Ask us anything part 3

[LeDodo]

Yes, sometimes it happens. It happened a lot more when I first started.. I personally have mixed feelings about it and I'm not alone. Makeup is part of my ritual and it just makes me feel better about myself. I usually accept tho.. I understand if the client is allergic to certain products or is afraid a stain will be left on his clothes, but sometimes I feel like certain people are under the impression that makeup can change someone's face so drastically that we are ''catfishing'' them and they want to know what we look like without it. This is annoying to me. It's also ok to prefer no makeup or light makeup.. we've had many conversations about it here, tho. Really often men think makeup = bright colors and sparkles. They don't notice natural looking makeup.

So would you discuss about your lack of comfort or just accept it?
I was more seeing this request as a regular who find you attractive without makeup

Then I was wondering if there is a request to spend the night there will be no makeup removal before sleeping?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

So would you discuss about your lack of comfort or just accept it?
I was more seeing this request as a regular who find you attractive without makeup

Then I was wondering if there is a request to spend the night there will be no makeup removal before sleeping?

Obviously I'll remove my makeup during an overnight but it's really rare that I get such requests lol. If a regular asks me to wear no makeup or less makeup I'll say yes, it's less preparation for me

 

[LeDodo]

Have you ever been interrupted by someone knocking at the door like a delivery, fire safety visit, etc? If yes what did you do?

 

[LC18]

Have you ever been interrupted by someone knocking at the door like a delivery, fire safety visit, etc? If yes what did you do?

Yes many times. One time I was at this fancier hotel with a man and room service kept knocking at the door to offer complementary service like chocolates, water and a book about the hotel

It felt like they were doing it on purpose.

He just had the door ajar and told them “thank you we don’t need anything”

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Have you ever been interrupted by someone knocking at the door like a delivery, fire safety visit, etc? If yes what did you do?

It's happened that I was interrupted by a delivery yes, I just got dressed and went to pick up the package but those were not pleasant experiences. This has never happened to me at a hotel or anywhere else however.

 

[Rebaynia]

Have you ever been interrupted by someone knocking at the door like a delivery, fire safety visit, etc? If yes what did you do?

Ohhhh we were interrupted once... I wish it were delivery, or something simple like that.

It was a second visit, and apparently he and his gf were in an argument. Lived appart.

When I arrived his phone went off a time or 2, he ignored it. I thought nothing of it. We were well I to our visit, when his gf showed up, yelling for him and just barged into the room.
The rest of the visit was her yelling, while I still demanded I need my shower, so go deal with his business, as there is nothing emotional with us, but he has to deal with this long after I am gone. There was no fighting between her and I. It was never braught up I was there for escorting, she just thought he was playing me trying to get a local to marry him for citizenship. The only negative thing she said to me was I was old. But under the circumstances, that's actually one of the nicest things that someone might say when walking in and seeing their man, deep in someone else. It was not a good situation to be in, but was relieved her anger was him, and not me.

Was able to go from bedroom to shower, clean, got dressed in the bathroom and left. He was trying to cater to my discomfort, while I was telling him take care of her discomfort, and I just want to make sure i don't have to deal with any fights because of his stupidity...

Apparently he wrote her just as I was arriving, 'Do not come over.' While she was pissed at him... yeah right. Any man in a relationship knows, that is not the moment to call someone over to your bedroom.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Ohhhh we were interrupted once... I wish it were delivery, or something simple like that.

It was a second visit, and apparently he and his gf were in an argument. Lived appart.

When I arrived his phone went off a time or 2, he ignored it. I thought nothing of it. We were well I to our visit, when his gf showed up, yelling for him and just barged into the room.
The rest of the visit was her yelling, while I still demanded I need my shower, so go deal with his business, as there is nothing emotional with us, but he has to deal with this long after I am gone. There was no fighting between her and I. It was never braught up I was there for escorting, she just thought he was playing me trying to get a local to marry him for citizenship. The only negative thing she said to me was I was old. But under the circumstances, that's actually one of the nicest things that someone might say when walking in and seeing their man, deep in someone else. It was not a good situation to be in, but was relieved her anger was him, and not me.

Was able to go from bedroom to shower, clean, got dressed in the bathroom and left. He was trying to cater to my discomfort, while I was telling him take care of her discomfort, and I just want to make sure i don't have to deal with any fights because of his stupidity...

Apparently he wrote her just as I was arriving, 'Do not come over.' While she was pissed at him... yeah right. Any man in a relationship knows, that is not the moment to call someone over to your bedroom.

This is such an uncomfortable situation.... Some people really lack judgement...

 

[Rebaynia]

This is such an uncomfortable situation.... Some people really lack judgement...

It helps to handle it with class though. I understood her place, and she didn't come after me in the attack, but I also didn't try to take any of the focus, I'm not fighting for the man, I'm not laying stakes on him. Not my fight. She is hurt and defending her feelings that he hurt.
Things escalate depending on how someone behaves themselves in the situation.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Have you ever been interrupted by someone knocking at the door like a delivery, fire safety visit, etc? If yes what did you do?

Lol one of my session was cut short with an incendy alarm in the hotel. The whole hotel had to be evacuated. I was laughing so hard.

 

[Nachoy]

If exchange of money wasn't an option, who would be your prefer demographic population to engage in sex with
Would it still be with attached older gentlemen?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If exchange of money wasn't an option, who would be your prefer demographic population to engage in sex with
Would it still be with attached older gentlemen?

Why do you assume that clients are all ''older gentlemen''? There are literally 21 year olds reaching out to book me. I saw a 26 year old guy yesterday. By ''exchange of money'' you mean it's our job.
Also, most of my clients are not married or in a relationship.

 

[Nachoy]

Why do you assume that clients are all ''older gentlemen''? There are literally 21 year olds reaching out to book me. I saw a 26 year old guy yesterday. By ''exchange of money'' you mean it's our job.
Also, most of my clients are not married or in a relationship.

I’m not assuming. That what I was told by a few SPs, that the clients that see them are mostly older and attached
Sure there are young dudes too and unmarried but I don’t think that’s the majority

 

[LC18]

I’m not assuming. That what I was told by a few SPs, that the clients that see them are mostly older and attached
Sure there are young dudes too and unmarried but I don’t think that’s the majority

Everyone has a different type of clientele…

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I’m not assuming. That what I was told by a few SPs, that the clients that see them are mostly older and attached
Sure there are young dudes too and unmarried but I don’t think that’s the majority

A lot of men nowadays are in their 30's and 40's and unmarried and not in a relationship.. Also a lot of men in their 40's and 50's and 60's are divorced. I think it's a cliche that only older married men hire sex workers.. No, I don't prefer older married men. If I wasn't a sex worker, I would be having sex with very few people, and the people I would date would definitely NOT be older married men.

We don't choose our clientele even if we create our branding to attract a certain type of person, meaning it's not our decision to be picked by married guys. A lot of men choose us because of our body type, or because we are the type of girl they would like to date for real. At least that's what I am usually told by my clients.. Obviously most clients are over 30 for financial reasons but I don't consider 30-40 year old men ''older gentlemen''...

And I'm not saying that because I judge married men for hiring sex workers or because I don't find older men attractive.. It's not my place to judge. But due to my branding and the way I present myself I mostly attract very similar types of men as I do in my personal life.. nerdy or artsy men, and bisexual men lol usually the much older men, and the guys who are in a relationship pick me more because of my rates, services and body type, and it's a completely different type of dynamic.

Some colleagues have told me they prefer seeing married men because they are less demanding emotionally and there's less talking, it's less work for them. Personally I like the relational aspect of being a SP and I like conversations..

 

[Rebaynia]

If exchange of money wasn't an option, who would be your prefer demographic population to engage in sex with
Would it still be with attached older gentlemen?

Hmmm, if I stop to think about it, would the demographic change? Not likely. I only accept the visits I agree to having. It isn't a guarantee just because someone reaches out, that i get to see them.

I have my comparison to go by though.
In 'exchange of money', his pleasure matters more than before I was compensated.

In my single days, when I wasn't an SP, , dudes job being invited into my bed was, make it worth my while. If his goal wasn't my pleasure above his own, he was easily ghosted and never reinvited back.

And for those who did a good job, they were issued a day of the week they could expect me to reserve for them. My guys all knew I had other guys, some even got excited about hearing what I did, with say the one from yesterday, or earlier on in the week. They knew their place was to be used as my toy to get off, otherwise they wouldn't be there.

There is a reason I fantasized this kind of relationship I am in now. I just needed to find the relationship, before I could enjoy being the taboo who got paid for it. (I needed the relationship more than the sex, but also feared if I was charging for the sex I needed, I would never find the relationship willing to be part of that. In my twisted brain, there is romance in waiting for things to align, and if we never found eachother, I never would have let him or anyone know, it was something I was ashamed to desire.)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Hmmm, if I stop to think about it, would the demographic change? Not likely. I only accept the visits I agree to having. It isn't a guarantee just because someone reaches out, that i get to see them.

I have my comparison to go by though.
In 'exchange of money', his pleasure matters more than before I was compensated.

In my single days, when I wasn't an SP, , dudes job being invited into my bed was, make it worth my while. If his goal wasn't my pleasure above his own, he was easily ghosted and never reinvited back.

And for those who did a good job, they were issued a day of the week they could expect me to reserve for them. My guys all knew I had other guys, some even got excited about hearing what I did, with say the one from yesterday, or earlier on in the week. They knew their place was to be used as my toy to get off, otherwise they wouldn't be there.

There is a reason I fantasized this kind of relationship I am in now. I just needed to find the relationship, before I could enjoy being the taboo who got paid for it. (I needed the relationship more than the sex, but also feared if I was charging for the sex I needed, I would never find the relationship willing to be part of that. In my twisted brain, there is romance in waiting for things to align, and if we never found eachother, I never would have let him or anyone know, it was something I was ashamed to desire.)

I don't accept seeing all the clients who reach out. They have to be polite, follow requirements and respect my boundaries. But I'm here to provide a service.. If I refused to see a client just because he's not my type or we have nothing in common, that wouldn't be professional of me, and I'd have a lot less business. Sometimes clients do happen to be my type or to be people I have a lot in common with and a connection, tho! And the more I work on my branding, the more I attract the right people.. I'm also the kind of person to find something wonderful and beautiful about everyone I meet. (as long as they are not an asshole)

But yeah, in my personal life, I'm not someone who likes to have many different lovers. So if you're my client, you are lucky I'm in this industry and you get to know this side of my personality I'm a very private person and I'm not someone who is ''easily accessible'' outside of this.

 

[LeDodo]

Why do you assume that clients are all ''older gentlemen''? There are literally 21 year olds reaching out to book me. I saw a 26 year old guy yesterday. By ''exchange of money'' you mean it's our job.
Also, most of my clients are not married or in a relationship.

Asking for a "friend" question

 

[DouMan]

... and I'm not someone who is ''easily accessible'' outside of this.

This is a very interesting point and surprisingly seems to be quite common, at least for those that I have come to know more on a personal side over the years. In the beginning, as many dudes, the impression was that sexual availability was omnipresent with libido always in the roof and cloths easily optional. In reality it seems often to be the total opposite. The faster we get to understand this the better it allows us guys to better comprehend, enjoy and respect sex-WORK. We too often focus on the image and tend to forget the woman.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Asking for a "friend" question

I mean to be fair a lot of women in their 20's and 30's prefer older men, but I don't think it's something that is particular to providers, and I doubt most girls join the industry because they want to date & have sex with older men.. We're also not a monolith. That is also not my case. SW made me appreciate older men more and find them attractive tho. There are some hot 60 year olds out there.

This is a very interesting point and surprisingly seems to be quite common, at least for those that I have come to know more on a personal side over the years. In the beginning, as many dudes, the impression was that sexual availability was omnipresent with libido always in the roof and cloths easily optional. In reality it seems often to be the total opposite. The faster we get to understand this the better it allows us guys to better comprehend, enjoy and respect sex-WORK. We too often focus on the image and tend to forget the woman.

There are definitely sex workers who love sex with a wide variety of people, and that's really cool they can explore their sexuality that way. But yeah, what I have to offer is not a wild porn star experience, even if I'm pretty confident that most of my lovers leave very satisfied I just feel like sometimes expectations and stereotypes put us in a weird position.. We are supposed to be genuine and offer an experience that doesn't ''feel transactional'', but we are also supposed to conform to a certain image and offer everyone the same service..

 

[Skym]

How do you like your eggs cooked in the morning?