I personally decided to allow 30 min and 45 min pre-bookings, which is something I didn't do in the past.. So yes, some will probably be more willing to accommodate clients in different ways during slower months, but I wouldn't count on everyone changing their policies. Last winter I had no problem finding clients, even if yes it was a bit slower.
That's a big part of why it can be complicated. And for those of us who receive from home, a same day booking involves preparation and extra carefulness if we are meeting up with a new client. Outcalls require much less preparation, but it's still a change of schedule, going to a different part of town, etc.
Good for you, but I don’t. Like I said, you are rather available or you are not. Keep it simple.
Because I don’t know in advance if I will feel like seeing an escort. I don’t plan my desire. And so far, I am able to get satisfied without causing anxiety to anyone.
I don't have negative energy. I'm just trying to explain to clients sometimes why this job can be stressful. It's not just me. There are many things I love about this work, I'm just trying to explain something from our perspective. I understand that you don't know in advance and that's totally fine. I'm not accusing you of causing anxiety, either. I'm just saying that it can be more complicated to receive someone at the last minute, that's all. But I do feel grateful when I have an appointment I wasn't expecting, particularly if it's a client I've already seen and get along with
The conversation wasn't geared towards seeing regulars. Obviously with a regular communication is going to be far less formal and you already know times that generally work and what is going to be acceptable.
It was about pre-booking, I didn’t see any specific mention about being with a regular or not. When I see an escort mentioning on her website that same day appointment comes with a $100 over charge I don’t assume anything else but what I read.
I think it is called the spontaneous horniness tax and most guys will pay it, the little brain most often gets what it wants when it wants it bad enough.
I am glad I reached that age where, my upper brain signals travel faster than my lower brain ones! Lmao
Are you in the MTL area? While I see both sides, I tend to relate to you more as I am an out of towner who doesn't have a set schedule when I am visiting. I usually have to set personal appointments around work schedules and other obligations which means prebooking can be a huge inconvenience if plans change. I'm one who never misses an appointment unless it's a serious emergency, but I have had others change their schedules on me. That's fine if I didn't live three time zones away, I suppose. I find it easier for all parties to book within a much shorter window which is often less than 24 hours. If a particular provider is not available because of that, so be it... I've found some absolute gems because I was forced to change scheduled plans last minute.
It short circuits sometimes, the little guy can be quite demanding if aroused.
It’s been a very long time since this happened to me. As long as my needs can be met within a reasonable amount of time I am safe from the little guy’s mood.
It's okay that you do same day appointments specially with regulars. Hours ahead is fine. J'aime juste pas ça quand quelqu'un me dit ''je peux tu venir te voir dans 1 heure'' lol
It's exactly what I mean. On the sites that have ads a good majority are geared towards quick transactions right now. The whole "read the room" thing comes into play.
If I post on leolist I know it will be for last minute appointments! People who find me here or on tryst pre-book often or they ask hours ahead
