Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

For the girls in the industry, do you all hang out with each other after work? Or become friends?

Have a girls night out? Etc....

I would like to develop friends in the industry that I can hang out with, not just at events. But I have always had trouble setting aside time in my day to maintain friendships. I have always either been a homebody, or a workaholic. I struggle to maintain long term relationships with people who don't inject themselves into my life somehow.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Cats or dogs ?

Obviously cats

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Intensity ability greatly depends on size.
And always start slow to get into the mood. If it's 'just' intense pounding, you need a blowup doll, not another human being. IMO.

For me it doesn't depend on size but on the person's pace and I agree we are not blowup dolls and a few gents tend to forget that. Thankfully this rarely happens anymore and most clients are respectful

 

[Nachoy]

Meet for drinks at a bar or
let’s get together at coffee shop

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Meet for drinks at a bar or
let’s get together at coffee shop

Both can be nice, but I do prefer meeting for drinks hehe.
This is off topic but I actually really enjoyed a brunch date with a client last summer

 

[LC18]

Meet for drinks at a bar or
let’s get together at coffee shop

There’s no difference for me. I do both regularly especially the coffee one for people that are shy because it’s their first time booking an escort

 

[Nachoy]

Early bird or night owl ?

 

[Rebaynia]

Early bird or night owl ?

Early bird. And the longer I wait to get going, less likely I am going at all that day.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Early bird or night owl ?

I used to be a night owl but that changed during the pandemic.. I wake up pretty early now. Specially in the winter, I can't afford to waste a few hours of light, it's better for my mental health

 

[Julia Sky]

Cats or dogs ?

Yes!!!

 

[Nachoy]

Yes!!!

What’s that mean? Both ?

 

[Nachoy]

Flats or heels?

 

[Julia Sky]

What’s that mean? Both ?

Yes haha

 

[Michelle Gunn]

Flats or heels?

Depends on the occasion

 

[LC18]

I appreciate everyone’s curiosity but can we please remain on topic and ask questions industry related…

 

[TheJames101]

If you have to refuse a client after he's already undressed - say, you see something on his dick that's not quite right (ie. an infection)... how does that conversation usually go? I can't imagine it's anything but awkward, and I can see some guys might not take it too well. Service can't continue... but yet, payment should still be made...

 

[Jaxan]

Reading posts from a separate thread, I was curious about the decision to post face pics. I assume, the majority who decided against it, was for safety/personal life reasons. But for those who decided to post their face pics, how has it impacted your life positively/negatively in your professional and personal lives?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

But for those who decided to post their face pics, how has it impacted your life positively/negatively in your professional and personal lives?

Everyone knows around me, so nothing is impacted on that side. I didn't want anyone to have power over me if they found out, it's the life I chose. Professionally, the impact is positive mostly. I feel that one of the improvements is being able to direct most of my energy toward in-person appointments rather than marketing.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Reading posts from a separate thread, I was curious about the decision to post face pics. I assume, the majority who decided against it, was for safety/personal life reasons. But for those who decided to post their face pics, how has it impacted your life positively/negatively in your professional and personal lives?

I've been face out since the beginning. It hasn't impacted my life because people know what I do. Also, I'm a creative type of person and my career path is not really impacted by me being a SW. If anything, people finding out about it might get me more business because people want to be supportive. Certain situations have happened that made me feel very uncomfortable, but I was vocal about it and made it clear that my boundaries are not to be crossed.

I do feel like I get more bookings than some people because I'm face out, and that's a huge advantage.

 

[Rebaynia]

Reading posts from a separate thread, I was curious about the decision to post face pics. I assume, the majority who decided against it, was for safety/personal life reasons. But for those who decided to post their face pics, how has it impacted your life positively/negatively in your professional and personal lives?

In my civi life, anyone who is close enough to me is told what I do. It takes the power out of others gossiping about what I do. It isn't some taboo secorite.
I don't travel, and don't have any desire to travel, so states isn't an issue for me.
Next in my civi professional life, I wear a mask to not be identified in public. Thanks to covid, it is perfectly acceptable to wear masks now.
And am face out in my ads lol... .
Partly because I think my face more attractive than my body, so if I want to entice someone's interest, it will be with something I feel more confident with.
I think my business would suffer if I was hidden face. There are a lot of hot providers to choose from, I think my face is something that sets me apart in it's own way. Though the providers I have met so far, seem to be beautiful people inside and out, despite whether they are face out or not.