Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

Name a gift that wasn't the typical normal type of gift that most SPs get from a client(i.e. lingerie, flowers, sweets, perfume) or a gift that wasn't on your wishlist, that you received and loved. What was it about the gift that made it special for you?

Honestly gift cards because I can order things online and buy art and craft supplies and don't have to go shopping around. I usually receive your usual gifts of flowers and sweets.. I tend to enjoy gifts that will be of use to me because i have a lot of hobbies and side hustles that require a lot of purchases... I also enjoy useful gifts.

One gift I really wish I could receive is a regular client to take me shopping for groceries honestly.. or kitchen and house supplies.

Also some gifts don't cost money. I wish someone helped me fix my oven for example.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Hotel question for the SPs. There is a thread on MERB about non keycard elevator hotels. I guess the idea is if a client is worried about being seen in the lobby bringing a SP up to their room or doesn't want hotel concierge/front desk to see/know that they are bringing up a female guest, it maintains their discretion if SP can just come up to the room by themselves. My question is in your entire career as an SP has there ever been a time where you met a client in the lobby and either the frontdesk/concierge said something to the client or another person/hotel guest in lobby saw your client and said something to them? In addition has a client ever run into a friend while on a date with you?

There's often a lot of people in hotel lobbies and honestly no one has ever paid attention to me.. the reason why we like to know if there's a key card needed to go up the elevator is either for the clients comfort like if he's in the same hotel as colleagues or just to know if he has to meet me downstairs or if he can just wait in his room.

 

[Rebaynia]

Hotel question for the SPs. There is a thread on MERB about non keycard elevator hotels. I guess the idea is if a client is worried about being seen in the lobby bringing a SP up to their room or doesn't want hotel concierge/front desk to see/know that they are bringing up a female guest, it maintains their discretion if SP can just come up to the room by themselves. My question is in your entire career as an SP has there ever been a time where you met a client in the lobby and either the frontdesk/concierge said something to the client or another person/hotel guest in lobby saw your client and said something to them? In addition has a client ever run into a friend while on a date with you?

I have people meet me outside instead of in the lobby. I don't like the feeling of staff watching us as we meet the first time. I prefer we meet outside, and enter, on his arm like we belong there together. And just go straight up to his room.

 

[lovethaifood]

I have people meet me outside instead of in the lobby. I don't like the feeling of staff watching us as we meet the first time. I prefer we meet outside, and enter, on his arm like we belong there together. And just ho straight up to his room.

I think you should head up straight to his room, if you ho straight up to his room, you might give away why you are walking in together.

 

[LC18]

Do you have a preference how you like the client to cum?
What Positions do you like to receive cum
And are there certain ways you don’t want to receive cum? Like anal/pelvic/oral/facial. Etc.

Seriously? I mean at this point it just feels like you are coming here and typing with one hand while the other one is in your pants.

I have stopped replying because it just feels like fuelling your spankbank

 

[lovethaifood]

I have stopped replying because it just feels like fuelling your spankbank

I am dying laughing!!! Thank you Lena. Spankbank!! Has to go into oxford dictionary as an official word. Ha!!!

 

[Nachoy]

Seriously? I mean at this point it just feels like you are coming here and typing with one hand while the other one is in your pants.

I have stopped replying because it just feels like fuelling your spankbank

The clients in this forum have countless threads talking ad nauseam about what positions and how they like to cum on SP.
I just want to know feelings and the reaction from
other side
Is that wrong of me?
It helps me know what the boundaries to respect when meeting SPs
I know everyone is different
If you don’t want to answer that’s okay.

 

[LC18]

It helps me know what the boundaries to respect when meeting SPs
I know everyone is different

Then ask the people you’re going to meet????

How does it help to know the preferences of women you’re never going to meet?

 

[Nachoy]

Then ask the people you’re going to meet????

How does it help to know the preferences of women you’re never going to meet?

Same reason you choose to create threads about asking client’s preferences
You can easily ask them in person but you choose to ask here
Get different opinions and I’m sure it’s help you understand your clients better
Why you denied my curiosity?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

The clients in this forum have countless threads talking ad nauseam about what positions and how they like to cum on SP.
I just want to know feelings and the reaction from
other side
Is that wrong of me?
It helps me know what the boundaries to respect when meeting SPs
I know everyone is different
If you don’t want to answer that’s okay.

Do you ever actually meet SPs?
Every SP has different boundaries and preferences. SP is also really a general term. What you experience at a MP vs with an indy or someone who works for an agency won't be the same. The SP's who contribute to discussions like the one we're having now in this forum are indies. And we all offer very different services.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Same reason you choose to create threads about asking client’s preferences
You can easily ask them in person but you choose to ask here
Get different opinions and I’m sure it’s help you understand your clients better
Why you denied my curiosity?

It's actually not the same because often clients don't say their desires and preferences and come complain here about how we didn't fulfill their expectations. For example 2 clients complained that I didn't DT them on 2 different review boards, but they never asked for it, before or during the appointment, and it's not something I ever said I offered. (not that I never do it, cause I do) I ask questions to clients out of curiosity but I know their answers will always vary anyways, just like ours. We're the ones providing the service. Your questions are just very very specific and that one is graphic. I'd never ask ''how do you like to cum with SP's'' here.

 

[LC18]

Same reason you choose to create threads about asking client’s preferences

I ask very general questions that can help my peers and myself.

Have you ever seen me ask clients if they prefer to cum in someone’s a** or in their kitty? That’s very specific and should only be asked to your date.

 

[Nachoy]

I ask very general questions that can help my peers and myself.

Have you ever seen me ask clients if they prefer to cum in someone’s a** or in their kitty? That’s very specific and should only be asked to your date.

Merb is full of threads of graphic details of how guys like to cum
But it’s usually guys to like to boast graphic details to other guys
I was looking for responses from the other side like
“I don’t like when guy cums on my face cause it might mess my hair or makeup or it gets my eye ” so it helps me and my peers when they want it but not sure how to approach that subject
Some guys are to shy to ask straight up when meeting.

 

[LC18]

Merb is full of threads of graphic details of how guys like to cum
But it’s usually guys to like to boast graphic details to other guys
I was looking for responses from the other side like
“I don’t like when guy cums on my face cause it might mess my hair or makeup or it gets my eye ” so it helps me and my peers when they want it but not sure how to approach that subject
Some guys are to shy to ask straight up when meeting.

My last reply because I hate derailing.

So you really don’t see the difference.

They are self posting, they are sharing their own opinion and preferences. You are asking very detailed and graphic questions.

Of course I’m going to assume that you’re asking to jerk off at night…

 

[themonk83]

Probably me but I'm seeing warning signs of predatory behavior and have to say, it is off putting

Sorry, didn't want to derail

 

[lovethaifood]

I ask very general questions that can help my peers and myself.

Have you ever seen me ask clients if they prefer to cum in someone’s a** or in their kitty? That’s very specific and should only be asked to your date.

Ass please. (Don't hurt me!!!) Lol

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Merb is full of threads of graphic details of how guys like to cum
But it’s usually guys to like to boast graphic details to other guys
I was looking for responses from the other side like
“I don’t like when guy cums on my face cause it might mess my hair or makeup or it gets my eye ” so it helps me and my peers when they want it but not sure how to approach that subject
Some guys are to shy to ask straight up when meeting.

Honestly I think this is manipulative LOL a lot of SP's wouldn't allow a guy to cum on their face. And you already answered your own question. Some SP's indeed do not want cum on their face and hair because it will mess up their makeup. You're shooting yourself in the foot.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Ass please. (Don't hurt me!!!) Lol

We agreed not to talk about last night... boundaries, boundaries....

 

[Nachoy]

Honestly I think this is manipulative LOL a lot of SP's wouldn't allow a guy to cum on their face. And you already answered your own question. Some SP's indeed do not want cum on their face and hair because it will mess up their makeup. You're shooting yourself in the foot.

There’s ad of a SP that allows it but has to be the last client of the day. I suppose that is when the make up and hair and cum can be washed off.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Same reason you choose to create threads about asking client’s preferences
You can easily ask them in person but you choose to ask here
Get different opinions and I’m sure it’s help you understand your clients better
Why you denied my curiosity?

His/her argument is not wrong in that it doesn't violate any rules and considering the graphic details people share, not anything new either.

The spirit in which the questions are asked can be off putting to some. Although I suspect you're asking these things tongue and cheek, and in a humoristic intent.

Not sure how any answers here would actually benefit you. Everyone is different.