes with the v-neckline of your dress. That is a truly enthralling picture. I think there was a picture of you on a chair in leather pants recently as well in an amazing pose. I would rather see a great picture of you out and about in Montreal fully clothed that shows off your curves than in a hotel room in lingerie, or bathroom selfie/shower selfie. Not that those type of pictures don't have a place but, you in bluejeans and a t-shirt out in Montreal is an amazing sight. I like the girl next door aspect of those type of pictures, or I think you had one in yoga pants at a gym or something. What guy hasn't seen a hot girl in a gym and had that fantasy.

As far as pictures with a man. guess it would depend. One ebony provider I used to follow had a video of her lap with her clients hand on it at the start of a play in a theater in Vegas. That was kind of hot, it was just the lap and hands and tastefully done but, only like 15 seconds. I don't think I would want to see a full blown picture though of a SP and a client even with faces blurred out. I recently by chance found a sex video of a SP that I wanted to see and even though you couldn't see much of the client, it killed my desire to see that SP.

You in GND everyday clothes in like pictures out and about Montreal are my favorite pictures of you. Again just my opinion.

 

[Sylar]

Honestly, and this is just my two cents but, while you have amazing pictures in lingerie and god knows you have some amazing lingerie sets and pieces agent provocateur etc, my favorite pictures of you are the ones that show you fully clothed and leave a lot more to the imagination. Like your aperol spritz picture is amazing. The position of the hand and fingers pointing on your head, the side turn and slight tilt of your body, the perfectly manicured nails and the way you are holding the stem of the glass between your fingers. The way the jewelry around your neck tastefully brings attention to your chest and goes with the v-neckline of your dress. That is a truly enthralling picture. I think there was a picture of you on a chair in leather pants recently as well in an amazing pose. I would rather see a great picture of you out and about in Montreal fully clothed that shows off your curves than in a hotel room in lingerie, or bathroom selfie/shower selfie. Not that those type of pictures don't have a place but, you in bluejeans and a t-shirt out in Montreal is an amazing sight. I like the girl next door aspect of those type of pictures, or I think you had one in yoga pants at a gym or something. What guy hasn't seen a hot girl in a gym and had that fantasy.

Not gonna lie man, this brings back PTSD from your review.
I really do think you mean well, but this is a little... too much, you know?

 

[LC18]

As far as pictures with a man. guess it would depend. One ebony provider I used to follow had a video of her lap with her clients hand on it at the start of a play in a theater in Vegas. That was kind of hot, it was just the lap and hands and tastefully done but, only like 15 seconds. I don't think I would want to see a full blown picture though of a SP and a client even with faces blurred out. I recently by chance found a sex video of a SP that I wanted to see and even though you couldn't see much of the client, it killed my desire to see that SP.

Yeah exactly that when I see POVs and the hands are white and old. It doesn’t feel as real for very obvious reasons.

Anyways I was asking out of curiosity. I have no plans to add a man to my photoshoots for the reasons I’ve mentioned, it’s impossible to have a man that would represent the wide range of clients I have. Unless he was wearing a morph suit

 

[lovethaifood]

Conflicting gut reactions:
“Good for her. Happy to see her wined and dined and treated well. I wish her success and pleasant experiences.”
“Oh, I’d like to try something like that with her.”
“Why didn’t she post a pic of our date?”
“That guy’s watch is nicer than mine.”
“Offering that level of luxury and pampering is beyond what I’m willing and/or able to offer. I’m feeling discouraged. I’ll see someone else instead.”

I recognize the negative ones are petty and things I shouldn’t feel.

Overall, at worst, it’s kind of a turn-off. At best, I don’t mind and it gives me a window into what an SP appreciates.

That's interesting on the negative ones because they would never have occurred to me. People are of all income levels, don't need my date to be posted or care what client has more money. I don't try to outspend anyone but, try to get something very thoughtful if I know something about the SP. I got an SP a bowl of strawberries one time for our date and she asked me how did I know that is her favorite fruit. I didn't, she loved it and we had a great time.

 

[LC18]

On the “photos of a date” topic, if I do take a photo I will try to hide the man because I value privacy. I don’t want to be recognized and I assume he doesn’t want to be recognized either.

I don’t post every single date because; it would be redundant, because I prefer posting them on my personal page

 

[lovethaifood]

Not gonna lie man, this brings back PTSD from your review.
I really do think you mean well, but this is a little... too much, you know?

Well Sylar quite honestly in a world of FOX NEWS, internet misinformation, wokism, viral hawk tuah videos, racist/mysognist BS against Kamala Harris going on in my country, if a post gives you PTSD from something I wrote back in March, then I feel sorry for you. Get over it. I had a conversation recently with a Vietnam Vet in his 70s about the PTSD he has for getting shot in the war when he was 19 and his backup taking his point position getting killed two weeks later while he was on leave rehabbing before he came back finished his tour of duty. He cannot bring himself to go to the memorial because it would break him down. Blames himself for getting shot that his backup got killed. That is PTSD. You really are going overboard. Sorry you are so easily triggered.