Ask us anything part 3

[MCTJ]

I agree with cap'tain, ridiculous. That's a very personal opinion on your part - there is nothing unclean about a long beard if the person wearing it has good hygiene. A clean beard is cleaner than a beardless face that hasn't been properly washed in 3 days.

That's why I said that they look unclean, not that they are unclean.

-Team clean-shaven

 

[drmilford]

Question for clients : when you encounter an SP's social media presence and you like her personality and her looks, how long does it take until you finally book her? Do you sometimes book right away, and other times wait for months until you see her? I've had clients tell me they had been following me for a year before booking me, and I always find that puzzling, but also interesting because it means they are taking the time to carefully choose the right moment to see me..

it takes a long time, because its a risky decision. I am not talking about the financial cost-which can be significant for many- nothing is worse than no chemistry encounter, its basically paying to get humiliated and hurt.
This used to be much less of a concern in the past because most SPs back then would have provided a basic minimum service regardless of chemistry-one can say they had better work ethics- but those days are long gone .
now its almost like a normal date - you pay intimacy might happen or not- with one big difference, dates can still be enjoyable even if the intimacy does not happen, one can enjoy the food, the show (or whatever the date activity was), but in case of meeting a SP all comes to intimacy, and if that does not happen its a horrible experience

 

[Lunaseraphim]

it takes a long time, because its a risky decision. I am not talking about the financial cost-which can be significant for many- nothing is worse than hearing no chemistry encounter, its basically paying to get humiliated and hurt.
This used to be much less of a concern in the past because most SPs back then would have provided a basic minimum service regardless of chemistry-one can say they had better work ethics- but those days are long gone .
now its almost like a normal date - you pay intimacy might happen or not- with one big difference, dates can still be enjoyable even if the intimacy does not happen, one can enjoy the food, the show (or whatever the date activity was), but in case of meeting a SP all comes to intimacy, and if that does not happen its a horrible experience

That's confusing to me because intimacy always happens during my GFE bookings unless the client is the one who's not in the mood for it.. I always get puzzled when hearing about chemistry between clients and SP's, it's true that some encounters lack more chemistry than others or sometimes you get along with someone better than another, but it's the first time you meet someone after all.. so obviously you can't expect immediate fireworks unless you are really similar human beings.. (and i have experienced that with clients)

Hearing that you were humiliated by SP's due to ''no chemistry'' also confuses me and makes me sad, I'm sorry that this happened to you... And about SP's currently lacking work ethics.. I don't think this is the case for me or my colleagues. It's surprising for me to hear that service wasn't provided. I guess I have more questions for you.. When service doesn't happen during the booking, did you sit there and wait for the SP to make the first move? How is it possible that the SP refused to provide service if you were clean and acted respectful? Obviously there are scammers, etc.

 

[Nachoy]

SPs. After having sex with clients do you feel like you want to masturbate more or less ?

 

[Julia Sky]

That's why I said that they look unclean, not that they are unclean.

-Team clean-shaven

I respectfully disagree, but you're free to have your opinion. A well maintained beard, to the contrary, is a sign of good hygiene to me. Because it requires time, dedication and a desire to be on top of your hygiene to maintain a beard this long without it looking bad, dry etc.

A 4 days beard looks more unclean to me than a long beard like that but ultimately I don't think anything of people with beards, really, unless it's visibly gross and not cared for

 

[Julia Sky]

SPs. After having sex with clients do you feel like you want to masturbate more or less ?

It honestly depends (on the client, my mood, how the session went, how long it was, did I orgasm, etc).

I often masturbate right after a client leaves, but I also often just go home and lie in my couch and call it a night lol

 

[MichelleMontreal]

It honestly depends (on the client, my mood, how the session went, how long it was, did I orgasm, etc).

I often masturbate right after a client leaves, but I also often just go home and lie in my couch and call it a night lol

I'm glad you said this because same.

 

[CaptRenault]

Approximately what percent of your income do you save and/or invest for long term future needs (such as buying a home, retirement, or future living expenses when you stop escorting)?

Ladies, why are you reluctant to answer this question?

 

[MichelleMontreal]

Ladies, why are you reluctant to answer this question?

because it's none of your business

 

[Nachoy]

Do you feel more motivated for sex during certain days of the monthly menstrual cycle

 

[CaptRenault]

because it's none of your business

As I suspected, the title of this thread is meaningless. It should be, “Ask us anything that we can respond to with an answer that makes us look good and helps our business.”

Nevertheless, my question was serious and the reluctance to answer it shows that many escorts fail to manage their finances wisely. It’s a stereotype about escorts, but it seems to have a lot of basis in fact.

I am sure there are also a lot of clients who fail to manage their finances wisely. But the intent of this thread is to ask questions of escorts, not clients.

 

[Fradi]

As I suspected, the title of this thread is meaningless. It should be, “Ask us anything that we can respond to with an answer that makes us look good and helps our business.”

Nevertheless, my question was serious and the reluctance to answer it shows that many escorts fail to manage their finances wisely. It’s a stereotype about escorts, but it seems to have a lot of basis in fact.

I am sure there are also a lot of clients who fail to manage their finances wisely. But the intent of this thread is to ask questions of escorts, not clients.

I don’t think most people are that naive that we don’t recognize that these threads are a type of free advertising and yes it is for the ladies that post to give a bit more information about their personality and maybe attract more clients.

I think the trade off is absolutely valuable. We get to know a little more about them, what they think what is important to them basically how all of us can make things easier to be with each other and make it more enjoyable. It helps clients also.
If nothing more we each get a little closer to who we would like to be with and who we want to avoid on both sides.

 

[CaptRenault]

...it is for the ladies that post to give a bit more information about their personality and maybe attract more clients...

I have always thought that it's better for an escort to maintain an air of mystery about herself. She shouldn't share too much about herself, her life, values, etc., especially on a site like MERB. Her job is to provide a fantasy for the client and talking about herself too much can ruin the fantasy. You don't see the really expensive, high class girls or most agency girls constantly posting on MERB and I think that's better for them.

 

[Fradi]

Or alienate more clients, as the case may be.

That is also a distinct possibility.
Either way it saves time and effort on both sides.

 

[Zero_Six]

I have always thought that it's better for an escort to maintain an air of mystery about herself. She shouldn't share too much about herself, her life, values, etc., especially on a site like MERB. Her job is to provide a fantasy for the client and talking about herself too much can ruin the fantasy. You don't see the really expensive, high class girls or most agency girls constantly posting on MERB and I think that's better for them.

So... You want escorts to maintain an air of mystery but are also asking them why they wont divulge their finances or answer absolutely any question that gets asked here? Why are you here exactly?

 

[CaptRenault]

So... You want escorts to maintain an air of mystery but are also asking them why they wont divulge their finances or answer absolutely any question that gets asked here? Why are you here exactly?

I proved my point.

 

[NFLMEL]

So... You want escorts to maintain an air of mystery but are also asking them why they wont divulge their finances or answer absolutely any question that gets asked here? Why are you here exactly?

Asking how much someone puts away does not divulge their finances. It doesn't tell you what they earn or what their debt is. My dad taught me to put away/invest 10-15 % every check, that info tells you nothing about my finances.

 

[MichelleMontreal]

As I suspected, the title of this thread is meaningless. It should be, “Ask us anything that we can respond to with an answer that makes us look good and helps our business.”

Nevertheless, my question was serious and the reluctance to answer it shows that many escorts fail to manage their finances wisely. It’s a stereotype about escorts, but it seems to have a lot of basis in fact.

I am sure there are also a lot of clients who fail to manage their finances wisely. But the intent of this thread is to ask questions of escorts, not clients.

The thread is not called "we will answer anything about anything"

If you've ever worked for yourself you would also know that it's much more difficult to calculate than taking 10% off your biweekly cheque.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

So... You want escorts to maintain an air of mystery but are also asking them why they wont divulge their finances or answer absolutely any question that gets asked here? Why are you here exactly?

I wouldn’t pay too much attention to anyone who, on a public forum, chooses to call himself captain *fill in *

 

[Giselle Montreal]

As I suspected, the title of this thread is meaningless. It should be, “Ask us anything that we can respond to with an answer that makes us look good and helps our business.”

You can ask all the questions you want, I am all for it. I choose to answer those that interest me, I never thought we were obligated to participate in this thread.

the reluctance to answer it shows that many escorts fail to manage their finances wisely. It’s a stereotype about escorts, but it seems to have a lot of basis in fact.

Indeed, I suck greatly. Financially wise too.